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RE: 3 years and $6000 later, its goodbye ! - 4/18/2004 1:47:58 PM

feline

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i understand being upset and the frustration, but WOW what behavior! This of course being directed to the original poster.

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'No Poly, No Men, No Nothing, Not seeking a damn thing' profiles, which is a complete waste of our time to even look at; why are you profiling here anyhow? Go F-ing chat on IRC so we dont have to look at your waste of space.

i have one of these profiles as well perverseangelic, for the same reasons. i'm fairly new to my area, how else was i going to meet people with the same interests. (yes i already belong to a local group) Besides, there are so many out there with more and different experiences then me that i can learn from. So i would have to agree with you and your point. At least i am up front and straight forward. i thought that was how it should be done.

Oh well, can't please everybody all the time. And if you try you'll just end up driving yourself insane.

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RE: 3 years and $6000 later, its goodbye ! - 4/18/2004 3:04:49 PM

sirrob

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I can understand the frustration and disappointment. We have been looking for a couple of years as well and been through all the deleted e-mails, no responses and having people just up and disappearing without any explanation what so ever.
There have been a couple of times I have considered just removing the profile and writing it off to a waste of time.

Having said that, I do understand that an on-line search is a chance... nothing more, nothing less and I don't hold my breath or count on anything being real until it truly is.

Most are looking for their "one" or at the least, a kinky life partner.

Almost all would not consider serving a Dominant couple much less on a 24/7 basis. So I recognize the small percentage of profiles that are even open to an introductory e-mail.

In the meantime, I'll save my frustration for something I can change or at least affect.

Regards,
Ms Crysta

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RE: 3 years and $6000 later, its goodbye ! - 4/19/2004 11:18:28 AM

UtahGoddess

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"Tonight was the last straw, the slave we have been talking with for a fing month and whom accepted our 24/7 offer just told us it will be 15 months before she can arrive as she does not want to break her lease."

Oh my goodness! How terribly selfish of her not to drop her life and move in with you based on a month long internet communication! She should have packed her bags when you said hello ferchrissake! How inconsiderate of her to take her responsibilities seriously! I say let's stake her to the cyber rack and PRETEND to flog her!

"We are tired of the enormous amount of wannabes, liars, fakes, and moronic females that say they want 24/7 but never really thought about it. Your all insincere little B-ches. "

Your immense respect for those that serve you is underwhelming.

"So heres the skinny on the $6000. 3 years x 2000 hours a year x 1 dollar an hour. We spend about 6 hours a week trolling alt.com, bondage.com and collarme.com"

Here's a clue.....STEP AWAY FROM THE COMPUTER

"We're DOMS, were supposed to give abuse, not take it. "

Now gee.....I can't imagine why you are having difficulty. Victims should be beating a path to your door! Oh....that's right.....you are seeking a sub/slave.

Maybe you need better bait.

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RE: 3 years and $6000 later, its goodbye ! - 4/19/2004 5:33:08 PM

liljoy

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quote:

Ms Sandi

well i was going to repsond to this post but Ms Sandi said everything i would have said but She said it much better then i would have . kuudos Ms Sandi

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RE: 3 years and $6000 later, its goodbye ! - 4/20/2004 1:02:41 AM

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quote:

I say let's stake her to the cyber rack and PRETEND to flog her!

Bows and thanks UtahGoddes for the joy of a belly laugh this morning.

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RE: 3 years and $6000 later, its goodbye ! - 4/20/2004 5:44:05 PM

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Ohhh damn, and I cant remember the combination to my cyber chest of toys....

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RE: 3 years and $6000 later, its goodbye ! - 4/20/2004 8:04:01 PM

DarkQuin

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6000 hours in 3 years of trolling? Not to inult or anything, but you would think one would get a clue within the first 100 or so hours that a different approach might be necessary.

First off, if you are looking for 24/7 I'd suggest looking in your own backyard, because you are asking for a huge commitment that isn't taken lightly. Secondly, if you are asking for 24/7 straight off just forget about it, all you are going to do is attract wannabes and players. Thirdly, submissives are human, thinking, emotional beings, they want you to get to know them first and they want to get to know you, make sure that you don't turn into a werewolf or a Mr Hyde when not in public. Lastly, get a grip and keep a grip on yourself, when dom's fly off the handle it scares the subs and tends to drop you a notch or four on everybody else's post. Lastly, be yourself, that alone will either attract the sub of your desires or scare them all away.

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RE: 3 years and $6000 later, its goodbye ! - 4/20/2004 8:22:02 PM

ProDomme

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What I find amusing about this thread is that, they said "goodbye" blah .. blah.. blah, don't bother to reply and so on. It was written with obvious obnoxious remarks. Yet so many have come to post in reply, instead of ignoring it as it should have been.

If a post deserved a "troll" tag this one did. They obviously could care less what anyone has to say, they did exactly what they wanted to.. They left, have not been back since the 17th.

