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RE: Anger and Sex - 8/4/2006 3:21:47 PM   
raiken


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Ah...doggie style..my fav, can be nicely enjoyed through the right sized opening in the kennel/cage...<weg>


Ever see that stupid 80s movie with John Travolta? Staying Alive? The dance number has female denoms tormenting males in cages...and they have long staffs with which to poke 'em with...Not too subtle...and rather delicious. Fed many a fantasy for me.


 
LOL! OH yeah...  There is a dance club i go to every so often that has dancers in cages, and there have also been assholes that got kicked out for trying to reach in... Every once in a while i imagine myself in one of them...LOL!  i like cages though, just sends my head to another world, but it has to be the cage of someone i respect and have some sort of connection with, i don't think i could take the randomness of it all unless i had a dominant who was watching over the activity. 

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RE: Anger and Sex - 8/4/2006 3:40:21 PM   
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RE: Anger and Sex - 8/4/2006 3:40:41 PM   
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 Every once in a while i imagine myself in one of them...LOL!  i like cages though, just sends my head to another world, but it has to be the cage of someone i respect and have some sort of connection with, i don't think i could take the randomness of it all unless i had a dominant who was watching over the activity. 


I see a whole new thread here! LOL

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RE: Anger and Sex - 8/4/2006 5:19:13 PM   
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Actually what came to mind when I read the subject line for this thread was the movie Mr. and Mrs. Smith. I have had sex like that before, and although some would find it shocking and more than a little abusive, it was HOT AS HELL for both of us. To each her/his own <s>


That scene perfectly expressed one of my favorite fantasies.  One day that fantasy will be fulfilled and he and I will both be bloody and bruised.  *eg*

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RE: Anger and Sex - 8/4/2006 9:15:15 PM   
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Someone asked me today why someone might feel the need to have sex when they're angry. I personally believe it's linked to adrenaline, and is related to the same reason people get sexually aroused by danger. A very common thing in BDSM.

Any thoughts?

I remember reading a good article on adrenaline and it's role in BDSM, and sex, but I lost so many links when my PC died...Does anyone have any good links about these chemicals and BDSM/Sexuality?

Thanks!


Nos!!  i dun have sex while i'm angry cos usually i'm an trying to whup their ass OR ignore them.  Angry?  LOL i either dun want to touch you or know you exist or i'm super mad and want to rip yer limbs off. 

but i've heard of it


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RE: Anger and Sex - 8/5/2006 12:35:05 PM   
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Nos!!  i dun have sex while i'm angry cos usually i'm an trying to whup their ass OR ignore them.  Angry?  LOL i either dun want to touch you or know you exist or i'm super mad and want to rip yer limbs off. 

but i've heard of it



I think there's a difference between having sex when you are angry at the person you are about to have sex with, and having sex when you are angry about, say, something your boss did at work.

Sex can be a great stress releaser, and a wonderful source of mellowing endorphins.

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