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popeye1250 -> Face Slapping. (8/21/2006 10:03:05 PM)
I've seen this on many profiles in here. I've never done it before and if a submissive wanted me to do it we'd have to sit down and talk about it. For those of you who like having your face slapped how hard do you like it slapped? Do you like to be "surprised" by it or "plan" for it? How does it make you feel? For how long do you like to have your face slapped, an hour, a few minutes?

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/21/2006 10:06:25 PM)
This tends to be a divisive type of play- lots of people adore it, and lots of people can't stand it and go into "You better be ready for me to hit you back" mode. http://www.collarchat.com/m_231892/mpage_3/key_face%252Cslapping/tm.htm#232164 face slapping http://www.collarchat.com/m_27528/mpage_1/key_face%252Cslapping/tm.htm#27528 Face-Slapping http://www.collarchat.com/m_122563/mpage_1/key_face%252Cslapping/tm.htm#122563 face slapping (2) http://www.collarchat.com/m_231892/mpage_1/key_face%252Cslapping/tm.htm#231892 face slapping (3) http://www.collarchat.com/m_287814/mpage_1/key_face%252Cslapping/tm.htm#287814 face slapping (4) http://www.collarchat.com/m_373725/mpage_1/key_face%252Cslapping/tm.htm#373725 Face slapping, you're an expert?

pissdoll -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/21/2006 10:08:16 PM)
super intimate, always erotic, best when taken by surprise.

mnottertail -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/21/2006 10:10:11 PM)
Knowing where we come from popeye? They are looking at that little pop thing, like "Father is talking, you boys shut up now and listen, say your hail marys" that your mom used to do at church..........something that would be hidden or even non-existant by monday morning work at the sec'y pool. LOLOL, Ron

BrokenDoll -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/21/2006 10:11:16 PM)
I hate to admit it but a Dom ones slaped me in the face no worning no reason part of play I dont like I dont not like it eather it isnt something I ask for but it isnt a limit it we had never talked about it I got started and decked him hard.... i felt so bad... we both agreed it was an accident ( no disciplinary actions were taken on his part as it was just a reflex and not something I did on perpose) we agreed next time he wanted to slap my face he would lemme know ahead of time...He never did slap my face again though... i wonder why [:)]

NastyDaddy -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/21/2006 10:14:35 PM)
Face slapping seems to be a fertile addition for boring old fellatio... just as is ass slapping for boring old buttfucking... just as is pussy slapping for boring old cunnilingus. You tell me Popeye... just how hard and how long would you face slap a woman who has your cock in her mouth?

mnottertail -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/21/2006 10:15:47 PM)
5'5" ...............Jaysus, you must be built like Herbie..........decked the fucker, hah? Ron

mnottertail -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/21/2006 10:17:19 PM)
only enough to insure I have her full attention........ Sorry, this one's your's popeye

Owned1 -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/21/2006 10:18:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BrokenDoll I hate to admit it but a Dom ones slaped me in the face no worning no reason part of play I dont like I dont not like it eather it isnt something I ask for but it isnt a limit it we had never talked about it I got started and decked him hard.... i felt so bad... we both agreed it was an accident ( no disciplinary actions were taken on his part as it was just a reflex and not something I did on perpose) we agreed next time he wanted to slap my face he would lemme know ahead of time...He never did slap my face again though... i wonder why [:)] lol what a great story, even if you had done it on purpose what a good excuse, Oops sorry Sir, as you wave the smelling salts under his nose in an attempt to bring him back to reality. Owned

popeye1250 -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/21/2006 10:18:39 PM)
Pissdoll, how long do you like to be slapped for? And how hard? (Love your name!)

BrokenDoll -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/21/2006 10:18:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NastyDaddy Face slapping seems to be a fertile addition for boring old fellatio... just as is ass slapping for boring old buttfucking... just as is pussy slapping for boring old cunnilingus. You tell me Popeye... just how hard and how long would you face slap a woman who has your cock in her mouth? LOL I dont sugest you not slap a girls face when they have your cock in their mouth unless you like beeing bitten down there!!