All these replies, to who?

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RE: 3 years and $6000 later, its goodbye ! - 4/21/2004 1:54:02 AM

inyouagain

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LOL, are you trying to cut in?

Next dance... who said that?, oops that was case! (nevermind)

Inyouagain

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RE: 3 years and $6000 later, its goodbye ! - 4/21/2004 3:21:35 AM

GoddessMarissa

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If they did not come back to see any addvice, then mabey someone else will read it and not make the same mistakes.

< Message edited by GoddessMarissa -- 4/21/2004 3:27:43 AM >

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RE: 3 years and $6000 later, its goodbye ! - 4/21/2004 3:47:50 AM

londonswitch

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I've found it useful.

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RE: 3 years and $6000 later, its goodbye ! - 4/22/2004 10:27:35 PM

DrJohnSea41

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I actually think it isn't so much this person's approach, what they are experiencing is just the way the online experience works. Face it people, most messages are unanswered no matter what you write, many are just deleted. Studies of vanilla online dating sites have shown that males typically get a response rate of 1% or less, so just how much better luck do you think you'll have in a much smaller population like ours? Think about that -- one reply for every HUNDRED messages you send. That means if you aren't secure and confident enough about yourself you're a fool to be here at all because no matter what you do you aren't going to get a huge response rate no matter what your approach.

I certainly think that a hostile attitude won't appeal to many people, but the reality is that ANY approach is still going to get a small number of replies if you're male so just live with it.

If you can't deal with that, use a different method to find the person you seek. The internet is not a place for people with such thin skins.

John

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RE: 3 years and $6000 later, its goodbye ! - 4/23/2004 4:12:50 AM

LadyBeckett

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quote:

UtahGoddess:
Your immense respect for those that serve you is underwhelming.

Sandi said everything that could be said in her post.

< Message edited by LadyBeckett -- 4/23/2004 4:14:37 AM >

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RE: 3 years and $6000 later, its goodbye ! - 4/23/2004 1:23:04 PM

iwillserveu

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huh?

Last I checked she had as much right to be here as you.

Dance? Mudst be a private joke from all those e-mails you sent her after viewing dominant woman profiles.

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RE: 3 years and $6000 later, its goodbye ! - 4/25/2004 4:34:33 AM

ShadeDiva

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ProDomme

What I find amusing about this thread is that, they said "goodbye" blah .. blah.. blah, don't bother to reply and so on. It was written with obvious obnoxious remarks. Yet so many have come to post in reply, instead of ignoring it as it should have been.

If a post deserved a "troll" tag this one did. They obviously could care less what anyone has to say, they did exactly what they wanted to.. They left, have not been back since the 17th.

All these replies, to who?

Over the years I've seen numerous interesting or fun conversations that evolved directly from a trolls "outburst".

Just because they might have sparked it doesn't necessarily mean it only continues for their benefit, after all. It continues mostly because on some level, the people interacting find something of interest to either add on to, comment on, or perhaps it sparks something in their psyche that they decide to work it out in text.

I couldn't possibly count how many times a trolling sparked an interesting or boring debate or conversation that was continued merely for the other folks interest and had nothing more to do with them really past that point.

JMX.

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RE: 3 years and $6000 later, its goodbye ! - 4/25/2004 2:48:17 PM

MistressKiss

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I certainly miss your posts when you are not around...please join us more often. The more switches, the better....

wait a second....more switches (thinks of tree branches and shudders...grins)

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RE: 3 years and $6000 later, its goodbye ! - 4/25/2004 10:25:18 PM

CFNM Bondage

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UtahGoddess
One of very few females out there who dont get too far away from reality.

THATS WHAT I WANT IN A MISTRESS. Or mistresses.

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RE: 3 years and $6000 later, its goodbye ! - 5/9/2004 2:33:54 PM

CentralDom

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Waaaaaaaaa......waaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!

<hush little baby, don't you cry..>

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RE: 3 years and $6000 later, its goodbye ! - 5/10/2004 1:21:59 PM

indigo302

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quote:

Tonight was the last straw, the slave we have been talking with for a fing month and whom accepted our 24/7 offer just told us it will be 15 months before she can arrive as she does not want to break her lease.

Hmm...you talked to her for a WHOLE month before expecting her to pack up, leave her home and family and move in with you? how well can you even know this person????

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RE: 3 years and $6000 later, its goodbye ! - 12/15/2004 9:04:34 AM

DaNewAgeViking

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quote:

ORIGINAL: FLdomCouple

Well, dont bother to even reply or flame, this account is cancelled about 10 seconds after I hit SEND, and we are never coming back. We're DOMS, were supposed to give abuse, not take it.

Goodness, thought he'd never leave! It's just IM n/s HO, but we don't need that sort of behavior in the lifestyle.

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