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VandalHeart -> Whatever happened to just plain fun? (8/5/2006 11:37:36 PM)

OK, I've started to notice that a lot of people in the lifestyle are getting to the point where they can't enjoy enything outside of the lifestyle.  What the fuck is going on?  What happened to variety?  What happened to not being held back by any standard or restriction?  Why is it that to enjoy themselves, some people are becomeing restricted to kink?

Or am I just out of my mind?  (bracing for the smart-asses)




enigmabrat -> RE: Whatever happened to just plain fun? (8/5/2006 11:39:38 PM)

LOL Im a smart ass but I happen to agree with you here... I cant stand slaves that wont do shit exept be slaves are you not a human too or are you just a masters toy which some are and i thinik in my opinion is not right becuase we are humans first Dom/subs secent




Tamerofwild1s -> RE: Whatever happened to just plain fun? (8/5/2006 11:41:27 PM)

well . if you would take your lazy ass away from san andreas for more then 15 minutes you might see you can still have fun other then kink. I bowl 2x a week in the fall and winter .... I like shooting pool . and soon .. I am gonna do some non kink traveling just because ..... well maybe not just because but shoot I am gonna do it
 
hope your doing well tonight VH




VandalHeart -> RE: Whatever happened to just plain fun? (8/6/2006 3:55:36 AM)

(Replying in the style of San Andreas)

Shut the fuck up, a'ight Tamuh?  You just hatin' cuz you gets all tha bichez.  Evreh time I come creepin', you done snatched 'em all away...alluh dem blondes...alluh dem brunettes...alluh dem red-heds -- I WANT ME SUMMA DEM RED-HEDS!!!  Why don'choo rise up out my grill wit dis shit, fo' I bust a cap in my computuh screen on toppa yo' face?!?

OK, I just don't have the stamina for that any more.  Nice to see you too, Tamer, and good luck on those plans of yours, but have you noticed what I'm talking about?




cuddleheart50 -> RE: Whatever happened to just plain fun? (8/6/2006 6:39:45 AM)

I go to movies with my friends, go shopping, swimming, horseback riding, all the everyday normal stuff.




LaTigresse -> RE: Whatever happened to just plain fun? (8/6/2006 7:47:36 AM)

Welllllllllllllllll, aside from the fact that I have no life of kink..........I would never give up all the goofy fun stuff I love. Every morning and evening during the week and off and on all weekend I spend as much time as possible outdoors playing with 4 legged babies. I often take off hiking with my camera around my neck. Last weekend I spent with the grandterrors, alternating between No...No...No and fits of joyous giggles. We played in the sprinkler and of course the mud, together, they are boys ages 2 and 3. We jumped on the bed together. I always have fun at work, lots of laughter. I read ALOT. I am researching the idea of a non profit facility/spiritual/soul/non religous/living in harmony with the earth/ healing type place for young women primarily but not exclusively.  I have no money and it would take ALOT but its a dream/soul calling I have. I laugh alot, I work in a town that is a wonderful place to have fun. I have friends of all ages and social stratta that are condusive to fun and laughter. I love movies and music of all sorts.  BDSM is just a facet of life, not all of it.




Littlepita -> RE: Whatever happened to just plain fun? (8/6/2006 7:49:08 AM)

I have lots of fun doing lots of non-kink things.




luciddream -> RE: Whatever happened to just plain fun? (8/6/2006 8:05:15 AM)

In my brief exploration on this site, I have seem to found many of the 'more "truer" than you' types and I just want to tell them to get over themselves and have a little fun.

Thank you for this topic, I will be back to read more!




andyny -> RE: Whatever happened to just plain fun? (8/6/2006 8:23:42 AM)

I have to say I still go out almost every night, half of them are taking either my mom or my family out to dinner. I visit my grandparents at least 1 a week, more so now that my younger brother is in jail and my grandmother is very upset by it. All the other nights it's out to either a friends house, a bonfire because I'm a pryomaniac, or out to the bars (very rarely). But then again, I'm not overly involved in the lifestyle.




SavageFaerie -> RE: Whatever happened to just plain fun? (8/6/2006 8:45:52 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: VandalHeart

(Replying in the style of San Andreas)

Shut the fuck up, a'ight Tamuh?  You just hatin' cuz you gets all tha bichez.  Evreh time I come creepin', you done snatched 'em all away...alluh dem blondes...alluh dem brunettes...alluh dem red-heds -- I WANT ME SUMMA DEM RED-HEDS!!!  Why don'choo rise up out my grill wit dis shit, fo' I bust a cap in my computuh screen on toppa yo' face?!?

OK, I just don't have the stamina for that any more.  Nice to see you too, Tamer, and good luck on those plans of yours, but have you noticed what I'm talking about?


VandalHeart....contrary to your thoughts....those that know you....have alot of lust in their loins....I for one do..I am not afraid to admit it.  You know I already adore you as a friend. You and tamer are equal in my book, if I was still slutty I would have you both at the same time even. A girl can fantasize. I am a redhead....okay fine....a box redhead..but it fits me right now.  I have gotten to know you and tamer both, I think your  at the top of my list tho..sorry tamer.  I can not wait till we meet in person.
I also have to add one more man....I would love to meet Gauge, I consider him close to my heart to I admit..he brings out the submissive in me (which can be rare I am more of a top/bottom.  He could command me to do anything....I would want sweet lovemaking after.
A girl has her fantacies...they are but a few.


SinfulFaerie.




