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Rayne58 -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/4/2006 6:07:20 PM)

Hmmm......having my cervix bumped hard is not a nice experience. And there are some places of mine where a 10 inch cock is just not going to go, because to me it is just scary. Master bought a 10 inch g spot vibe and I looked at it in the packet and said that is just not going to fit.....it fits in my vagina after some warming up but no way in hell is it going anywhere else![&o]

I have been with 5 men sexually. Only Master and one other have had anal sex with me. The ones with the average sized cocks (5-6 inches). Of the others, one was my ex husband (nuff said[8|]), of the other two one was about 8" and the other a little shorter but much thicker. I had difficulty giving oral to them (I have a smallish mouth and no way was I able to deep throat) and anal was most definitely out of the question. When I told Master about it He said it would have been possible with a lot of working up to but I have had a bad experience in the past so I wasn't keen to try.

Master and I don't often have penis/vagina or anal sex because of His health issues, but there's so much more to sex than that and He has a deviously inventive and wicked mind that more than makes up for it [;)][:D]



JassWolf -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/4/2006 6:13:53 PM)

Eyes that show laughter/passion/anger/etc/etc.
Hair that is soft and shiny. Major bonus points for red.
Hips, round, defined and separated.
Pelvic dimples -- not even all thin women have these, but when they are there ... be still my quaking heart!
A body that is natural. You know what I mean.
Makeup that is not garish.

JW



Tikkiee -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/4/2006 10:00:43 PM)

Actually two things, combined together
 
Intelligence and tattoos
 
Don't know why, but those two seem to work wonders for me ...but they have to be together. Intelligence is ok by itself, but it's not swoon material. Tattoos are ok by themselves, but, again, not swoon material. But put them together and .....mmmmm [:)]



shivvy -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/5/2006 12:00:43 AM)

somebody who looks exactly like johnny depp would be nice[;)]
 
no, seriously, i thing the most beautiful thing about a bloke, other than his mind his attitude, has got to be, without doubt, his eyes. a nice smile, fresh breath and big manly hands are prolly a very, VERY close second.



Wolfie648 -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/5/2006 2:05:11 AM)

quote:

Why do some men assume that most women want a huge cock?

 
Why not?
 
Some do, some don't, some will, some won't some...where over the rainbow....

D (owner of j)



Samwhiplash -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/5/2006 2:19:10 AM)

I agree with LA... their ability to kiss has got to be the top.

Having encountered men with HUGE cocks in the past - I can safely say that I wont be letting another one near me again. Give me average any day - one that will actually fit !



MMMMudd -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/5/2006 3:15:16 AM)

Show me a man with a cock bigger than his fist and I'll show you a man too insipid to speak to.
 
Mudd



twicehappy -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/5/2006 3:44:53 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa


Not a rant,  just curious as to what sexual attribute  <if any> impresses you most about a potential?


For me the most important sex organ is their brain. Though i have to admit a penis that is small is not as entertaining and a penis that is huge(11inches an over or too thick)is too hard to do anything with.

Master is close to huge(i still cannot swallow all of him)but just shy enough of huge to be amazing no matter where he wishes to ...implement it.



ScooterTrash -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/5/2006 4:07:58 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: twicehappy

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa


Not a rant,  just curious as to what sexual attribute  <if any> impresses you most about a potential?


For me the most important sex organ is their brain. Though i have to admit a penis that is small is not as entertaining and a penis that is huge(11inches an over or too thick)is too hard to do anything with.

Master is close to huge(i still cannot swallow all of him)but just shy enough of huge to be amazing no matter where he wishes to ...implement it.
Shhhhhhhhhhh...you'll scare someone...lol.
In all honesty, on either side of the spectrum, I think the mind, the essence of the person, is the most interesting attribute they can have. When it all boils down, we all have basically the same parts, well obviously there are different sets for the different sexes..lol, but what drives those parts can be very sensual. Certainly I will notice physical parts, but if their brain doesn't go with the rest of the package, it's not going to be a fulfilling experience. I'd take a smart, witty, intelligent gal over a dingaling with killer knockers (big or small don't matter..killer is in the eyes of the beholder) and cute ass anyday....of course if they have all that and smart too, it doesn't hurt...lol.



RavenMuse -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/5/2006 5:04:41 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MHOO314
Tall with great eyes, a dashing smile and a great sense of humor.


*tips hat and gives a little nod* [;)]

But MH I didn't know you cared dear [:D]



MySweetSubmssive -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/5/2006 6:10:54 AM)

Men who present themselves by cock size are missing some attributes that I am looking for.  If boasting about yourself by the inch is how you do it (and in a first contact), there's already a mismatch there.  I really don't care for that kind of strutting around.  Though maybe it's as one poster said, that some men think that women find this valuable.

Penises that are too many standard deviations from the norm just don't seem to go well with my anatomy.  

Physical attributes that *do* turn my head ... beautiful eyes, great hands, a mobile, beautiful mouth.  I love watching a man move, the way he lives in his body and how he unconsciouly touches himself.  I love leaning in and smelling someone (I read research saying that men chose their mate visually, but women do it by smell -- I guess that's what's happening here).  My height or taller.

Attributes that matter most ... intelligence, emotional intelligence, the ability to be vulerable, sincerity, a firm sense of ethics (makes me hot), a compatible sense of humor and a great kisser.




