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Fun D/s games, reward and punishment? - 12/15/2004 7:46:29 PM   
SirSteveH


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I'm wondering what games other Doms play with their subs. Don't get me wrong, I'm not talking the 'sic' or twisted kind (well, within reason! - lol!). I'm talking about the ones we play for fun & to enhance the 'roles' we play in this endless dance of keeping things fresh in the relationship. Sure, I know about "fetch", or "hide & seek". The "holding a quarter against the wall with her nose, while you stimulate different parts of her body until she drops it" type, or holding objects in a variety of openings. The list seems only limited to your (& her) imagination, but what else do you, as a D/s couple play? Additionally, while in-play what types of reward & punishment do you use? I'm always interested in other people's ideas and thoughts on this subject!
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RE: Fun D/s games, reward and punishment? - 12/15/2004 7:53:34 PM   
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Hello SirSteve,
if its a 'lets all share' thread, then ive not much to offer, if its suggestion for the best cookery book complete with recipes, try www.literotica.com bdsm or how to thread. Theres a plethora of suggestions there. Collarme has a 'positive first times' thread, that should be good for a few or more.
Personally, i reckon asking who your with what they like is a goodun. OR watching very closely to reactions if its a suprise. Anything youve ever seen in porn and fancied a go at, or suck it and see.
Plus things dont always follow the path in your head youve been fantasising about all day, we as people tend to wander off in delightful tangents.

by the way, what does vanilla with a bdsm symbol underneath mean in yours and lots of others nic's?

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RE: Fun D/s games, reward and punishment? - 12/15/2004 7:55:54 PM   
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Here's a thread with some games:

games to play



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RE: Fun D/s games, reward and punishment? - 12/16/2004 6:03:52 AM   
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fun is what it's all about...
~grins~
'cause if yah ain't having fun, why do it?

here's a little game i like playing called toilet tissue bondage... basically, toilet paper is used for "tying" and then all sorts of torments from mild to challenging can be employed to see if You can make her tear her "bonds"... forfeit could range anywhere from clothespinning to adding weights to pre-clamped tender bits to a certain number of strokes with Your favorite implement...

also a fun game (depending on how hard y'all play as one person's fun is another's hard play) is using multicolored clothespins pinned here and there on her or all over her for target practice with whips and floggers with points scored for each different color...

bells clamped on various parts with forfeit happenning if they jingle...

so many games, imagination is the only limit...

sincerely,
merry

p.s. pandoravampire
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what does vanilla with a bdsm symbol underneath mean in yours and lots of others nic's?

i think the symbol is an indicator of how many posts you've made to the message boards...

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RE: Fun D/s games, reward and punishment? - 12/16/2004 6:24:53 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: merrymasochist

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what does vanilla with a bdsm symbol underneath mean in yours and lots of others nic's?

i think the symbol is an indicator of how many posts you've made to the message boards...



Yes, it is an indicator of number of posts. You'll be with the triskele till somewhere around 100 posts, getting a total of four of them.

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RE: Fun D/s games, reward and punishment? - 12/16/2004 7:11:00 AM   
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My dear... did your Master ever try submissive poker where you play for clothing then the sub herself...or what I enjoy is to play for some specific activity...such as tonguing or clitty play...by the sub of your choice.
Or...another...is to engage in an erotic scavenger hunt... if there are more than one sub and Dom/me... let the Dom/mes and subs switch so the pairs that go out are "new" to each other. Items to find are things like: pubic hair from a man/woman who allows you to shave them; a condom of sperm; a digital photo of you servicing or the Dom/me being serviced or both; and... well, you get the idea...
Love Oriental Mistress...

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RE: Fun D/s games, reward and punishment? - 12/16/2004 10:05:52 PM   
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Something that me and my significant other do, is that when I come home from work and she is visiting (we have a long distance relationship, she lives in Germany)

I guess what color underwear she is wearing if I guess right, I get to cum that night, if not, I don't. The evil thing is that she undresses out of site, and we go through the whole night, me not knowing if I get to cum. She was really evil though, and for a week wore no panties at all... needless to say I didn't get to cum. (kind of a variation of the colored bead game.

When she is away, I’ll email a guess, and if I guess right I get a point, and when I reach a certain number of points, I get released from the CB3000 and have a chance to cum.

