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RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/20/2006 8:49:15 PM

SusanofO

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All of this talk of lingerie finally got to me. I just went on-line at Victoria's Secret and ordered a long-sleeved, black lace chemise (short lace night gown), and three pairs of tanga panties (they are kind of like lace boy-shorts, only sexier). I can't wait until they get here, in 7-10 days....somebody stop me before I get out of control. My American Express card can handle one shopping spree, but that's it for now. Gosh, that was fun, though.

- Susan

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RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/20/2006 9:21:03 PM

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I wasn't joking about needing someone to stop me. I just went back and ordered thigh highs. Uh-oh. Oh well, 2 little pairs of thigh highs never killed anybody.

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RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/20/2006 9:32:53 PM

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That site is addicting. And their return policy is great. Really helps with shopper's remorse. Not that I know from personal experience or anything...

Oh...and now you'll start getting catalogs every week or so..or maybe I just got them so often cause I did a lot of damage there at one point.

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RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/20/2006 9:48:27 PM

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"Tangas?" Aren't they like Brazilian thongs?
I think they wear those to the beach in Rio.
Those "boy shorts" are hot too!
Everything in Victoria's Secret is nice though. Much better than that "Fredericks of Hollywood" stuff.

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RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/20/2006 9:57:56 PM

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I was just reading that thread about corsetts.
There's a few nice sites listed and the corsetts listed go for $300-$900 some of them "custom made." Nice work on them by the looks of the pictures!

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RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/21/2006 12:48:07 AM

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I loooove corsets and am about to start corset training... They are very expensive but you get what you pay for in terms of comfort, safety and longevity : )
I love the cut of balconette bras, and of French-cut and tanga panties. I like the simplicity of plain white cottons as well, and thongs in potential vpl situations.
I love stockings, but only with suspenders. (never 'hose). Cuban heels make me drool...

I prefer silk or cotton material. I've never been into velvet, and I only like lace as a trimming, not all over (Itchy!!!)
I'm also of the 'lovers of lover's shirt variety, especially business shirts : ) Babydolls are sweet.
After all that, though, I'd just as soon go naked... It's fun and all to dress up but I'm just as happy in my skin.
One thing that I have never been able to get the appeal of is those evening gown-length mesh nighties... I can't see how they would be flattering to anyone...

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RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/21/2006 1:06:02 AM

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Timely thread, Riv and I just went on a spree at Victoria's Secret friday night!

She's always worn thongs, and I love the look of them, since they accentuate the curve of the buttocks going over the hip. I hate G-strings for the same reason -- the sharp angle of a G-string makes butts look boxy and misshapen. Riv and I both love boy shorts, which she has a lot of for daily wear. We picked up several pair of the "cheeky" panties at VS, they do a nice job of accentuating the butt/hip curve like a thong while covering more skin.

She doesn't think the VS bras are worth what they charge in terms of quality, and I don't like bras around the house so she just gets whatever she needs for under shirts in public. I do love bustiers and corsets, corsets especially because the breathing restriction can put a girl into subspace all by itself on occassion.

I love thigh-high stockings, with and without high heels. I'm not a big fan of garters or garter belts, they seem fussy and get in the way, but can be sexy.

She frequently borrows a dress shirt, and that's a timeless look every man appreciates

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RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/21/2006 1:18:13 AM

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I either wear thongs, or sometimes no panties at all, really depends on the pants im wearing that day. But they have to be the super skinny thong. I just recently bought my first corset from fredericks, and I really like it. Its a purplish pink color. Id like to get a real one withbetter boning, but have to save up for it, ya know?

I like fredericks more than VS, but I get both catalogs. I also like Mens Shirts. I used to pick up my Dads from the dry cleaners as a teen , and swipe one , that and boxers are comfy to sleep in.

Front opening demi cup bras are the best, IMO, cause they are the easiest to get off.

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RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/21/2006 1:38:50 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: popeye1250

JX, you have that right about pantyhose!
The sick bastard who invented those things should be horse whipped.
They're ok if you live in a cold climate and are outside a lot but "sexy" they are not!

A former Dom required me to wear pantyhose to work as He considered them chastity devices. *smiles*
i like the look of corsets but also cannot afford the "real" ones. i've found that it takes some searching but i've found some good quality "fake" corsets at high-end department stores for less than $100.

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RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/21/2006 1:43:41 AM

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ORIGINAL: SusanofO

I was just in the mood to ask a silly question, I guess. I am wondering if men really do like Victoria's Secret as much as many girls do. Now I know that many men would prefer to have their submissives and slaves sans clothing completely, but - when they do wear lingerie, is there a particular style of lingerie you like to see them wear, better than others?

*Submissives and slaves, feel free to state what your favorite knid is to wear (or, if a submissive male, just toss in your opinion on what you like to see on a female. If you are a cross-dresser, state what you like to wear as well).

I was never big on Victoria's Secret. If I'm going to shell out money for lingerie I'd rather buy some really good stuff. At present I'm having a corset fetish and looking into purchasing a few upon approval. Otherwise, I'm very simple and prefer to go without clothing. I am willing to wear lingerie if he finds it appealing, but admittedly it is something I'm just beginning to appreciate. I prefer something classic and elegant, which usually means black and a very nice pair of stilettos.

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RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/21/2006 2:14:49 AM

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Susan: I am glad you are thinking about "lighter" and happier topics!

I love a sub in small, high cut panties, a tight squeeze-the-cleavage bra and high heels -- nothing else, except the collar... What I like to do is eventually bunch up the back of the panties (yes, it ends up in the butt cleavage) to expose the buttocks (you can guess why, woof woof); also, it's fun to "drag" the breasts out of the bra... Of course, in the end, it all comes off...

