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ORIGINAL: DsCoupleOhio
Here is my problem...
Normally I know what to do..but this one blew me out of the water...
Within the last month I have had two people come to visit our Home and stay with us on two seperate occations. I will call them Dick and Jane. Dick is Janes new Master. Jane is a beloved friend and under My care at times. On the first visit, I had not yet aquired my new girl (usagi) but still had my boi. we'll call him tanuki.
This first meeting lead to the boi and Dick "playing" with each other and thus my boi helped Dick emerge from being bi-currious to physically experinced. It was a great weekend for all. Protocol was followed and all had a good time. No boundaries were broken nor were any feet stepped on.
By the second visit, two weeks later, I aquired usagi. (my girl) We have been training her on light protocol and what we expect arround the house for she is the one that will be my hands when I go through surgery. Jane has always been a dear friend since we have met and Dick had given me no reason not to trust him. So we opened the invitation for them to come visit again. They did. Durring this visit, Dick made unbelieveable breaches in protocol.
While my boi was offered to him once again, he kept his eyes on my girl. Me being in the kitchen with Jane the whole time baking and cooking, I did not see this until later when my boi disappeared and I went looking for him. He then informed me that Dick wanted my girl. I was prepared to have a scene and see where things went.
We all decided to take a dip in the pool after dinner and things began to get frisky. I made it clear that I had not yet even played with my girl and to be gentile with the playing. Dick seemed to understand that and backed away going back to Jane who was obviously offended by his actions. But being the submissive did not say anything to him. Once inside, we watched a movie and all mentioned they were tired. The Master of our clan and I went to bed telling usagi and tanuki to get some rest soon. Jane mentioned she was going to bed as well and Dick said he would be in after the movie. All was well.
It wasnt till the next day that I found out he lied to Jane and took advantage of my girl. Not only did he not ask to play with her, he did not ask to attempt hypnosis on her. Without details, He attempted hypnosis, set triggers without my consent, had sex with her and then lied to me and Jane about what all happened the night before. My girl told me the truth about all that happened. Needless to say when I confronted him about it I didnt know Jane didnt know and that caused a HUGE mess. Rather than see WW3 in my livingroom I smoothed things over and made peace with Jane and usagi for my girl was told Jane was okay with it. Hence he lied to her as well.
My question is... What is the proper protocol at this point. They have been gone since sunday and I have been stewing on everything. I unfortunately cannot touch my girl without thinking about what this creep did to her and took from me. It has caused mistrust and hard feelings within the clan and I am afraid I dont know how to handle Dick in this case without loosing my dear friend Jane...
I am hoping maybe someone will know what the proper thing to make this right is...
Thank You All in advance...
Mistress Karasu