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RE: Confused....... - 8/20/2006 2:47:54 PM

popeye1250

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Rider, if what you're looking for is a woman to star in sex movies making love with another man you may want to look into another internet site.
This site is primarily focused on the B&D, M/s relationship.
You might try Adultfriendfinders or something like that.
I really don't think too many women in this site would be interested in making sex movies, I could be wrong of course but it just seems that what you're lookng for is in another whole different area of the sexual realm.
If I were interested in that myself I'd take out ads in Hollywood counter culture newspapers.
There's thousands of young girls out there who do sex movies and are interested in breaking into the porn industry.

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RE: Confused....... - 8/20/2006 2:54:00 PM

shyslave1

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Hi
I would agree with mystiquenz when she makes the statement 'I amy be a submisive, but I am not a submissive to all'.

I appreciate it is difficult to find the right person. There are a great many wannabes and people who like the fantasy but cannot deal with the reality of a D/s relationship.
Figuring out what the people you are talking to percieve as a submissive, slave, bottom, whatever words they use is half the battle.
Charging into a conversation with 'You will...' would have me switching off immediately. The first conversation I ever had with him lasted several hours and sex was not mentioned once. I liked that, he wanted to know me as a person first and foremost.
I think you are right to be honest about what you are looking, otherwise it wastes everyone's time. It also means when you do finally meet someone who responds you know it is right and she is not (hopefully) wasting your time.

However, it does seem there are many more male Doms looking for female submissives than there are female submissives.

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RE: Confused....... - 8/20/2006 6:50:06 PM

Cutiepie74019

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honesty as always is the best policy but some women can be slightly shocked if you are completly blunt ... you also have to keep in mind trhat if you are a good kind caring dom you will one day find that lil subbie or slave that it perfect for you, you as many will have to sort thru all the fakes and all the people that are wrong for you

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