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What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/13/2006 10:35:12 PM

LordDarkPleasure

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Hello, I haven't checked Dommes much, but since I started reading this forum I have been surprised at how many of you are into feminisation and such and I am wondering why. I understand the humiliation side of it, but isn't it more fun to Dominate a man who shows more virility than one who would wear women's underwear daily for example? In my mind it would make more sense to have more fun Dominating a guy with a tough look.

But I'm neither sub or Domme so I guess I won't figure it out without asking :)

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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/14/2006 12:21:37 AM

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I think you'll actually find that most who participate on the boards don't do it - or at least, don't do it with all of their male submissives.

Holly and I definitely prefer masculine subs, and while I adore a man in a kilt, a man in a dress just doesn't really do anything for me.

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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/14/2006 12:47:02 AM

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Personally, I don't do the male dress-up thing, except if you count naked-except-for-an-apron-while-cooking (yum!). And yet, I really get off on applying lipstick to my extremely masculine submissive and submissive/puppy, and then kissing it all off of them. I don't have an explanation for it, though. Sorry. All I can tell you is it works for me.

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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/14/2006 12:54:44 AM

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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/14/2006 2:25:28 AM

MzMinx

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hmmm count me out .... I love masculine men ...I enjoy male bodies ...and male sexuality .... *smiles* but I dominate the whole person ...

although i dont think they need to look tough to be masculine

but *smiles* obeying/submitting to your dominants desires, does not as such effect your virility, even if it does include wearing feminine underwear

*smiles* ... and my thoughts are that their are far more males into cross dressing and forced fem and every other version of it than dominas.... even with cross dressing as a dislike on my profile I still get lots and lots of mail from boys desireing it

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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/14/2006 4:51:56 AM

LadyEllen

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Crossdressing a guy only becomes fun if he doesnt want to do it.

Problem is, finding a male who doesnt want to crossdress - sure they might protest, but usually its a case of the "lady" doth protest too much!

Personally I dislike males dressed as females - especially the younger ones who sometimes look better than me! LOL!
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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/14/2006 6:40:55 AM

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I'm only "into" it if the male-bodied person is actually transgendered. In that case, I'd be attracted to the female energy...so it's wouldn't be "dress-up". I'm currently looking at a female-to-male trans person who has really nice male energy...and looks great in a kilt!!

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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/14/2006 7:07:27 AM

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I did it once....I was playing with someone who was a friend and it was his kink. It did and does absolutely nothing for me.

I like my men to be men, there's nothing quite as thrilling as throwing some six foot plus masculine man around...even if he has to attach his own cuffs to a cross because I can't reach even on tiptoe...lol!

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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/14/2006 8:16:41 AM

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Me and mine just recently got into the cross dressing thing. He IS very much the macho male, which is why I personally find it so much fun. Its also exciting that Mr. Macho gets so turned on by it that he can barely contain himself.

To see my 6'4" 248lb guy dressed as a french maid with a huge throbbing erection just revs my engine and it does his as well. So when we are at home he can wear whatever he wants which is usually a lacy thong and a bra, but when we go out he's all boots, tshirt and jeans.

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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/14/2006 8:20:00 AM

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Not my thing at all. I like to look at men that look like men and women that are all woman.

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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/14/2006 9:21:36 AM

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Your question is one of sheer preferences and tastes, don't you think. I cannot fathom why anyone would like medical fetishes, but they do. It's all merely a matter of what you like and how you like it -- not every desire is easily understood by all.

As for crossdressing ... it's just one more facet of my kinky pleasures.

While I adore the masculine body and a virle male, I also enjoy the delicious charms of a femme woman or the harder edge of a butch, the naievte of a younger boy, the sweetness of a girl, the experience of a woman, the intertwined nature of a transgendered as well as the fascinating fetishes of a crossdresser who, while looking very masculine, is at the completely mercy of a pair of panties and stockings -- it's a rush to watch their rush. Plus it's damn sexy to see a hairy chest peeking out from lacy bra, or fishnet stocking covering masculine legs. But hey, that's just me. When I am with trans-girls, the erotica comes from understanding the nature and their need to pass, and with crossdressers, I understand their fetishes as well - hence making both very sexy to me, in their own individual way.