The other thing she likes to do, is to give me a riddle from her book, and I can ask yes or no questions. I can't cum till I solve the riddle, and the longer it takes me, the more (un-enjoyable) my Cumming experience. She only allows me so many questions per day.

It's a fun little game, and very frustrating.


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RE: Fun D/s games, reward and punishment? - 12/17/2004 6:20:48 PM   
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I just remembered a game i played with my first dom. He tied me to the bed and blindfolded me, then inserted various objects and asked me to identify them. It was a lot harder than i thought it would be. I got minor punishment if i guessed wrong.

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RE: Fun D/s games, reward and punishment? - 12/17/2004 7:07:20 PM   
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I know of a Domme who's punishment is simple, yet severe. Fail to meet her expectations, and you're banished from her forever.

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RE: Fun D/s games, reward and punishment? - 12/22/2004 3:57:19 PM   
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Here's a game that sounds fun and could be adapted for a D/s relationship. It's from a recent issue of "Great Sexpectations".

Today's Topic: A Holiday Scavenger Hunt

The mere fact that you went out of your way to concoct a
fun game just for the two of you will be extremely endearing,
especially this time of year. Instead of attending another
boring office party, obligatory gathering, or even shopping
(you can do it tomorrow night!), tell your beloved that you
have a surprise planned for him/her that night.

I occasionally mention the anticipation factor, so do it up
right by teasing throughout the day - put a note in her purse
previewing what you plan to do to her, leave a voice mail for
him at work, or even have flowers delivered with a naughty
note. Alter the game however you want, making it as expensive
(or cheap) as you need it to be. Again, you really don't have
to spend any money on this unless you want to.

Here's the idea: when your honey comes home, you will be
waiting in the bedroom with the door shut, wearing whatever
you want in whatever atmosphere you want to create. Wear
lingerie, go naked, light candles, leave one light on, what-
ever you want to do. The beauty of this "game" is that you
can tailor it to your personality. Before he/she finds you,
though, they will encounter several steps to follow. Here's
where your preparation comes into play. Write out five to
ten clues, naughty promises of sexual favors to come, or
compliments, again, whatever you want. Each note will clue
them in on how to "advance" to the next station or step.

Start by leaving the first note on the door when they walk
in. The note can say something like (I am not clever AT ALL,
so this is merely a crude guideline to get you started),
"Advance to where we had sex last night." This could be
the couch, bathroom, anywhere that works that obviously
doesn't lead them to the bedroom where you are ultimately
waiting. Or completely make up your own; I'm just giving
ideas. Consider having rose petals on the floor as they
walk through the house, music playing, etc.

At the next station, leave another clue and/or possibly a
gift. The gifts could progressively become more expensive
like a piece of chocolate leading up to a necklace or cost
nothing, like a series of homemade coupons promising sexual
favors. Who wouldn't like that? Really try to be clever and
put thought into your clues. If you have a loving memory (and
it doesn't have to be sexual) in the bathroom, send your
beloved there. You could lead her to the pantry where you
store the tea you made when she had a cold. Or send her to
the baby's room to reminisce about your most special creation
together. This whole "game" could actually turn out to be the
best gift of the season, and he/she will remember the effort
for years to come. All the notes lead up to finding you in
the bedroom, of course.



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RE: Fun D/s games, reward and punishment? - 12/22/2004 7:15:11 PM   
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There are so many...

Take a sub out to dinner in kinky gear. Collar, high boots, and a short vinyl coat, nothing underneath.

Tell her she can't raise her head above your hand. Then slowly force her to her knees without touching her. Force her down to the floor, face down, and hold her there, again without touching her. Basic submission training.

Teach her to walk with a book balanced on her head. Five hard lashes if it falls off. Her posture will improve quickly.

Meet by prearrangement at some deserted place, have hard, fast sex without saying a word, and leave separately.

Get her a remote controlled vibrator. Take her someplace respectable and drive her crazy with it.

Tie her up with ribbons. Tickle her. If she breaks a ribbon, five lashes.




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RE: Fun D/s games, reward and punishment? - 12/22/2004 7:35:01 PM   
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my Master and i have a game we got out of "The Erotic Bondage Handbook", by Jay Wiseman. He ties me as tightly as he can in various ways, and i have a set amount of time to escape my bonds (five minutes, fifteen minutes, etc). If i get out, i don't get "punished" Then, sometimes, if i get out i *do* get "punished"....

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