Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingerie for females?


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingerie for females? Page: <<   < prev  1 [2] 3 4 5   next >   >>
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/20/2006 2:52:17 PM   
sublizzie


Posts: 1252
Joined: 5/26/2004
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: SusanofO

I would love to get a corset. I went to a few online places to look, and my Gawd, some of them are hundreds of dollars. But they are undoubtedly worth it.

- Susan



I *love* my corset!! Spent a lot of money on it, but it is definitely worth it. (Don't tell anyone but I used money I was paid for writing Sunday School lessons to pay for it.) It is handmade by a local woman who does fantastic work. Nothing like getting something made specifically to fit you to make one feel particularly special.

(in reply to SusanofO)
Profile   Post #: 21
RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/20/2006 2:53:30 PM   
SusanofO


Posts: 5672
Joined: 12/19/2005
Status: offline 		sublizzie: Good to know. Also, I think your Sunday school teaching salary is being put to good use, hehe!

- Susan

_____________________________

"Hope is the thing with feathers,
That perches in the soul,
And sings the tune without the words,
And never stops at all". - Emily Dickinson

(in reply to sublizzie)
Profile   Post #: 22
RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/20/2006 4:05:56 PM   
Vancouver_cinful


Posts: 1911
Joined: 2/3/2004
Status: offline 		Love garter belts and stockings. Love corsets. I love black or red, and occasionally white. That naughty bridal look can be hot, and makes a nice change from black.

A little mystery or enhancement beats complete nudity anyday. Naked is commonplace like I'm about to have a shower or time to sleep. Lingerie is almost-naked for sex...nice difference.

I wear thongs a lot, and yes, Nefertari is right, you have to buy them a bit large, and always go for soft, silky material.

Sorry Level, I love fishnet. But if you visit Vancouver, I'll hide all my fishnet, I promise. I wouldn't want it to scare you, sexy.

_____________________________

Cin

quote:


My Karma Account is huge, but I just can't seem to make a withdrawal!!

http://cinful.wordpress.com

(in reply to SusanofO)
Profile   Post #: 23
RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/20/2006 4:22:17 PM   
popeye1250


Posts: 18104
Joined: 1/27/2006
From: New Hampshire
Status: offline 		Susan, yes, corsets are very nice! And they are expensive but worth the money just like fitted leather sheets!
I also like high heels and high heeled boots- good for suspension bondage!
And of course long black thigh high expensive stockings.
And to hold them up you'll need a Black Leather garterbelt of course! I've seen many of those online and they're very nice looking and must feel very sensual for the woman wearing them!
And I love thongs!
If you're in bondage a thong won't bother you! (lol)

(in reply to Vancouver_cinful)
Profile   Post #: 24
RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/20/2006 4:34:22 PM   
mstrjx


Posts: 2045
Joined: 11/27/2005
Status: offline 		High heels - de rigeur, although I am quite kind about different heel heights at different times

Just say 'no' to pantyhose EVER, but naturally stockings and garter belt or thigh-higs are quite lovely.

Panties not necessary, but if so then sexy rather than old-fashioned.

Yes, corset.  I've not experienced someone who I thought corset training would be interesting, but that could make for an ideal scenario.

I don't have anything against nudity; I simply prefer lingerie.  I also think it has to do with my psychological beliefs about how men and women see themselves.  If you want to use dress as a way to humiliate a man, you strip him naked.  However, I feel that the average woman would feel more self-conscious in lingerie than being nude.

Just my take.

Jeff

_____________________________

Know thyself. It's the best gift you can ever give yourself.

(in reply to SusanofO)
Profile   Post #: 25
RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/20/2006 4:34:33 PM   
krikket


Posts: 1183
Joined: 11/17/2004
From: Washington, DC Metro Area
Status: offline 		I have also wanted a corset, for what seems like forever, but the good ones are so expensive, and the cheap ones are just that cheap.  i just did a quick search on Google for corset patterns, and this is what i found.

kits in pieces, i.e., bones,  material, pattern (McCalls & Simplicity)
http://www.corsetmaking.com/CMSpages/CMShome.html
The patters seem to run from $8 ro $17, and the kits in the neighbornood of $36 to $75.   They even have a sales "table"..lol.

There were a few other sites (i plan to check out later..lol)

Happy stitching <g>
cheers,
jimini



_____________________________

"And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to bloom."

by A. Nin



When your heart speaks take good notes.





(in reply to popeye1250)
Profile   Post #: 26
RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/20/2006 5:05:34 PM   
popeye1250


Posts: 18104
Joined: 1/27/2006
From: New Hampshire
Status: offline 		JX, you have that right about pantyhose!
The sick bastard who invented those things should be horse whipped.
They're ok if you live in a cold climate and are outside a lot but "sexy" they are not!
Now thongs are sexy and they leave no VPL's in tight pants and make them look so much nicer than seeing the panty lines in a nice tight pair of slacks.
I can't tell you how many times I've seen an attractive woman in sexy tight pants, jeans, or slacks only to see those *UGLY* panty lines that spoil the whole look!
Especially if she's wearing white or a light color of slacks!

< Message edited by popeye1250 -- 8/20/2006 5:10:01 PM >

(in reply to krikket)
Profile   Post #: 27
RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/20/2006 5:54:45 PM   
NastyDaddy


Posts: 957
Joined: 9/8/2004
Status: offline 		Although not available in Victoria's Secret, one of the sexiest outfits I've ever seen is a three-piece combo.... a collar, a smile... and one of my button up shirts with no buttons fastened. That's also a great outfit for going for a fun car ride. 

This type of outfit also has a side benefit to her in that my button up shirt is most often laced with my scent.



