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RE: Poor me - 8/16/2006 7:39:06 PM   
juliaoceania


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From: Somewhere Over the Rainbow
Status: offline 		Well there is West Virginia, East Virginia, Ohio, Tennessee, and North Carolina close by..smiles... perhaps an interstate search?

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RE: Poor me - 8/16/2006 7:40:43 PM   
cuddleheart50


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From: Kentucky
Status: offline 		I've already tried that, it just doesnt work out casue no on wants to move here, and I dont do long distance relationships. 

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RE: Poor me - 8/17/2006 3:37:47 AM   
mons


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Status: offline 		greetings crappy
 
i do not mean to say anything wrong to the others, but you really upset and the others and even you may a joke of this but you are feeling lonely and sad this is no joke we as dominants are to be happy and have all of the slaves or submissive we want or need this is not true we have feeling of hurt and pain, even most of all broken hearts. i take what you say very real.
 
i do not want anyone far away either but i wil talk with someone and it is ok. being a dominant male is even harder for you to say this and write it also. i hope you find you specail someone crappy do you have a real name i like you crappy dom name but i just do not like to call you crappy which i am sure you not. i will send good feelings to you and i hope you will find that someone. i am like a empath i feel other pain and i feel your. i hope you do not mind my saying this take care
 
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RE: Poor me - 8/17/2006 7:57:52 AM   
Arpig


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quote:

every Dom I have ever talked to lived in Western Ky, and I live in Eastern...Ky is a very long state...many miles between eastern and western.


Sorry, but I hail from Ontario, and the thought of Kentucky as in any way big makes me smile. Kentucky is less than 400 miles long.....a mere bagatelle by our standards, Ontario is around 1300 miles east-west (basically from Vermont to Minnesota).

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RE: Poor me - 8/17/2006 10:01:08 AM   
juliaoceania


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Arpig

quote:

every Dom I have ever talked to lived in Western Ky, and I live in Eastern...Ky is a very long state...many miles between eastern and western.


Sorry, but I hail from Ontario, and the thought of Kentucky as in any way big makes me smile. Kentucky is less than 400 miles long.....a mere bagatelle by our standards, Ontario is around 1300 miles east-west (basically from Vermont to Minnesota).


I was thinking the same thing, my Daddy is about 250 miles away from me. My state is about 800 miles from Eureka to San Diego

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RE: Poor me - 8/17/2006 10:10:16 AM   
popeye1250


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From: New Hampshire
Status: offline 		Crappy, I haven't been to Calif in about 15 years but as I remember it, the Sacramento area was a fairly large, populous area.
It's hard to imagine that there aren't thousands of subs there!
Maybe take out an ad in the local paper's "personals" section?
Or maybe like they do in Europe, public bulletin boards like in laundrymats, supermarkets, etc.
I bet that would get you results!

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RE: Poor me - 8/17/2006 10:19:01 AM   
onestandingstill


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ORIGINAL: CrappyDom

This site is driving me nuts.  In the past I have rarely found people whom I was interested in but had great success in connecting with that select group of women.  Here I find a amazing plethora of women who I find interesting and attractive but they all seem to be hundreds of miles away and the few who are local have never responded to my emails.

When I ran a group I had access to more women than I wanted but having recently reentered the scene I have found almost nobody I was interested in locally. 

Craigslist has been of no use, either through running or responding to ads, either with or without a picture.  I write a mean ad and again, even without pictures, I used to get somewhat bombarded by responses.

I just don't get it, I am wiser, more experienced, more talented and stable than I was before.  I guess it could just be the whole running a group thing but then that would make it all not about me, a concept I hate to admit.

Anyway, I just had to vent here since I don't seem to find any other place to "vent" anything...

Hello There,
As I posted in another board here I think if you had a profile you'd probably have better luck. I also would not respond to a message from someone I thought (my opinion not an attack) was too in the closet about their identity to even have a profile. If you want to be considered you have to put some words out there to consider.
Just my 2 cents,
Suzanne

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RE: Poor me - 8/17/2006 10:20:11 AM   
crouchingtigress


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RE: Poor me - 8/17/2006 4:50:37 PM   
indigo302


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quote:

ORIGINAL: cuddleheart50

I don't think there is 1 Dom in the whole state of Kentucky..lol


Well I know there's none in Delaware!  Okay, maybe there's a lot of Tops....but I've yet to meet a Dominant.

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RE: Poor me - 8/17/2006 6:32:50 PM   
porcelaine


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quote:

ORIGINAL: CrappyDom

This site is driving me nuts.  In the past I have rarely found people whom I was interested in but had great success in connecting with that select group of women.  Here I find a amazing plethora of women who I find interesting and attractive but they all seem to be hundreds of miles away and the few who are local have never responded to my emails.