And I might add that in My transformations -- whether it be with a manly male undergoing *forced feminization* or even willing and succumbing to his fetishes or an effeminate male wanting to pass -- it's quite the Dr. Frankenstien mindset to do such genderbending and the create a new person where another gender once stood.

Talk about the ultimate in a power rush!

But again, that's just me.

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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/14/2006 9:25:50 AM

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I personally prefer more androgynous people in terms of personality and body form. I don't find feminine or masculine to be attractive stereotypes.

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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/14/2006 9:35:47 AM

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Beauty is in the eye of the one holding the flogger. LOL

I myself like to use humilation for training and entertainment. For example I once used a humiliating training method I invented to get a slave to be bondaged outside. And for entertainment I like to use a remote vibrator for out door purposes, such as telling her to go and ask for directions from someone while I'm standing on the side laughing while I press the button. However I do find it very funny and entertaining to watch another Dom/Domme humiliate their male slave. As odd as that may sound.
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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/14/2006 10:11:24 AM

Jasmyn

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quote:

Hello, I haven't checked Dommes much, but since I started reading this forum I have been surprised at how many of you are into feminisation and such and I am wondering why. I understand the humiliation side of it, but isn't it more fun to Dominate a man who shows more virility than one who would wear women's underwear daily for example? In my mind it would make more sense to have more fun Dominating a guy with a tough look.

But I'm neither sub or Domme so I guess I won't figure it out without asking :)

Conquering a masculine stereotype is it more fun? ...no, each one gives me similar and at times totally different experiences and returns that I couldn't get from the other ... I don't have any issues with feminisation... it's a great tool for setting discipline and behaviours, and makes for great play scenes ... virility vs non-virility...at the end of the day is neither here nor there.. they are both subserveint to me and they are both men... It's the person, not the stereotype that turns me on.

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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/14/2006 10:12:13 AM

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We just HAD this conversation, started by a male slave asking about why we want to feminize our men. The point was that there was a whole lot of us who did NOT have interest in feminization, period.

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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/14/2006 10:15:18 AM

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Well first off your ideas show one presumption- that wearing feminine clothes strips a man of virility and strength. This is a falsehood, there is nothing about wearing feminine clothes which strips anyone of any of their strength.

However, the symbolism we PLACE upon clothing does tend to evoke reactions in us and people on all sides of all the slashes use their clothing to symbolize who they are, to show strength, to show weakness, to express who they are.

For me it's something I enjoy if my partner enjoys it. I enjoy connecting and having authority- the specific road it takes is of little importance.

And no, I don't do it to strip a man of his virility or strength, and in fact quite enjoy having both at the sam time.

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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/14/2006 10:23:12 AM

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Off on a bit of a tangent...but I wonder...why does this particular activity spark so many "why do/don't you like this?" type questions? There seem to be far fewer similar questions about other activities that also appeal to a limited number of people.

Like anything else discussed here, some are into it...some aren't. Explanations of why one feels a particular way about something are often very difficult to give, and don't always line up with another's explanation.

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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/14/2006 10:30:41 AM

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Heads up LA, it's the same for me ... it's not that I can't appreciate a traditionally virile specimen, but that I can equally appreciate a non traditional virile specimen as well ...

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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/14/2006 11:01:43 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Jasmyn

Heads up LA, it's the same for me ... it's not that I can't appreciate a traditionally virile specimen, but that I can equally appreciate a non traditional virile specimen as well ...

I did FR so my response was to the OP and not you so if it got confusing, sorry.

People just can't seem to break out of their "this OR that" blocking system.

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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/14/2006 11:23:01 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: tasha_tart

Off on a bit of a tangent...but I wonder...why does this particular activity spark so many "why do/don't you like this?" type questions? There seem to be far fewer similar questions about other activities that also appeal to a limited number of people.

Like anything else discussed here, some are into it...some aren't. Explanations of why one feels a particular way about something are often very difficult to give, and don't always line up with another's explanation.

Tasha

It's either feminization or scat. We can't seem to get away from either topic these days.

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