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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/14/2006 11:44:06 AM

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ORIGINAL: MisPandora

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ORIGINAL: tasha_tart

Off on a bit of a tangent...but I wonder...why does this particular activity spark so many "why do/don't you like this?" type questions? There seem to be far fewer similar questions about other activities that also appeal to a limited number of people.

Like anything else discussed here, some are into it...some aren't. Explanations of why one feels a particular way about something are often very difficult to give, and don't always line up with another's explanation.

Tasha

It's either feminization or scat. We can't seem to get away from either topic these days.

Yes, that has also been a frequent topic.

I can understand people wanting to know "why." I've been asked that question face to face often enough. However, I can't generally answer it to anyone's satisfaction; "just because" doesn't seem to make them happy. That's their problem, though, not mine.

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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/14/2006 12:06:40 PM

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that is hilarious and true.

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ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

Problem is, finding a male who doesnt want to crossdress - sure they might protest, but usually its a case of the "lady" doth protest too much!

to the Op: Like everything in D/s there are so many levels to it, and you cant even begin to plumb the depths with out the desire to want to go there.

So i could tell you everything i love about it;

the spirituality, the juxtiopostion, the evolution, the conudrum, the playing god, the teasing, the suffering, the power surges, the reclaiming, the marking, the mental landscraping, the distress, the seduction of silk and satin, the deconstruction of self and the healing and revealing....

But i cant can i? it needs to be experianced....maybe one day ill meet you there, ill be the one wearing a base ball cap and holding bag from victoria secrets....

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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/14/2006 5:18:39 PM

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okay, well I supose it isn't as popular as I was led to believe in the first place. Since I always have to picture guy guy actually wearing what the Domme is mentionning and I dislike it, I probably only noticed those moments just like we only notice when we have JUST missed the bus and all these kinds of things.

To the ruder ones womeb answered, I never meant my question to be criticizing or anything, I was aking to improve my personnal BDSM culture. I probably should have made a search in the board for such subjects, which I usually do, but for subjects on which I feel less interest in, I sometimes am just not compelled to such efforts, especially when I am just about to go sleep.

Thank you all for your answers.

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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/14/2006 8:04:15 PM

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As a submissive male, this is not fun for me. i do it only as an order from certain women who find it amusing to make me serve them dressed as a sissy. It is not something i enjoy. michael

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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/14/2006 8:12:08 PM

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I enjoy femenizing my boy for a few reasons. Firstly, asthetically, its pleasing. This might not be the case at all times... but it is for me. Since he believes that females are superior, allowing him to emulate the better gender empowers him and he is far braver around me as a female than he is any other way. And far more comfortable in his role.
I have had plenty of boys who it wasnt enjoyable at all. Even by command they didnt enjoy it and I didnt enjoy it. Its a person by person decision.. forme.

My 2 cents

DV

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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/14/2006 8:37:10 PM

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Dear LordDarkPleasure, Ladies and Gentlemen;

Personally, as much as I like the individuals for who they are inside, I am not inclined to have a sissy male or femme male in my service. Being a lady, I prefer male gentlemen in service to me. I am very capable of finding ladies to serve me, should I seek a female.

That said, I will add that a good many men who cross-dress, fetish dress in women's clothing, may be into female dressing long before they even come across to a female dominant. With rare exceptions, men who dress in female garb, are so caught up in their own sensations and looks, that service is not what is a result, even though they 'seek' to serve. Most times it is an audience they seek to see how fine they are in female garb. Rare do you find a man who dresses in female fetish or female garb, that actually works hard to serve.

In the European countries, during the reign of Queen Victoria, the term to discipline men and boys were to have them dress, with wigs, female garb from undergarments to dresses was called "peticoating."
Not only was it discipline/punishment but, was to put these naughty men/boys into a position as to suffer what women/girls had to endure by their actions. In short, to give them a 'taste' of their own medicine, per se.

History has many gentlemen in female attire throughout history, such as ancient Japanese theater, some Vaudville acts, some acts during Shakespeare's time were all done by males, in female roles as well. So, it wasn't always a source of humiliation but, an art form.

For those who practice the Victorian form/style of their M/s or D/s relationship, it may be more practiced as a punishment rather than a fetish.

Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs

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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/20/2006 3:06:07 AM

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ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

I enjoy femenizing my boy for a few reasons. Firstly, asthetically, its pleasing. This might not be the case at all times... but it is for me. Since he believes that females are superior, allowing him to emulate the better gender empowers him and he is far braver around me as a female than he is any other way. And far more comfortable in his role.
I have had plenty of boys who it wasnt enjoyable at all. Even by command they didnt enjoy it and I didnt enjoy it. Its a person by person decision.. forme.

My 2 cents

DV

nice to know there are some real females out there that do like crossdressers
curtsy tvsue

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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/20/2006 10:20:11 AM

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[/quote]

So i could tell you everything i love about it;

the spirituality, the juxtiopostion, the evolution, the conudrum, the playing god, the teasing, the suffering, the power surges, the reclaiming, the marking, the mental landscraping, the distress, the seduction of silk and satin, the deconstruction of self and the healing and revealing....

But i cant can i? it needs to be experienced....

[/quote]

As One who plumbs the psychospiritual aspects of D/s in Female Domination, rather than primarily focusing on the physical, I agree that the complexities inherent in what is called "feminization" are countless. The obvious ability to break through the seemingly sacrosanct boundary of identity in any form, and to observe, guide and build as the shell is cracked and as the core is revealed in all its beauty, is indeed something that needs to be experienced and is not able to be well expressed in a few words.