BrokenDoll -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/21/2006 10:20:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Owned1 quote: ORIGINAL: BrokenDoll I hate to admit it but a Dom ones slaped me in the face no worning no reason part of play I dont like I dont not like it eather it isnt something I ask for but it isnt a limit it we had never talked about it I got started and decked him hard.... i felt so bad... we both agreed it was an accident ( no disciplinary actions were taken on his part as it was just a reflex and not something I did on perpose) we agreed next time he wanted to slap my face he would lemme know ahead of time...He never did slap my face again though... i wonder why [:)] lol what a great story, even if you had done it on purpose what a good excuse, Oops sorry Sir, as you wave the smelling salts under his nose in an attempt to bring him back to reality. Owned yeah hehehe it was something like that.... thank goodness he didnt need smelling salts but he was rather dazed and a little black and blue.... and it killed the scene :(

windy135 -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/21/2006 10:33:19 PM)
I like to be face slapped. It's a shock if I'm not behaving. It pisses me off but for some reason I like t hat. I like to be hit hard enough to hurt but not leave any marks. tee hee

mnottertail -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/21/2006 10:35:45 PM)
I SEEN your picture, you got no face, it aint like it would be the end of your world............ LOL, Ron

juliaoceania -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/21/2006 10:36:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: popeye1250 For those of you who like having your face slapped how hard do you like it slapped? He doesn't need to hit me hard to get a response, but I think I could handle it a little harder if he chooses to hit me harder. quote: Do you like to be "surprised" by it or "plan" for it? I am new to this, but so far I think I liked to be surprised. There is something electrifying about it, almost like being shocked, and I like that. Also, having my face caressed before the blow really makes a contrast in sensation. Knowing it is coming is ok though. quote: For how long do you like to have your face slapped, an hour, a few minutes? Oh my, only once or twice if they are good blows, not minutes or hours. It is a pretty intense experience for me. It tends to make my head ache if there is more than a few blows.

ownedgirlie -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/21/2006 10:36:48 PM)
I love it. Sometimes there is warning, sometimes it is a surprise. Sometimes just one or two, sometimes a lot. Forehand, back hand, alternative hands one after another...it's all good. Except when done as a correction (and usually it is more of a nudge then), then it is rather awful and my heart sinks.

mstrjx -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/21/2006 10:43:58 PM)
When I was a kid, I was taught never to hit a woman. Although I didn't foresee where I would end up, at the time I thought that was good advice. So imagine my surprise when I, before I was 'dominant', met my first submissive woman who kept a secret from me. She wanted to be slapped. And yes, the first time I did it I had to guess that her secret I was about to fulfill. Fortunately my intuition was correct. Also, the first time I did it I had to get over my own queasiness. But I did it because (I thought) she wanted it. I didn't do it every time we were together, but whenever I did, she became much more passionate. As far as 'technique', I suppose you could say it's generally full-hand, decently hard (not to bruise, but definitely not very soft), and I try to miss the ear. (Most of the time I succeed.) If it's a hard, negotiated, limit, then I would not do it, but if it's a 'curiousity factor' or a soft limit, I will introduce it at some point if for no other reason to show that it's really not all that bad. If it seems to be a turnon, I don't hesitate to continue in the future. If it's for punishment, I would also do so, in a controlled manner. (I might have broken my vow of not hitting a woman, but I still manage not to do so in anger.) Jeff

captiveplatypus -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/21/2006 10:51:10 PM)
My first instinct would be to throw a punch, entirely depending on how hard the slap was. There's a fine line, I think. And I'm short, so chances are I wouldn't bother trying to aim for the face, I'd aim lower. I'm fiesty.

BrokenDoll -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/21/2006 10:56:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: captiveplatypus My first instinct would be to throw a punch, entirely depending on how hard the slap was. There's a fine line, I think. And I'm short, so chances are I wouldn't bother trying to aim for the face, I'd aim lower. I'm fiesty. LOL ok I feel better now

Lordandmaster -> RE: Face Slapping. (8/21/2006 11:53:04 PM)
LA is right--face-slapping seems to be one of those things like name-calling and humiliation that some people will just never tolerate. I personally don't think it's any more or less objectionable than slapping someone on the butt, whipping someone with a single-tail, fucking someone in the ass, or any of the other things we do. But people have their preferences. So know your partner well before you start slapping her in the face.

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