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RE: Question for Dommes - 12/28/2004 7:47:39 AM

MsHoney2you

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ok, we started this thread with a 'new to collarme's post about the lack of ????? was it inteligence? commas? unreadabilityinrepliestohisattemptstoreachanotherpersonsuchashimself? I agree, I belive the originator and MrC are one and the same person. Bored with their/there/his/them's lives and have come to gather anger... oh well,I'llfilethatunder'click'fordelete. I"m thinking another sandbox might be a better place for these two/too/to yahoos!

Enjoy all!
Ms Honey
(who is not that worried abuot reedin', rightin' and rithmaticin', it's the honor, integrity, loyalty and respect that I read as important)

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RE: Question for Dommes - 12/29/2004 11:37:03 AM

ProtagonistLily

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gentlesubmissive,

I agree with you. I think that it says a lot about a person. I'm not talking the occasional typo or stream of consciousness thought. That happens to the best of us. But if it's consistant, I think it may be a fair representation of what, intrinsically, you are dealing with.

I feel the same way about submissives I correspond with. If they don't have a decent command of the English language, both written and spoken, I just don't find myself that interested.

I say trust your gut on this one. My gut doesn't lie to me, and saves me more often than I probably realize.

Peace,
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RE: Question for Dommes - 12/29/2004 12:56:33 PM

MHOO314

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dearest gentlesubmissive,
I too tend to find either Dom/mes or sub/slaves that cannot articulate themselves, nor take the time to make sure that responses are well formed and free from typos to be a waste of My time--now I do defend a stream of consciousness that happens on occasion when an emotional topic is being addressed- or the occasional IM that is being sent fast and furious---however, an introductory email request or response, in My opinion should be free from typos, mispelled words and poor grammar--that's why they have online dictionaries etc. I suppose that makes Me a snob, and yes I am and yes I can be, I am after all the Mistress, if you can't write well when you have all the time to do so... what kind of presentation do you make to Me? One does not have to use $2.00 words to communicate clearly--I am sure this will open yet another diatribe--well done pet--Mistress Hathor

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RE: Question for Dommes - 12/29/2004 2:08:38 PM

LadyTantalize

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I don't keep up completely with all postings here and comment even less, but I just had to say how much I enjoyed this thread of communique.

And, to some extent, I agree with parts of everything that everyone said!
Go figure! *big smiles*

I too can be a stickler for grammar, and I confess to being irked by incoherent emails from anyone. But this certainly is NOT a deal breaker in forming a relationship, nor should it be - after all, in a r/l BDSM relationship would SPOKEN WORDS not be the most essential and meaningful form of necessary communication?

It was not the content of his post that irritated Me, but the context! The condescending attitude of his comments was completely unnecessary considering his posts were hardly clear either, and being that his words were chock full of grammar, spelling and syntax mistakes, he certainly had no room to tout about degrees and such, in My humble opinion.

And, to the Dommes - You go, Gals! I loved Ya'll's posts!!

Now, I wonder if he really did find a Mistress?

Anyway, thanks to A/all for a good read today!!!

Truly,

Lady T.

Lady Tatiana Tantalize
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"Nothing that I like is allowed....you know that."
Mistress Claire, "L'Image", Radley Metzger

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RE: Question for Dommes - 12/31/2004 6:42:09 AM

MrCofNewport

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I would like to thank the last three ladies that responded to gentlesubmissive's question. It is refreshing to see that there are some dominants that are honest about their feelings when they receive emails from subs that do not take the time, or have the ability to make a decent presentation. I believe that even though most of the posts from the women here critical, that they have often deleted replies from men and women that have no command of our language.

Let me addess a few points made on this thread:

1.) Gentle submissive did indeed find a dominant female. It was because of his question. He believes, as do I, that he has found the woman that he has been looking for.

2.) In response to the ladies out there, (and you know who you are) that think he and I are the same person because we are from the same area, I'm sorry to disappoint you. We're not. Had you asked if we were business partners, close friends, Viet Nam veterans, lifestyle enthusiasts, the answer to all would have been yes. Although he and I traveled in the same circles both on and off the job, we most definately are different people.

I hope for his sake that he has found the woman that he seeks. He is retiring from the business very shortly, and if his visit with his domme proves to be fruitful, he will be moving to be with her in the near future.

As for me, I must run. You see I have a lunch date with a submissive that approached me with an email that had all the words spelled correctly. There were even a couple of complete sentences. To all, a very happy New Year, and to those who have nothing better to do than rag on someone who asks an honest question, I ask, are you really dominant? Keep those cards and letters coming.

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RE: Question for Dommes - 12/31/2004 8:15:56 AM

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we most definately are different people.

And BOTH of you can't spell the word "definitely" correctly either.

J

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RE: Question for Dommes - 12/31/2004 10:46:15 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessJules

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we most definately are different people.

And BOTH of you can't spell the word "definitely" correctly either.

Thank God they're different people. I was thinking they're either the same or are doing each other as one seems to know just about EVERYTHING about the other.
Neither understand that the reason people picked gentle apart is because of his condescending presentation, not necessarily because of the content, as most people (just as he) would like to communicate with people who are able to express verbally or in written form.
M

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RE: Question for Dommes - 12/31/2004 10:54:05 AM

GoddessJules

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Don't believe the hype girl. . .they are the same person.

Same height
Same weight
Same age
Same spelling errors.
And the second one has ONLY posted in regards to gentlesubmissive.

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RE: Question for Dommes - 1/3/2005 5:32:15 PM

ProtagonistLily

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quote:

ORIGINAL: GoddessJules

quote:

we most definately are different people.

And BOTH of you can't spell the word "definitely" correctly either.

J