Kedikat
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ORIGINAL: NorthernGent WyrdRich, It seems to me your post is based on your belief that unemployment/lack of success is a result of personal drive. I can't agree with this. Let's look at it another way. Two people have exactly the same drive. One is born in the black community in New Orleans and one is born in high-society LA. One will have greater success as a result of greater opportunity. Also, I don't know the answer to this so I'm asking the question rather than trying to make a point - in all honesty, what is the chance of a non-white of high intelligence born in one of the poorest communities in say Detriot, New York or Philadelphia climbing the social ladder? They can't pay for education and many of their friends are involved in petty crime due to a lack of opportunity. What is the percentage chance of such a person succeeding (in terms of how we define success)? Regards Can I ask you a personal question? If so answer if not just ignore. Have you actually ever been poor, or lived in the "ghetto", or is all of this from theory, because I can't believe someone that had actual experience among the poor would believe what you put forth. Poor is having holes in your bathroom floor, and the sewer backing up. Poor is eating mustard sandwiches, because sometimes there's nothing else. Poor is wearing shoes with holes in the soles and a couple sizes to big. Poor, is washing your clothes in the sink because you need the money for gas. Poor is seeing your breath when you wake in the winter because your house doesn't have much insulation. Poor is walking 10 miles to work because you can't afford a 70 dollar starter.You want more examples, those are the nicer ones. Every one of those, I have lived through, and never did I blame it on someone else, except when I was a small kid I blamed it on my parents, because I didn't have the legal right to work. Now, within a couple weeks of graduating high school, under no supervision or help from parents, got a crap hole job for minimum wage. Moved from there to a better job, from there to college, from there to a better job, from there to own business. It's quite frankly completely offensive when someone starts blowing this line, that people can't control themselves and select their outcomes. You speak of people like they are automatons, simply do x and y happens. LOL. It doesn't work that way. You can throw all the money you want at the poor problem, alot of the poor will just drink it, or smoke it. You can't give opportunity to someone that doesn't want to do anything. And you can't keep opportunity from someone that wants it. Sure, if my daddy was a millionaire I might be more successful, but also I might not be because I wouldn't have a fear of failure. What's the point of working if you will always be clothed, fed, and cared for. Most wouldn't. How many of those workers that drain septic tanks do it for the love of job, none, they do it so they don't starve. Really, I think you must have never been poor, or not been around poor people for extended periods of time. Some don't want to improve themselves, some do. Throwing money at it is highly unlikely to change those embedded in that life already. Quite simply, that is what they know, that is what they teach, and they don't want to improve themselves. Those who do move the fuck out. Really, unless you completely reject the environment, your screwed. Money doesn't do that, it's thinking about why these people are the way they are, and how can I not end up like that, which causes people to move out of the habits of being perpetually poor. It's not hard to get a job. Repeat, It's not hard to get a job. I only ever didn't get one job I've ever interviewed for. And my single mother broken home parent, didn't even work for 10 years while I was growing, up. We probably had 12 different "Dads" (basicly guys that just want to fuck your mom, and buy you pizza or sodas). Can you see how it smells of bullshit, when I can't even imagine a less privileged childhood, and it was still easy enough to get a job. Oh, I forgot I'm white. Well, assume that's it, that wouldn't explain why the white poor remain poor. I'm gathering from your posts you have a sociology fetish, anyway it sounds like sociology 101 to me. I have been from down to up and back again. I am white to borderline albino. Single mom, single kid. I got to the edge of going down to the bottom and back a few times. Legal troubles, fosterhome crap ( which luckily wasn't crap. JUST LUCK). Hungry and homless. The pressure was enormous! It is so easy to go a different way. I went through all sorts of shit that is supposedly the way to ruin. It was just in me at the time to not go that way. But it is and was HARD!! to not go that way. I was so lucky in so many ways to wander into the right people at the right time. Yes I had my mind and character, but it was still a balance. It matters who and what is there for you. Be it friends or the state, they all had a hand in guiding and helping me. If the state had not been there, maybe some of those friends might not have been there either. They might have already fallen, as they were on shakey ground too. If there is no kind of safety net for people at the lowest level before the total fall, they can fall right through. There is a whole society of the underworld there to drag you in with open arms to feed on your mizery. I was dancing on that line for a while. I know there was a whole system there that made just enough of a difference for me to keep on the upside. You can say you pulled yourself up by your own bootstraps, but where did even the boots come from? Where did that first rung on the ladder come from? It isn't always government of course. It's you, good people and time and work. But the society you are striving in is from the root of society, people, government, which so far is the root of the good people. None of us is alone, none of us makes it entirely on our own. Thank the people who make society, who makes government and laws for your chance to excell.
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