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MistressSophia -> it's just me! (8/10/2006 6:24:55 AM)
This subject needs to be address by a Pro Domme, First here are some facts. Pro Domme's don't go out grabbing subs off the street. next fact not all Pros offer or give sex. the tributes is for their time ,experince . Who on here goes to work and tells their boss don't pay me today I don't think my time is worth it. Fact most Pro Dommes are well educated professional women outside of beingApro.. i own my own business..It has been my experience that pros are mostly seen by men that don't want to get involved with a domme that they have to answer to daily. they don't want the demands. that don't the drama, But they do have the need to serve.And isn't it their choice how they serve? I find that most of the men(subs) that bytch about Pro Dommes to be the same ones that would take a lady out to eat and tell her to pay her half. the same men that don't believe in sending lowers. or giving gifts. Iam a Pro Domme but no where in my profile will you see that stated. I am not here on collarme hunting down tributes. and there are no lack of subs that want to see me. How many of you subs send flowers to your Mistress, remember her Birthday? bring her gifts etc. well let me clue you in many of the subs that see me do just that. as well as go beyond the tribute. so who is to say that this isn't their way of honoring their Mistress. there is a saying you can't run with the big dogs when you piss like a puppy. and you can't put subs down for seeking to serve the way they wish.. In truth aren't the subs that are complaining the same ones with deep pockets and short arms. so maybe it's wrong for you to serve a Mistress and give nothing. where is the honor in that? Aren't you really the ones using the Mistress? with the excuse it's not really serving if I have to pay for it.. This life style is wonderful. because it offered choices, freedom to be who you are . there is no place for judging one another. .this life style should be accepting. and when you don't the weak mind should be put to rest and the extra large mouth closed! NO ONE ENJOYS CLOSE MINDED PEOPLE! And heres y 2 cents

michaelGA2 -> RE: it's just me! (8/10/2006 6:34:53 AM)
quote: I find that most of the men(subs) that bytch about Pro Dommes to be the same ones that would take a lady out to eat and tell her to pay her half. the same men that don't believe in sending lowers. or giving gifts. Iam a Pro Domme but no where in my profile will you see that stated. I am not here on collarme hunting down tributes. and there are no lack of subs that want to see me. this can't be further from the truth. i love buying dinner, giving gifts to someone i care about and i especially love to send flowers...but again, i do this for someone i care about. i do not require anything in return and i certainly do not expect or require sex as payment. i can certainly understand a cheating husband seeking out a Pro for things their wife is neither willing nor able to provide. but i still do not see Pros ass "real" Mistresses. it's not the same giving money/gifts/flowers to a stranger.

Jasmyn -> RE: it's just me! (8/10/2006 8:31:10 AM)
Michael don't take offense, as no personal offense to you is intended... but my honest and not asked for opinion ;) people are inherently about the self... you will require something in return, in everything we do ... we all do ... we all get rewards from the love in our life ... And ..there is the real word again ... consider viewing what a 'Mistress' is to someone else and then define 'real', if you can.

LaTigresse -> RE: it's just me! (8/10/2006 8:39:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressSophia This subject needs to be address by a Pro Domme, First here are some facts. Pro Domme's don't go out grabbing subs off the street. next fact not all Pros offer or give sex. the tributes is for their time ,experince . Who on here goes to work and tells their boss don't pay me today I don't think my time is worth it. Fact most Pro Dommes are well educated professional women outside of beingApro.. i own my own business..It has been my experience that pros are mostly seen by men that don't want to get involved with a domme that they have to answer to daily. they don't want the demands. that don't the drama, But they do have the need to serve.And isn't it their choice how they serve? I find that most of the men(subs) that bytch about Pro Dommes to be the same ones that would take a lady out to eat and tell her to pay her half. the same men that don't believe in sending lowers. or giving gifts. Iam a Pro Domme but no where in my profile will you see that stated. I am not here on collarme hunting down tributes. and there are no lack of subs that want to see me. How many of you subs send flowers to your Mistress, remember her Birthday? bring her gifts etc. well let me clue you in many of the subs that see me do just that. as well as go beyond the tribute. so who is to say that this isn't their way of honoring their Mistress. there is a saying you can't run with the big dogs when you piss like a puppy. and you can't put subs down for seeking to serve the way they wish.. In truth aren't the subs that are complaining the same ones with deep pockets and short arms. so maybe it's wrong for you to serve a Mistress and give nothing. where is the honor in that? Aren't you really the ones using the Mistress? with the excuse it's not really serving if I have to pay for it.. This life style is wonderful. because it offered choices, freedom to be who you are . there is no place for judging one another. .this life style should be accepting. and when you don't the weak mind should be put to rest and the extra large mouth closed! NO ONE ENJOYS CLOSE MINDED PEOPLE! And heres y 2 cents Now this brought a smile to my face. Thank you for that MistressSophia!