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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/20/2006 11:01:50 AM

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ORIGINAL: tvsue

nice to know there are some real females out there that do like crossdressers
curtsy tvsue

Hmm....real females...I do hope you're not suggesting that liking crossdressing is the thing that would make any of us real.

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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/20/2006 12:48:29 PM

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I think it'd be really cool if one could pull off the look. I've never been more than slightly curious though and never with someone who was anymore than curious either so it's not something I've explored.

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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/20/2006 3:46:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: tvsue

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ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

I enjoy femenizing my boy for a few reasons. Firstly, asthetically, its pleasing. This might not be the case at all times... but it is for me. Since he believes that females are superior, allowing him to emulate the better gender empowers him and he is far braver around me as a female than he is any other way. And far more comfortable in his role.
I have had plenty of boys who it wasnt enjoyable at all. Even by command they didnt enjoy it and I didnt enjoy it. Its a person by person decision.. forme.

My 2 cents

DV

nice to know there are some real females out there that do like crossdressers
curtsy tvsue

So that makes me less than real because I have no interest in CD? Hmmmm.

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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/21/2006 12:48:56 AM

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You know, I find more femanine men attractive, but I will say by and large I am far more attracted to women then men, but then I also find TV's Transpeople, and gender neutrual people very hot. I've always considered it a quirk that's just part of what makes me, well me.
It's definatly not for everyone.
But then few things are.
:D

Now I will say I tend to enjoy a man that likes to dress in drag, to one I have to force, just because I like to see them show off thier new accests.

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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/26/2006 12:46:05 AM

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ORIGINAL: MisPandora

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ORIGINAL: tvsue

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ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire

I enjoy femenizing my boy for a few reasons. Firstly, asthetically, its pleasing. This might not be the case at all times... but it is for me. Since he believes that females are superior, allowing him to emulate the better gender empowers him and he is far braver around me as a female than he is any other way. And far more comfortable in his role.
I have had plenty of boys who it wasnt enjoyable at all. Even by command they didnt enjoy it and I didnt enjoy it. Its a person by person decision.. forme.

My 2 cents

DV

nice to know there are some real females out there that do like crossdressers
curtsy tvsue

So that makes me less than real because I have no interest in CD? Hmmmm.

sorry no wish to imply you were any less of a female for haveing no interest in CD's
just saying it's nice to know there are females that like CD's

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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/26/2006 4:50:39 AM

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hi i too have noticed that feminization comes up alot . i must say i agree with Ladys Huggs she hit it rite on the Nail head that many males dress even before they ever comein contact with mistresss

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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/26/2006 7:42:19 AM

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I like CD's.. when it is on my terms. Thats the hardest thing to find though. What I have come across mostly is those who are already into cross dressing and it becomes all about their need for it, which strips the fun out of it at some times.

I remember the first boy I ever cross dressed and I had a BLAST. He looked so cute in a pink satin nighty and panty hose. *weg* I think the major attraction with him though was sliding the hose up and seeing his erm "stuff" jump to attention heh.... It made for really nice humiliation use later too... ( which is rather odd for me too cause I'm not all that big on humiliation... but he liked it *shrugs* )

Would I do it again, hell yes. I happen to like big hairy barbie dolls...

(that or maybe I have too much time on my hands and need to get another hobby lol.)

As I mentioned in the shoe thread ( popeye started it) there is definately something to be said for being able to just snag a pair of your boys boots and be able to wear em heh... and most CD's have really good taste in shoes/boots....

For me its fun, to get to take a man completely out of his element and turn him into a pretty lil slut...

( and no not ALL men but some )

ok enough with my ramble lol

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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/26/2006 9:29:34 AM

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I'm so tired to seeing men in dresses that I have stopped searching the male slave profiles. I prefer masculine males and feminine female slaves. But, that is my preference.

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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/26/2006 10:00:27 AM

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There are a number of things about it that make it hot and I guess it's probably not exactly the same for everyone. For me the main component is seeing the contrast between a masculine body and a feminine article of clothing. I generally prefer just the lingerie to the whole dress/wig etc...

The second big turn on is the humiliation factor. Anything fem or girlie is such a taboo for men that it's pretty easy to embarass them by forcing them to wear, touch, choose, talk about, admire feminine things. Think about how awkward some men look when they have to hold their wives purses for a while.

Then there's the factor of making them experience what women do. Walking in high heels, cinching the waist with a corset or girdle, waxing, scrubbing, painting nails, hair, makeup etc... To show them what women have had to do to get a mans attention and interest and then to humiliate them for being so bad at it.

Then there's the emotional component of taking him completely out of his comfort zone. He no longer has the trappings of masculinity that he can wear like a mask. It makes him very vulnerable.

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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/26/2006 10:06:31 AM

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I do not have any interests in boys who want to be girls ( even if temporary)...... It is so much more fun to take a man to his knees than to a man who is in disguise .... I do not understand the thinking of the male mind where this is concerned

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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/26/2006 9:16:54 PM

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I'm so over elitist crap that it's somehow better to have a male submit as a male than it is to have a male submit while cross dressed ... to me they are one and the same thing ... they are both MEN submitting ... whether he's in a dress, or boxer shorts, or naked with a leather collar, or in so much fru fru Barbara Cartland garish colours and makeup pales in comparison ...it's still a man at my feet ...

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RE: What's so fun about feminisation? - 8/26/2006 9:32:51 PM

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Personally, which is the only way I can speak, I do it for the asthetic value. I find femenine clothes t be more astetically pleasing on some of my boys than I do masculine clothes. Therefore, I dress them as such. It has nothing to do with making them "more" submissive that way. It just makes me happier to see them looking pretty.

My 2 cents
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