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RE: sub for me? - 8/14/2006 12:14:24 PM

littleone35

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Actually i am changing my reply i was just reading the thread confused and i think you should let him bring the sub in. If she is your sub you can tell her to get out you might laugh but i am not joking.

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RE: sub for me? - 8/14/2006 12:46:39 PM

sweetabuse

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Thanks for the replies and advice. I did talk to my Master and he has decided to keep anyone else out of our relationship.
If I would have had the courage to speak up earlier, I may have solved this days ago.
This is why I joined this site. The good and the ugly, all the feedback was very helpful. Thanks again.

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RE: sub for me? - 8/14/2006 4:00:14 PM

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PlayfulOne,

Wow . . . What does desparately wanting to be collared have to do with an unethical Dom wanting to renig on an agreement? What's the difference between your post and blaming the victim for her perpetrator's actions? Sorry but I cant help but wonder about your answers to these questions. Perhaps its not so much what you had to say but rather the tone in which you said it.

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RE: sub for me? - 8/14/2006 4:22:41 PM

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Leather Bent,

When one stops being desperate and starts thinking about their choices, they do not wind up in these silly situations. Know who youy are dealing with and what you are doing. So yes, when people go jumping into things it is their own fault.

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RE: sub for me? - 8/14/2006 6:32:50 PM

sweetnurseBBW

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Just because another sub enters the picture doesnt mean you have to dom her. Maybe he or you doesnt understand that. I can never dom another person female or male and have always made that clear. Its just not who I am. Never have been made to dom another sub. I enjoying being with another another woman but that is as a lover not a Domme.

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RE: sub for me? - 8/14/2006 9:00:44 PM

formenteralady

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I'm glad your Dom is working with you on this.
I'm also glad you found the guts to talk to hima bout what you want, because really you aren't being a good sub if you aren't communicateing with your Dom about what you want and need.

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RE: sub for me? - 8/15/2006 8:29:17 AM

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i would agree, three months is way to soon in a relationship to have this sprung on you. it seems to me that your Dom may have been talking to other subs while He is with you, so ther is a trust issue here, i think, are you sure you can trust your Dom not to violate any agreements youve put inplace? as im sure that any sub would be emotionally insecure in a new relationship with a dom, especially if there could be devided loyalties with your Dom and two subs. and jealousy could play abig part in any relationship-never a good thing

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RE: sub for me? - 8/15/2006 1:17:20 PM

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I'm glad you have communicated with him and things seem to be working out....but the concept of "Dom takes a Sub, Dom wants Sub to be a Switch" is just a little weird to me.

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