Corsets are cool, but they come off too: I am too much into feeling the hot skin!

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RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/21/2006 4:01:06 AM

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I like the sheer baby doll outfits myself as long as the color compliments the eyes or hair . it has to match .. thongs are absolutely lovely on a woman as long as it's trimmed with some lace. anda pair of fuck me pumps ... now those outfits rarely stay on that long before I am now heated and need to do something about the gorgeous girl wearing them but they do get a desired effect with me

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RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/21/2006 4:45:23 AM

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Lol, Scooter says the best way to decide if any lingerie will turn him on is to ball it up and see how it looks laying on the floor.

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RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/21/2006 5:04:31 AM

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this slave appreciates Victoria's Secret for only one item. Master allows her to wear their "Shock Absorber" sports bra, during those hormonal times when her breasts are swollen and painful. over the years, it has always been a "quest" to find the perfect sportsbra for this use. because of the unique design (no cups, padding or wires) and the special material it is made of, it is extremely restrictive yet breathable.

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RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/21/2006 6:40:24 AM

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Lol, Scooter says the best way to decide if any lingerie will turn him on is to ball it up and see how it looks laying on the floor.

Now that's not completely true :) He got you and Jewel fancy nighties for Valentine's Day and likes shopping for stuff for you both.

But it IS a good idea to make sure it looks good on the floor since that's where it spends most of its time.

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RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/21/2006 6:55:40 AM

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You are right, he loves buying silkies, he loves dressing us period, but if you ask him he will say that is how he chooses lol.

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But it IS a good idea to make sure it looks good on the floor since that's where it spends most of its time.

Yes if the outfit is doing it's job it never stays on long, does it? And if it really does it's job it could be on the floor for hours.......

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RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/21/2006 6:59:51 AM

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To the guys:

After we get all dressed up and in the fantasy lingere... about how long do you estimate it stays on us once you spot it :)?

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RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/21/2006 7:08:02 AM

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ORIGINAL: LotusSong
To the guys:

After we get all dressed up and in the fantasy lingere... about how long do you estimate it stays on us once you spot it :)?

It depends on how long it's taken to get INTO it. This is why I rarely actually wear corsets. The time to get me into one does not justify ripping me out of it 5 minutes after I get into the door. And since I prefer playing naked...

So if it's taken me quite awhile to get him/her into some fantasy contraption of buckles and straps and ribbons and such- it's staying on awhile. It's their torture/pleasure to have to be stuffed up like that and paraded around and mine to keep them all bound up in clothes and enjoy the handiwork.

To Twice: The hot water can take awhile to get going, but otherwise we love it. I'm really enjoying the gym/pool/hot tub combo. I found myself saying "Oh only 98 today" recently. Which isn't to say that 98 isn't too hot, just that relative to the 100+ temps we've had constantly for the past few weeks, it was actually a nice dip.

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RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/21/2006 7:11:33 AM

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The best two things I liked were the candy bikini and the rope corset. For the candy bikini (remember candy necklaces??), I had her put it over a white cloth bikini since the candy will melt when wet. Yeah, I know it sounds hot to melt the candy off, but, suger + vagina = major yeast infection in most women. she also wore the cutest white heels with pink bows and accents. The rope corset, leaving bare breasts, was done with red hemp rope paired with with a nice pair of panties and high heels. Honestly, I can't remember if she had on thigh high stockings or not. I was paying attnetion to the rope. LOL Perhaps I should mention that I hogtied her, then put flowers in the tie. she was beautiful.

As for myself, lingerie ain't happenin' often. I don't even wear women's underwear on a daily basis. Ok, so sometimes I'll do a real pair of panties and a man's dress shirt for fun...but only when I feel like it. My lover (mostly a vanilla relationship) got a real kick out of the one time I wore a red bra and the red panties that I bought 'cause the graphic on them matches my tattoo (or is that the other way around?). I think he liked it because it was more out of character for me than anything else. Well, that and 'cause it IS slightly easier access than boxer briefs. LOL

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Edited to take out my sensitive comment. I didn't read the whole title and Susan DID include Women who like women. My bad.

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RE: Male hetero Dominants, and others: Favorite lingeri... - 8/21/2006 7:19:48 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SusanofO

I was just in the mood to ask a silly question, I guess. I am wondering if men really do like Victoria's Secret as much as many girls do. Now I know that many men would prefer to have their submissives and slaves sans clothing completely, but - when they do wear lingerie, is there a particular style of lingerie you like to see them wear, better than others?

*Men: Do you like camisole tops, demi-bras, or thong panties best - or what?
Just my curiosity at work here, I guess.

*Submissives and slaves, feel free to state what your favorite knid is to wear (or, if a submissive male, just toss in your opinion on what you like to see on a female. If you are a cross-dresser, state what you like to wear as well).

For me, it is a babydoll-style, lace nightgown (very short). In the color red or black.

I have to say, I absolutely hate thong panties. I think they are a crime against nature, and would rather see people with no panties at all, than wearing thongs.

Thanks for any replies.

- Susan

A lot of times, for me, it depends more on which mood the submissive wishes to project. I will tell a submissive what I wish to have her wear in a scene or tell her how I want her to dress that evening but there are those times when I tell a submissive "Hey, choose the type of mood you wish to convey when we're alone tonight. One submissive knew exactly what I meant by this and would choose a baby-doll outfit or crotchless panties and a bra with strategic cutouts in the cups or a demi bra with a thong and thigh highs and heels or a corset with garters and thigh highs and heels.

About the only thing I won't allow is the long night shirt and socks, unless the submissive is not feeling well. That is a real good indicator that she would really prefer that nothing happen and, in fact, it might be better for my health (due to her contagious nature) to plan on sleeping wayyyyyy over on my side of the bed.

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