Jasmyn -> RE: it's just me! (8/10/2006 8:44:57 AM)
Amen there is a God and she's wearing leather lol ... nice post MistressSophia

michaelGA2 -> RE: it's just me! (8/10/2006 9:13:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jasmyn Michael don't take offense, as no personal offense to you is intended... but my honest and not asked for opinion ;) people are inherently about the self... you will require something in return, in everything we do ... we all do ... we all get rewards from the love in our life ... And ..there is the real word again ... consider viewing what a 'Mistress' is to someone else and then define 'real', if you can. no offense take, and you're right...i probably need an ass whoopin'...but, hey...we can't have everything, now...can we?

SweetDommes -> RE: it's just me! (8/10/2006 9:18:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: michaelGA2 quote: I find that *most of the men(subs)* that bytch about Pro Dommes to be the same ones that would take a lady out to eat and tell her to pay her half. the same men that don't believe in sending lowers. or giving gifts. Iam a Pro Domme but no where in my profile will you see that stated. I am not here on collarme hunting down tributes. and there are no lack of subs that want to see me. this can't be further from the truth. i love buying dinner, giving gifts to someone i care about and i especially love to send flowers...but again, i do this for someone i care about. i do not require anything in return and i certainly do not expect or require sex as payment. i can certainly understand a cheating husband seeking out a Pro for things their wife is neither willing nor able to provide. but i still do not see Pros ass "real" Mistresses. it's not the same giving money/gifts/flowers to a stranger. Please re-read the section that you quoted above, paying specific attention to what I put in bold italics. She said that most, not all, of the ones that she has dealt with who bitch about it are the same stingy misers who can't get a girlfriend at all because they can't be bothered to do the little things that mean so much. If you don't fall into that catagory, then she wasn't talking about you. I happen to agree with her ... most who bitch about it are of the sort that can't be bothered to remember to bring flowers home once in awhile - or who can't stand to pay full price for a date. Not knowing you, I can't say which side of the discussion you fall on, but if you are on the side of those who does pay for things and does remember significant dates, then feel lucky - you're one of a few to be sorted through when someone comes looking.

michaelGA2 -> RE: it's just me! (8/10/2006 9:20:39 AM)
my apologies. i stand corrected.

MistressSassy66 -> RE: it's just me! (8/10/2006 9:25:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressSophia This subject needs to be address by a Pro Domme, First here are some facts. Pro Domme's don't go out grabbing subs off the street. next fact not all Pros offer or give sex. the tributes is for their time ,experince . Who on here goes to work and tells their boss don't pay me today I don't think my time is worth it. Fact most Pro Dommes are well educated professional women outside of beingApro.. i own my own business..It has been my experience that pros are mostly seen by men that don't want to get involved with a domme that they have to answer to daily. they don't want the demands. that don't the drama, But they do have the need to serve.And isn't it their choice how they serve? I find that most of the men(subs) that bytch about Pro Dommes to be the same ones that would take a lady out to eat and tell her to pay her half. the same men that don't believe in sending lowers. or giving gifts. Iam a Pro Domme but no where in my profile will you see that stated. I am not here on collarme hunting down tributes. and there are no lack of subs that want to see me. How many of you subs send flowers to your Mistress, remember her Birthday? bring her gifts etc. well let me clue you in many of the subs that see me do just that. as well as go beyond the tribute. so who is to say that this isn't their way of honoring their Mistress. there is a saying you can't run with the big dogs when you piss like a puppy. and you can't put subs down for seeking to serve the way they wish.. In truth aren't the subs that are complaining the same ones with deep pockets and short arms. so maybe it's wrong for you to serve a Mistress and give nothing. where is the honor in that? Aren't you really the ones using the Mistress? with the excuse it's not really serving if I have to pay for it.. This life style is wonderful. because it offered choices, freedom to be who you are . there is no place for judging one another. .this life style should be accepting. and when you don't the weak mind should be put to rest and the extra large mouth closed! NO ONE ENJOYS CLOSE MINDED PEOPLE! And heres y 2 cents Yeah...What She said. Many of My paying submissives send cards just to say Hello or other things. I have 4 paying submissives that I found on CollarMe, all 4 have been with Me a year.Paying is part of their fantasy(per se). Thank You CollarME!!!! for Making matches destined to last.

