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Level -> RE: Nikki Franklin (8/11/2006 5:36:00 PM)
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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania
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Hi want. Keep in mind that I'm not saying it does not happen, and I'm not saying it does not happen a lot. And I'm not an expert, so sure, I could be wrong.
You know those young women that acted out sexually in a self abusive way without regard to their own welfare? Well they were the ones that were sexualized. Then there are the ones that end up as street walkers, they were sexualized too. And then the ones that can't seem to keep a relationship going and have sexual repression problems, well they were often sexualized as young girls also. In fact there are so many ways this destroys lives, show me a fucked up emotionally unwell woman, and she was usually sexualized as a child, not always, but often.
And then there are the women that are not screwed up from it outwardly.. they are out there too.. ones like my mom.
There is what seems an avalanche of extreme sexual behaviour by young girls and boys nowadays; there are "sex clubs" in high schools now, how much of this is spawned from sexual abuse? Certainly some of it, and I'd think some of it is from the sexualizing of society in general.
All I'm saying is that some "messed up" people look for a place to fit, or for something they can use to draw attention or compassion into their life, and claiming sexual abuse "works" for them. I also think some (and I can't emphasize that word strongly enough)... some that may have genuine complaints refuse to do whatever work is needed to heal; they allow victimhood to be a label on their life. This, of course, does not in any way lessen the fact that they were violated. And most make do as best they can to fix what was damaged and build a happy life. Lastly, I don't intend on any of what I said to demean or hurt those that have been victimized.
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