Evanesce -> RE: Whatever happened to just plain fun? (8/6/2006 10:12:37 AM)

quote:

OK, I've started to notice that a lot of people in the lifestyle are getting to the point where they can't enjoy enything outside of the lifestyle.  What the fuck is going on?  What happened to variety?  What happened to not being held back by any standard or restriction?  Why is it that to enjoy themselves, some people are becomeing restricted to kink?


I don't know about others, but I will readily admit that the almost all of our socializing is with kinky friends.  However, it's not always in a kinky setting.  We have friends over for dinner and board games.  We do group outings to things like haunted houses, Renaissance Faires and corn mazes.  We go antiquing, window shopping, browsing the local Barnes & Noble, walks, bike rides, amusement parks.  And this is with the Kaptin just being home 4 days a month!  We'd be doing a whole lot more if He were home every day. 
 
Our kinky activities with others are limited to a monthly discussion/pot luck dinner/play party, and a rare trip to a regional or national event.




TxBlkMistress -> RE: Whatever happened to just plain fun? (8/6/2006 10:26:43 AM)

Unfortunately it's not new...I beg those that contact me to please just talk to me and let me know you, and what things you like to do on the outside...but all I get is the net slave speak.  A lot are not kidding, they honestly want to come to my house and never leave just be a houseboy (yeah right)  Yeah I can really connect with someone that never leaves the house...lol




cheshireboy -> RE: Whatever happened to just plain fun? (8/6/2006 10:27:32 AM)

seems that this boy is as always a bit more different, he tends to spend more of his time doing non kinky things, <even going to go watch a play this afternoon> than kinky things....but then you know...so much kink,,,a man can only climax so many times before it becomes painful or get to the point where his ass hurts too much to sit down....and can only do chores for so long before their isn't any more to do.....so hense...he reads, writes, loves movies....tries to socialize <best thing about voice restrictions, no one can doubt your smarts>  and is now addicted to Super Monkey Ball
 
cheshire.




kyraofMists -> RE: Whatever happened to just plain fun? (8/6/2006 11:02:48 AM)

If people saw a week in the life of the Mists house you would probably be disappointed with the lack of kink.  We watch movies, read books, play with the cats, wood working, home improvement, spend time with the munchkins, shopping, etc.  Throughout it all the M/s dynamic stays in place, it is just how the three of us relate to one another.  We do things just like a large majority of couples... well, except that there are three of us doing it.

Knight's kyra




kyraofMists -> RE: Whatever happened to just plain fun? (8/6/2006 11:05:40 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: enigmabrat
I cant stand slaves that wont do shit exept be slaves are you not a human too or are you just a masters toy which some are and i thinik in my opinion is not right becuase we are humans first Dom/subs secent


enigmabrat,

I am curious about what you think a slave is and what is inhuman about what they do?

Kyra




MySweetSubmssive -> RE: Whatever happened to just plain fun? (8/6/2006 11:11:45 AM)

Hmmm ... when people contact me and only want to talk about BDSM, I figure that they don't have lots of experience (so that would be about 90% of them), so they are just bursting to do kink and only kink.

It sure isn't my end-all and be-all.  There have been time that I tell people I get bored of talking about it (a steady diet of *anything* gets dull, neh?), and that throws them for a loop.  Give me minature golf, cattle-pulling, foreign films, spicy foods, funky museums, lots of laughter and the occasional fart in bed ...




enigmabrat -> RE: Whatever happened to just plain fun? (8/7/2006 11:38:11 PM)

Nev er said beeing a slave was inhuman...

re read what I wrote thank you




RavenMuse -> RE: Whatever happened to just plain fun? (8/8/2006 2:20:29 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: VandalHeart
Or am I just out of my mind?


Yep, you are totaly raving fucking nuts! [:D]

It would be nice to fit a bit more kink IN but all too often real life takes priority. Even yesterday, totaly kink enviroment but only two short bits of play. The rest of the day spent chatting away about life the universe and everything with friendly folks in a very relaxed surrounding.

OK most of the folks I know don't come under the lable 'vanilla' but hell, kink only factors in a small amount of the topics we talk about.




shivvy -> RE: Whatever happened to just plain fun? (8/8/2006 3:48:05 AM)

well, being a mum comes first for me, then, living at home still, being a daughter, and then being Masters girlfriend..
 
i am submissive in all these roles, coz i just am submissive, and i do my best to please everybody, but in different ways.
 
and i enjoy being submissive, and i enjoy enjoying myself, so i do my chores with luv in my heart and a song on my lips, and i often laugh and smile and play.
 
i enjoy playing ova the park with Kel, and i enjoy going down the funfair when it's in town, and i enjoy pubbing and clubbing and just going out and being with Master. to be honest, 99% of the time, i just luv being me.
 
i hope this answers Your question my Lord
 
with Respect,
 
shiv
-x-




KnightofMists -> RE: Whatever happened to just plain fun? (8/8/2006 10:59:17 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: enigmabrat

Nev er said beeing a slave was inhuman...

re read what I wrote thank you


you right...

quote:


I cant stand slaves that wont do shit exept be slaves are you not a human too or are you just a masters toy which some are and i thinik in my opinion is not right becuase we are humans first Dom/subs secent


you only stated that you can't stand slaves that will not do shit but be slaves... and made the implication that just being a slave equates to one exercising less of their own humanity. 

I find it very telling that one makes a general universal prejudical comment towards those individuals that are being slaves and making the derogatory comment that they are less than a completely human for being such,  With No regard for the person's own choice and their personal happiness in living a life of slavehood.

prejudicial comments are usually rooted from two things... Ignorance and/or insecurity with ones own self.




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