(in reply to SusanofO)
Profile   Post #: 28
RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/20/2006 6:17:49 PM   
nefertari


Posts: 425
Joined: 7/22/2006
Status: offline 		My ex used to leave the shirt he had worn with me so I could sleep in it til I saw him again.  I loved being able to smell him all around me when he was gone.

(in reply to NastyDaddy)
Profile   Post #: 29
RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/20/2006 6:25:01 PM   
popeye1250


Posts: 18104
Joined: 1/27/2006
From: New Hampshire
Status: offline 		My former sub used to do that with my shirts too.
And yes women do look good in a man's white dress shirt and a pair of skimpy panties.

(in reply to nefertari)
Profile   Post #: 30
RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/20/2006 6:30:00 PM   
NastyDaddy


Posts: 957
Joined: 9/8/2004
Status: offline 		Who said anything about panties?   (that would constitute a four-piece combo)

Indeed there seems to be a significant reason for that t-shirt being kept under the pillow nefertari....      



(in reply to popeye1250)
Profile   Post #: 31
RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/20/2006 6:32:30 PM   
Lashra


Posts: 4900
Joined: 2/9/2006
Status: offline 		I'm not a girl, I'm a woman I don't care for Victoria's Secret as they don't carry many sizes. I prefer hipsncurves.com they have some lovely lingerie for larger ladies.  I like thongs but boy panties are cool too. My sub likes to wear women's thongs  and thigh hi's he looks quite nice in them.

~Lashra

_____________________________

“We can never judge the lives of others, because each person knows only their own pain and renunciation. It's one thing to feel that you are on the right path, but it's another to think that yours is the only path.”






(in reply to SusanofO)
Profile   Post #: 32
RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/20/2006 7:37:07 PM   
popeye1250


Posts: 18104
Joined: 1/27/2006
From: New Hampshire
Status: offline 		Nasty, my math was off a bit there!
I like Victoria's Secret too.
We have one in a brandnew Gigantic Mall that they just built here two years ago and I always take a spin through when I'm at the Mall.
And lingerie must be very popular because there's always a lot of people in it everytime I go there!

(in reply to Lashra)
Profile   Post #: 33
RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/20/2006 7:48:15 PM   
SusanofO


Posts: 5672
Joined: 12/19/2005
Status: offline 		Oh yes. I love that, too - wearing a man's shirt. I agree with nefertari and Nasty Daddy. They are great to wear, and sleep in.

- Susan


_____________________________

"Hope is the thing with feathers,
That perches in the soul,
And sings the tune without the words,
And never stops at all". - Emily Dickinson

(in reply to NastyDaddy)
Profile   Post #: 34
RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/20/2006 7:54:02 PM   
popeye1250


Posts: 18104
Joined: 1/27/2006
From: New Hampshire
Status: offline 		Susan, you don't like thongs?
Panty lines can look horrible!

(in reply to SusanofO)
Profile   Post #: 35
RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/20/2006 8:04:50 PM   
SusanofO


Posts: 5672
Joined: 12/19/2005
Status: offline 		I think thongs just feel weird - and uncomfortable. But, according to nefertari, and Feline, and a few others, it feels much better if one buys a size larger than one wears, and also makes sure the material is soft, like silk or something. So I may try to do that, and see if they feel better on.

If I need to worry about things like panty lines, I can always wear my body hugging girdle thingy (that doesn't feel like one), from Spanx. It is comfortable, and gets rid of panty lines. But - it's not particularly sexy.

- Susan

< Message edited by SusanofO -- 8/20/2006 8:08:31 PM >

_____________________________

"Hope is the thing with feathers,
That perches in the soul,
And sings the tune without the words,
And never stops at all". - Emily Dickinson

(in reply to popeye1250)
Profile   Post #: 36
RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/20/2006 8:09:55 PM   
popeye1250


Posts: 18104
Joined: 1/27/2006
From: New Hampshire
Status: offline 		Susan, well, they sure do look sexier!
I have a couple of pairs myself. The former sub bought them for me.
I also have a pair of black leather thongs.
They aren't bad once you get used to them.

(in reply to SusanofO)
Profile   Post #: 37
RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/20/2006 8:40:08 PM   
SusanofO


Posts: 5672
Joined: 12/19/2005
Status: offline 		Good to know, popeye.

- Susan

_____________________________

"Hope is the thing with feathers,
That perches in the soul,
And sings the tune without the words,
And never stops at all". - Emily Dickinson

(in reply to popeye1250)
Profile   Post #: 38
RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/20/2006 8:41:59 PM   
SusanofO


Posts: 5672
Joined: 12/19/2005
Status: offline 		krikket: Thanks for the info on making your own corset. I don't sew, but my sister does, and she might make one for me.

- Susan

_____________________________

"Hope is the thing with feathers,
That perches in the soul,
And sings the tune without the words,
And never stops at all". - Emily Dickinson

(in reply to krikket)
Profile   Post #: 39
RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/20/2006 8:45:03 PM   
juliaoceania


Posts: 21383
Joined: 4/19/2006
From: Somewhere Over the Rainbow
Status: offline 		I found wearing his shirts while I clean all day is a popular look for when he gets home, of course there is nothing underneath it

_____________________________

Once you label me, you negate me ~ Soren Kierkegaard

Reality has a well known Liberal Bias ~ Stephen Colbert

Great minds discuss ideas; Average minds discuss events; Small minds discuss people. Eleanor Roosevelt

(in reply to SusanofO)
Profile   Post #: 40
Page:   <<   < prev  1 [2] 3 4 5   next >   >>
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingerie for females? Page: <<   < prev  1 [2] 3 4 5   next >   >>
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.094