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Need tips/advice on Oral service. - 8/17/2006 7:33:42 PM

Nssub

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Hello,

Iam a novice sub. My Mistress loves to be served orally. Iam pretty much inexperienced in that area. Was hoping to get some advice and tips from you all. Would love to hear what others like, what is their favorite, anything I should be aware of. And yess have read/will read about cunnilingus on the web, but wanted a Mistress's prespective.

Thank you for your time.
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RE: Need tips/advice on Oral service. - 8/17/2006 7:35:59 PM

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forget asking others ask her. i could want drums played on my pussy all day long and it wouldn't be pertinant cause it's not what she likes or wanted.

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RE: Need tips/advice on Oral service. - 8/17/2006 7:37:49 PM

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Taiko drums............

that is the music to give head by, by god.........

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RE: Need tips/advice on Oral service. - 8/17/2006 7:40:04 PM

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Massive Attack............

that is the music to give head by, by god.........

fixed.

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RE: Need tips/advice on Oral service. - 8/17/2006 7:47:53 PM

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there are at least nine other schools of head.

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RE: Need tips/advice on Oral service. - 8/17/2006 7:48:36 PM

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forget asking others ask her. i could want drums played on my pussy all day long and it wouldn't be pertinant cause it's not what she likes or wanted.

Agree. You will have to ask your Mistress what she likes. Everyone is different.

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RE: Need tips/advice on Oral service. - 8/17/2006 8:48:10 PM

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forget asking others ask her. i could want drums played on my pussy all day long and it wouldn't be pertinant cause it's not what she likes or wanted.

Agree. You will have to ask your Mistress what she likes. Everyone is different.

The good news is that you'll probably have to get a lot of yummy trial and error. lol But persevere!

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RE: Need tips/advice on Oral service. - 8/17/2006 9:06:03 PM

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Perhaps zenofeller's blow-up doll can be used for practice, with zenofeller's permission, of course.

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RE: Need tips/advice on Oral service. - 8/17/2006 9:13:39 PM

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Practice makes perfect.
And thankfully, practice even when not perfect can be damn amusing, and enjoyable.
Ask her what she likes, or better yet, let her show you what she likes. As far as I know, Mistresses dont tend to be shy about being vocal about likes and dislikes during an act.

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RE: Need tips/advice on Oral service. - 8/18/2006 1:13:48 AM

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ORIGINAL: Nssub

Hello,

Iam a novice sub. My Mistress loves to be served orally. Iam pretty much inexperienced in that area. Was hoping to get some advice and tips from you all. Would love to hear what others like, what is their favorite, anything I should be aware of. And yess have read/will read about cunnilingus on the web, but wanted a Mistress's prespective.

Thank you for your time.
N's sub.

Do you have wimpy hands or strong hands? Let em' feel the power and lust {for them} in your hands when you touch their thighs during the lead-up, brother....

What happens before the act is often times as important as the act itself.

Have fun..... ; }

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RE: Need tips/advice on Oral service. - 8/18/2006 1:45:18 AM

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Leave the light on and watch what you are doing....

When you get into her groove, don't stop no matter what she says...

It's NOT a gummy bear, so you can't really bite into it...

Do not ingore the taint...

Everyone is correct, it tastes just like chicken...

It tastes the same right side up, sideways or upside down... you'll see!

You are limlited only by length and strength...

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RE: Need tips/advice on Oral service. - 8/18/2006 10:13:45 AM

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Ask for her direction and find out how she prefers it to be done. If I have an inexperienced partner, I will tell them or direct them, depending on how they respond to instructions (some are clearly not predisposed to getting it if I just tell them verbally!)

Don't just dive in for crotch, as Ranger said, there's got to be a lead-in to the licking. Me personally, I enjoy slow and deliberate licks interspersed with sucking and WILL grab the head or verbally instruct whomever is on their mission to give them MY cues.

If she allows finger penetration/stimulation with toys at the same time as your oral worship, don't forget that. Some women can't get off without penetration, and that's important to know because you could be there until next week and she won't be able to finish.

It's also good to know if she is a g-spot ejaculator, one, so you are sure to stimulate that, but two, so you've got plenty of towels under her as not to soak the bed. I deliberately don't tell a subject to see if he asks, but I'll make sure I protect the surface as practice. It's amusing to see/feel/hear the reaction, especially from someone who is inexperienced LOL

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RE: Need tips/advice on Oral service. - 8/18/2006 8:29:56 PM

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Thank you for all the adivce.

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