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RE: a need a little advice please? - 8/10/2006 4:03:58 AM

shyyoungsub

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thats why i find it a little hard to beleive...last night he said to me that for all i know he could have just been testing to me to see how much i really wanted him. Which seemed unfair to me as its just playing with my head xx

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RE: a need a little advice please? - 8/10/2006 6:07:51 AM

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Tell him to grow up and go jump in a lake. What an idiot.

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RE: a need a little advice please? - 8/10/2006 9:23:55 AM

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I'm thinkin'...

1. The guy never went to France
2. If there IS another girl, he'll never meet her in person
3. He'll never meet the OP in person, either, because...
4. He's a cyber-wanker.

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RE: a need a little advice please? - 8/10/2006 11:03:13 AM

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ORIGINAL: shyyoungsub

i was away last night so this is the first time ive read what people have posted. Fot those who gave some advice and a little empathy thank you, but those who just decided to to give smart arse comments like 'cry me a river' seem a little inapproriate...explain yourself or just leave it alone. I realise after reading these posts that ive been more than a little stupid, but what i forgot to mention is that we had both agreed that untill the point after we had met we wouldnt persue anyone else. It seems on the internet this kind of agreeent doesnt matter in all cases, so i do feel like the prize fool. Thanks anyway people. xxxx

With this further information I would suggest he is a player and walk away as fast as you can.

Even if he was testing you to see if you wanted him or how much, is this the way you want to be tested, never to be able to be sure of what you are being told? Would you be able to trust his word or actions now? I would guess not and without complete trust there can be no power exchange and no relationship

I feel its best you found out now rather than getting even more involved and finding this out later.

In regard to your comment about internet agreements, they are no different than those in the flesh world. Some people make agreements and uphold them others are liars and cheaters. Just because someone can type never assume they are honest. Its tough I know but I feel it is easier to lie and cheat online so those who have a tendancy to will do so even more.

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RE: a need a little advice please? - 8/10/2006 12:08:31 PM

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Hehehe...knowing myself, i would meet him just for the hell of it, to satisfy my own curiosity about what his energy felt like. Then i would be so pissed at being played, cuz i can't stand a liar, i would tell his lying sorry ass to lament, drool and mourn, for the nice assed bitch he COULD have had if he wasn't such a stupid assed playa. Have some backbone and hold your head up girl, he is not the only one, and get a tough shell, get used to brushing the playas off, while you wait for the good ones to come along. They are out there, you just have to have a good filtration system in place. Good Luck in what ever you decide, i know its tough to not get emotional and end up being emotionally led about by the nose, but you can do it, learn from this.

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RE: a need a little advice please? - 8/10/2006 12:14:38 PM

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As sad as it sounds LeatherBentOne, it does happen. I mentored a submissive that did this exact thing and in the end, she wasted her money and time. I've also known Dominants that have gone to this extream too. Just a fact , sometimes it works out, most times it doesn't.

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RE: a need a little advice please? - 8/10/2006 1:09:37 PM

shyyoungsub

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thanks again for all of your replies, my contact with him stops as from today. It pretty futile it seems trying to persue something with someone i feel i cant trust anymore. So there you have it....im gonna get over it as best i can....thanks again xxxxxxxxx