It is possible that you simply aren't what they are seeking. Since you've indicated that you don't wish to engage in a long distance relationship, you are limiting your options severely. Also, have you considered that it could be the approach you're using or even the way your profile is worded? There could be other reasons why the responses are limited that have little to do with the obvious.

porcelaine

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RE: Poor me - 8/17/2006 7:23:13 PM   
eruditegirl1


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quote:

ORIGINAL: CrappyDom

This site is driving me nuts.  In the past I have rarely found people whom I was interested in but had great success in connecting with that select group of women.  Here I find a amazing plethora of women who I find interesting and attractive but they all seem to be hundreds of miles away and the few who are local have never responded to my emails.

When I ran a group I had access to more women than I wanted but having recently reentered the scene I have found almost nobody I was interested in locally. 

Craigslist has been of no use, either through running or responding to ads, either with or without a picture.  I write a mean ad and again, even without pictures, I used to get somewhat bombarded by responses.

I just don't get it, I am wiser, more experienced, more talented and stable than I was before.  I guess it could just be the whole running a group thing but then that would make it all not about me, a concept I hate to admit.

Anyway, I just had to vent here since I don't seem to find any other place to "vent" anything...


Patience is personally associated with waiting….an amusing little oxymoron. The act of waiting in itself seems to involve a lack of action…. an action on the brink of occurring. So let’s say you meet someone….and it goes well….then after waiting/patience in finding that person…you now start the next waiting period…. waiting is right in the middle of a relationship….waiting to learn about the person, waiting for you/them to screw things up… waiting for it to work out or not… waiting to fall out of love… or in love with someone else.
Now here is my point…and ummm yes …I have one…..instead of worrying about tomorrow…enjoy today…cause one day…(reminder..buy plane ticket) you are going to meet someone wonderful(stunning too)….and then you will be reminiscing on when you could have been enjoying this time more….we all get lonely…we all want the whole Prince on a white horse with the flogger….or in your case….a princess in distress tied to the bed….everything and anything in life worth it…is also worth waiting for…patience is a wonderful thing…a great asset….when viewed and used in a positive light…..
Another observation....we all create our own worlds....sometimes
consciously or unconsciously....maybe you are trying to fit a square/poly peg into a round/monogamous hole.....and it goes against your nature...kind of like making a family heirloom out of plywood.....just doesn't work...and it's tacky too.....

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RE: Poor me - 8/17/2006 8:20:05 PM   
cynthiamarie


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From: Bluefield, WV, USA
Status: offline 		My mail totally dried up when I posted that I wasn't looking...as I had hoped.

Why not change your profile and say you're looking for someone nearby or who could relocate? 

I can't manage full time yet either, and yes...some of the most wonderful people live too far away. 

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RE: Poor me - 8/17/2006 8:26:38 PM   
ThinkingKitten


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Joined: 6/15/2006
From: Ontari-ari-o
Status: offline 		Fast reply here:
Crappy (with all due respect...). If you don't mind working with a newbie sub, then maybe cast your net a little wider and try some of the 'nilla sites (if you haven't already). There I was, out in 'nilla land...... and then my discontent with the vanilla existence sent me idly browsing through the intimate side of Lavalife (where there are a number of Dom's posted). I read their profiles with interest, and started to investigate  - and the lightbulb flashed on over my head. Until that point I'd never even considered an "alternate lifestyle". Better late than never. Just remember to go easy on the "lingo" and attitude in your profile - as a newbie (as I was, and still am), I wouldn't have had a friggin' idea what was being said back then. "Submission" is a good word though. :) I didn't find out about CM until a Dom who had responded to my own profile pointed me in this direction.... and I've never even been near this "craigslist" site, so I, for one, would never have seen your profile...... Maybe, just maybe there are more like myself out there........ perhaps a mere 5 miles down the road from you or closer, in the dark and waiting for you to shine the light on them.

Cheer up. Life's a bitch remember?




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RE: Poor me - 8/17/2006 8:47:04 PM   
FirmhandKY


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Status: offline 		Kentucky:
Square miles: 40411
Population: 4,041,769
Population Density: 100 people per square mile (mainly in the north around the Cincinnati/Louisville/Lexington triangle)
Culture: Conservative and Religious

California:
Square miles: 163707 sq.mi
Population:  33,871,648
Population Density: 207 people per square mile
Culture: Hedonistic and opportunistic. 

That extra 107 people per square mile makes a big difference, I assure you.

FHky



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