LotusSong -> RE: it's just me! (8/10/2006 9:27:16 AM)
To the subs on the board here.. when the time runs out and the timer dings and your session is over and you pay your fee, how do you feel afterward? How does the pro feel afterward about the submissive?

TeeGO -> RE: it's just me! (8/10/2006 9:30:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressSophia This subject needs to be address by a Pro Domme, First here are some facts. Pro Domme's don't go out grabbing subs off the street. next fact not all Pros offer or give sex. the tributes is for their time ,experince . Who on here goes to work and tells their boss don't pay me today I don't think my time is worth it. Fact most Pro Dommes are well educated professional women outside of beingApro.. i own my own business..It has been my experience that pros are mostly seen by men that don't want to get involved with a domme that they have to answer to daily. they don't want the demands. that don't the drama, But they do have the need to serve.And isn't it their choice how they serve? I find that most of the men(subs) that bytch about Pro Dommes to be the same ones that would take a lady out to eat and tell her to pay her half. the same men that don't believe in sending lowers. or giving gifts. Iam a Pro Domme but no where in my profile will you see that stated. I am not here on collarme hunting down tributes. and there are no lack of subs that want to see me. How many of you subs send flowers to your Mistress, remember her Birthday? bring her gifts etc. well let me clue you in many of the subs that see me do just that. as well as go beyond the tribute. so who is to say that this isn't their way of honoring their Mistress. there is a saying you can't run with the big dogs when you piss like a puppy. and you can't put subs down for seeking to serve the way they wish.. In truth aren't the subs that are complaining the same ones with deep pockets and short arms. so maybe it's wrong for you to serve a Mistress and give nothing. where is the honor in that? Aren't you really the ones using the Mistress? with the excuse it's not really serving if I have to pay for it.. This life style is wonderful. because it offered choices, freedom to be who you are . there is no place for judging one another. .this life style should be accepting. and when you don't the weak mind should be put to rest and the extra large mouth closed! NO ONE ENJOYS CLOSE MINDED PEOPLE! And heres y 2 cents Great post. It is the closed minded that cannot grasp that other people live in others ways...and it's great for them.

TeeGO -> RE: it's just me! (8/10/2006 9:31:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: michaelGA2 my apologies. i stand corrected. That's it michael, open up that mind and good things will happen.

MistressSassy66 -> RE: it's just me! (8/10/2006 9:32:53 AM)
I also have to note yet again. If you look at the all Forums Page scroll down to the bottom... There is a Section for Professional Services. Pro-Dommes and Pro- Dom can advertise here. So if CollarMe allows it...IMO you should stop your bitching.

TeeGO -> RE: it's just me! (8/10/2006 9:34:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LotusSong To the subs on the board here.. when the time runs out and the timer dings and your session is over and you pay your fee, how do you feel afterward? How does the pro feel afterward about the submissive? There are Pro's that operate that way, that don't care, it's only about the money. I figure none of them feel good afterward. But fortunately note all operate that way., some really care about the subs and their needs, so afterward they all feel great.

MistressSophia -> RE: it's just me! (8/10/2006 9:41:18 AM)
In reply to micheals reply.. I DON'T THINK I HAVE EVER READ SUCH A LOAD OF CRAP ..How often do men think because they buy a lady dinner .she should drop to her knees to honor his pathrtic manhood . How many men hold back their nasty little comments about a lady . because she is self asured. To tell you the truth micheal get off your soap box. believe it or no not many agree with your close minded out look. I FIND IT VERY HARD TO BELIEVE YOUR EVEN SUBMISSIVE. YOU ARE THE MOST DISRESPECTFUL. HARD HEAD CLOSE MINDED MALE I HAVE HAD THE DISPLEASURE TO COME ACROSS. IF YOU OFFERED ME 100 TIMES MY TRIBUTE. I WOULDN'T CHANGE MY HEELS FOR YOU.. your one of those men that couldn't get lucky in a whore house with a fist full of hundreds.. Get over it. pull up your big girl panties. subs like, want and seek out Pro Dommes.And 90% of the men that seek Pro Dommes. are well educated. high profile men cultured. It's a fact. just like your type seeks out whores. because ..well how else are you getting any female attention.. and by the way I think this is why you keep going on this thread. ATTENTION. so you won't get any more from me.. My time is to valuable to waste on the likes of you..

