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RE: More On married Doms - 8/22/2006 9:31:42 PM

formenteralady

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HOnestly, he's already lied to you once, I'm assumeing he is currently lieing to his wife about being faithful to her (This is the nature of cheating), so I think it's safe to say this person shoudl just be avoided, what exactly upsets you the most about his actions is kind of irrelevant.

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RE: More On married Doms - 8/22/2006 9:46:58 PM

diamonddreamlove

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I hate being lied too but as for married i don't see it as such a big deal. While my vanilla husband was alive he gave me permission to begin r/t. I did not necessarily advertise my marriage but did not lie about it either. I know i was asked about it once because i had failed to discuss it in a profile while the Dom had seen the info in another profile. The truth was it was an oversite not a lie and of course i immediately rectofied the ommission. I would talk to the Dom first then decide whether i thought there would ever be trust in the future.

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RE: More On married Doms - 8/23/2006 4:16:05 AM

darkinshadows

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ORIGINAL: littleone35

My question is this if you were seeing a married Dom and you did not know he was married and you two got really close and you found out he was married , what would be more of a deal breaker?

The fact that he is married or the fact that he lied to you about it? i know both are deal breakers but what would be the bigger deal breaker?

Matt's littleone

The lie - in the fact that he obviously could not communicate to me.

Without open communication, a relationship is void.

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