LaTigresse -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/5/2006 6:30:37 AM)

Okay, given that I do have a closet appreciation of the occasion rare male of the species I will give my $2 worth. There is three qualities that must exist in either sex for me to become interested, intelligence and a great sense of humour combined with a lack of arrogance. IE, the ability to also laugh at themself. If those qualities do not exist they can be the most beautiful human being on earth and they will bore me to utter sleepytime.
Now as for physical yummies that will catch my attention. An intelligent naughty twinkle in the eyes. A deeper voice, whiney sqeaky voices set me on edge. A natural yummy smell. I get turned off by three things, strong stale stanky BO, the smell of cigarettes especially on the breath, and equally ewwww, strong colognes. I have a very senstive nose dammit! I prefer the freshly showered soap and deoderant smell on a man over fancy colognes any day. Hands that say they are a man not an office wussie, clean strong hands. And oddly enough, I find some mens backs very sexy, lack of back hair, somewhat strong leading into muscular arms. Don't wanna see a wimpy arm. And then, something one does not often see, strong muscular legs. Not into the whole chicken leg thing. Obviously some of those are just the shallow, catch my eye long enough to do a double take thing.  It's kind of like, I don't like silicone implants on women in general. However I did fall madly in love with a woman that had them and knowing what they meant to her made them irrelevant. That same woman is 5'10" and I always ogle tiny petite women, go figure!



SusanofO -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/5/2006 6:45:10 AM)

My Sweet Submissive: You brought up hands and I'd forgotten about that. Yes, they are kinda sexy and I just can't put my finger on why. But I love them too.

- Susan



RavenMuse -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/5/2006 7:51:01 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: SusanofO
You brought up hands and I'd forgotten about that. Yes, they are kinda sexy and I just can't put my finger on why.


I can put My finger on it.... maybe that is why she likes My fingers [;)]



WhipTheHip -> Reading words in there most favorable light (8/5/2006 8:30:17 AM)

Hi Ga,
 
> It astounds me that you feel you can speak for ALL men here.
 
Please forgive me, I did not mean each and every such male. I
just wrote the word "All" to emphasize the fact that I believe
few well-endowed men really believe that is what EVERY woman
wants.  Granted, I could be wrong about this, but I try to give 
everyone the benefit of the doubt.  But I can understand how
someone might come to the conclusion that I am wrong about
this.  I don't doubt that a lot of well-endowed men talk as if
they really believed that they have what all women want.  I just
think they talk this way, to sell their asset.
 
> Again with the most generalized statements. You may know
> ALL of the gay women in the world, so maybe you are an
> expert on this type of behavior between gay women, but I
> have known quite a few gay women in my lifetime, my sister
> being one of them, and I have not found that they fight with
> each other any more or less than most het. couples
 
We all tend to speak from our personal experiences, and
generalize from our personal experiences.  Of course, I
could be wrong.  It is just a personal observation I made
from the limited number of gay female couples I've known.
I'm sure there are a large number of gay female couples
that don't fight often.  Some true generalizations have a
lot of exceptions.  And it is quite possible, even likely
that the female gay couples I have known are not
representative of the entire lesbian community.  So, I
also owe an apology for making this remark.  I was just
trying to share an observation made from my personal
experience.
 
> I think you will learn alot if you try to stay away from
> absolute statements. Those tend to hit on the nerves
> of some, like me, for instance.
 
You are right about this, too.  Absolute statement are
almost always wrong, because there are usually many
exceptions to every rule.   For this reason, when
people make absolute statements, I generally assume
they are just using figurative speech or hyperbole. 
 
Best regards,
Michael
 



TemptingNviceSub -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/5/2006 9:28:05 AM)

I guess we all have something that we think turns us on...however...when it truly comes down to it, you could meet someone with said preferable attributes and they still might not do it for you.Until you meet and or get to know someone your judgement could be and more than likely is flawed.That being said, (grin)..for fantasy purposes..my preferences are.....wickedly intelligient,creative mind...a deep voice to melt the ever growing ice..lips that are strong and dominating and passionate...hands wether long and sensitive or square and strong ,rough or soft that know how to calm,caress,squeeze,grip,or command at the appropriate times is all good for me as well......Tempting



TemptingNviceSub -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/5/2006 9:30:58 AM)

ACH! I forgot the ever present cock size...as to that ,as long as the person it is attached too knows ever creatively how to use it then, woohoo..preference being however, if I am to be utterly honest ,average length or better is preferable..that being 5" or more,,,,Tempting



KnightofMists -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/5/2006 9:42:06 AM)

you do realize that now he is going to send you an email and tell you his cock is 5 inches..... since he was actually lying the first time.

But hey he will still guarantee it to satisfy you



MySweetSubmssive -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/5/2006 9:42:30 AM)

When it comes down to it, if I like someone as a person, I eroticize his attributes.  He becomes sexy because ... he is.

Thanks, Susan!  (smiling)



Mavis -> RE: Physical Attributes? (8/5/2006 10:12:59 AM)

ok, i'll admit it. i am into cock worship.  Bring a bigger altar and i'll have a deeper religious experience.

BUT, honestly..  by the time you're in a position to know what size someone is sporting, you've already decided to be that close, and i don't know anyone who gets that interested to suddenly back out at the unveiling.

The reason i don't like dik pics and claims of size, is i'm hoping that isn't Your foremost quality.  and same with regaling me with "hours of enjoyment,I love to lick for hours..."

Please.  If what You're doing isn't working in 10 mins or so,  can W/we just go watch a movie?  Maybe i'm getting too old, but hours of oral doesn't do it for my nilla side, and Definately doesn't trip my submissive triggers.  i just cannot see saying "Yes Master, a little to the left.." 



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