Jasmyn -> RE: it's just me! (8/10/2006 9:41:32 AM)
If he plays his cards right he will ... getting sexy isn't the spice of life ... being positive about it is ... open that mind ... and yes, if I ever make it to Georgia a spankng will be in order ;)

michaelGA2 -> RE: it's just me! (8/10/2006 9:53:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressSophia In reply to micheals reply.. I DON'T THINK I HAVE EVER READ SUCH A LOAD OF CRAP ..How often do men think because they buy a lady dinner .she should drop to her knees to honor his pathrtic manhood . How many men hold back their nasty little comments about a lady . because she is self asured. To tell you the truth micheal get off your soap box. believe it or no not many agree with your close minded out look. I FIND IT VERY HARD TO BELIEVE YOUR EVEN SUBMISSIVE. YOU ARE THE MOST DISRESPECTFUL. HARD HEAD CLOSE MINDED MALE I HAVE HAD THE DISPLEASURE TO COME ACROSS. IF YOU OFFERED ME 100 TIMES MY TRIBUTE. I WOULDN'T CHANGE MY HEELS FOR YOU.. your one of those men that couldn't get lucky in a whore house with a fist full of hundreds.. Get over it. pull up your big girl panties. subs like, want and seek out Pro Dommes.And 90% of the men that seek Pro Dommes. are well educated. high profile men cultured. It's a fact. just like your type seeks out whores. because ..well how else are you getting any female attention.. and by the way I think this is why you keep going on this thread. ATTENTION. so you won't get any more from me.. My time is to valuable to waste on the likes of you.. 1. You've misspelled my name (michAEL) and that's a big pet peave of mine. 2. You do not know me at all, i do not require anything more than good conversation and good company of a lady, i have much more respect for them than that. this is why i do not associate with other men because of this "type-casting". not all men are in relationships for sex...some of us actually fall in love. 3. there's a difference between having a closed mind and having a closed wallet. 4. i would never pay for a Mistress. it's not about what's in the wallet, but what's in the heart and soul. 5. i have no need for a whorehouse, vanilla-wise, i have never had trouble finding a lady because romance is still alive and ladies still enjoy it. 6. i would pay You to do anything, not even to remove Your shoes...(do not have a foot fetish here) 7. it's a two-way street and i find Your comments to be equally offensive. 8. i happen to also be well-educated having an associates degree and employed in a tax office. i just choose to spend my money more wisely. any questions?

LotusSong -> RE: it's just me! (8/10/2006 9:53:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TeeGO quote: ORIGINAL: LotusSong To the subs on the board here.. when the time runs out and the timer dings and your session is over and you pay your fee, how do you feel afterward? How does the pro feel afterward about the submissive? There are Pro's that operate that way, that don't care, it's only about the money. I figure none of them feel good afterward. But fortunately note all operate that way., some really care about the subs and their needs, so afterward they all feel great. Thank you for your answer :) I had one experience that I'll never forget. It was a situation where I did a session with a another domme freind of mine on a boy I had been mentoring online for some time.There was an occasion where he was going to be Vegas and so was my hubby, another domme and I. The agreement was he was going to pay the other domme's room adjacent to ours. If he wanted my friend he was to pay for her lodging for the evening. Anyhow, long story short: when the time came at the end and he was dressed and ready to go..he handed me the money for the room. I had fun, my friend had fun.. and we had forgotten about this money issue. I couldn't take it. I rather froze actually (in shock). So what did he do? HE TOSSED IT ON THE BED as he thanked us and left. My friend and I looked at each other.. then at the bed.. as if there was a rabid racoon on it. Thus was my first and last expereince. I had fun until the money part...gofigure.

TheDiva -> RE: it's just me! (8/10/2006 10:01:11 AM)
One thing from this post will stick with me for the longest: "Deep pockets and short arms"...that is hilarious.

Jasmyn -> RE: it's just me! (8/10/2006 10:13:09 AM)
What you forget Michael, and would do wise to take on board ... is, well for me, and other women who read your rants (and you know I call them that in jest) ... just when I see a little bit of light under the eyelids ....and thinking, he's ok... you make a rant that screams women are whores ... it is how you see women ... deny it by all means ... protest at your will .. you may not think you do. .. but you do ... women owe you something and when you don't get it... it's the women at fault... not you ... take a mirror and look at yourself ... not as you see you ... but how we see you ... you are what you become ..and you haven't come a very long way ... you are married ... you don't want a committment ...you want to be a parasite on a woman who will give you what you want... she's a whore if she expects something for her time, she's a bitch if she doesn't do what you want, she's a slut if she gives it to someone else or not you, she's a whore if she gives it to everyone else ... you resent that fact that you can not spend your money freely ... the problem isn't that pro doms expect payment from you, the problem is you can't make one give it to you for free ...and you don't believe any woman will be able to dom you ... and ya know, if you just dropped the attitude and got over the pussy envy your life could get so much better. Just a thought ...

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