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RE: What do you do? - 8/23/2006 2:51:40 PM

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You're sure it's not from a ball-gag, right?

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You're so stressed out that your jaw hurts from clenching it too much.

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RE: What do you do? - 8/23/2006 2:52:15 PM

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Agirl, LOL!
L.A. I like your post! Yes, there's a lot to be said for masturbation.
I just don't seem to let life bother me too much.
I don't "sweat the small stuff" so having a "bad day" just isn't a regular occurance for me.
Also I'm retired so I don't have to put up with petty stuff "at work."

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RE: What do you do? - 8/23/2006 3:02:06 PM

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When I am with Sir, I will sometimes ask for a good beating or a very physical scening. When I am alone, I will sometimes masturbate and the orgasm helps me sleep.

I have used music and the treadmill, but it's not as much fun. If nothing else helps, bring on the fudge tofutti and a good book, or movie.

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RE: What do you do? - 8/23/2006 3:21:16 PM

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If i am that stressed out i take a xanax. Works like a charm, well usually. Long walks help too - anything to disperse that energy will help. Sometimes that's when i get my best cleaning done!

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RE: What do you do? - 8/23/2006 3:21:44 PM

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Hehe, read my tagline... I decided to add it to my profile just in case something like this happens. Thanks for the laugh!

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You're sure it's not from a ball-gag, right?

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You're so stressed out that your jaw hurts from clenching it too much.

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RE: What do you do? - 8/23/2006 3:24:49 PM

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This might not be the best place to put this, but oh well...

You've just had a really bad day. Everything that went wrong did. You're so stressed out that your jaw hurts from clenching it too much. Everyone around you seems to be some how against you, annoying you, or agrivating you...

So, how do you unwind?

I take a walk, write, spend time alone, speak to a friend, or attempt to distract my mind from the unpleasant thoughts until my emotions are more contained. If that isn't possible I may simply cry and release the frustration, then carry on with my day.

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RE: What do you do? - 8/23/2006 3:27:59 PM

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All you have left of the day is what's left of the day... don't waste too much of what's left of the day on neutralizing what happened during the previous part of the day... which is now gone.

Make it snappy in order to maximize what's left of the day you can salvage.

Go outside, find a beautiful flower, admire it and tell it how beautiful it is, grab it by the stem/neck and rip it from it's body, be stingy.. indulge.. don't share the beauty of this flower with anyone else.. hog it baby, celebrate that beautiful flower's demise over your trivial shit.. woohoo feelin' mo besser! Now you are in position to take it out on the beautiful flower, fully vent your deadly head of esteem steam.. touching a soft petal of the beautiful flower, rip that mutherfucker right off, throw the former beautiful appendage into the wind, scattering it far from it's source.. as a model of disection efficiency! Go for another one.. and as you progress at tearing the beautiful petal/appendages from their beautiful host, relish the agony and destruction only you have caused.. that will show them baisturds who fucked with you... tear that beautiful flower a new asshole. To increase the intensity a notch, eat a few parts of the beautiful flower as you tear it to shreds... not because you LOVE the flower, fuck no.... but because you NEED to unwind... and because the beautiful flower was dumb as dirt and stupid enough to just stand there, so it deserves it.

Depending on your need and speed, you could unwind VERY fast... or d r a g it out a bit and m i l k it baby, make that fucking flower suffer!

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RE: What do you do? - 8/23/2006 3:34:15 PM

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ROFLMAO

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RE: What do you do? - 8/23/2006 3:45:25 PM

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i have this happen often as i have a very stressful work environment. many of the things said here work for me (hot tub, sex) one not mentioned is yoga; especially inversions. there's nothing like being upside down to bring your focus into the 'now' (wait a miniute, i already mentioned sex ...lol).

another thing is a mind cleansing ritual. i actually go to the garbage can and 'throw away' the stresses of the day. and i remind myself that if i were to hang on to them 'work' is taking away from my enjoyment of my time with Master

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RE: What do you do? - 8/23/2006 4:01:59 PM

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PFFFTTT HAH! That's too funny, ouch my sides hehehe. Ok, I dunno what's worse the fact that I'm still laughing, or that I actually did it!

Went out side, snatched up a pretty little sunflower. Named it, caressed it, told it who beautiful it is... I even caressed it... Before ripping it straight out of the ground letting out a string of curse words, as I masiqured the poor thing... My um... Neighboor happen to see me... Asked me what the hell I was doing. I said what I always do... "Going insane why do you want to come along? I have to warn you there are no return tickets available at this time." She knows my personality, and laughed her ass off.

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All you have left of the day is what's left of the day... don't waste too much of what's left of the day on neutralizing what happened during the previous part of the day... which is now gone.

Make it snappy in order to maximize what's left of the day you can salvage.

Go outside, find a beautiful flower, admire it and tell it how beautiful it is, grab it by the stem/neck and rip it from it's body, be stingy.. indulge.. don't share the beauty of this flower with anyone else.. hog it baby, celebrate that beautiful flower's demise over your trivial shit.. woohoo feelin' mo besser! Now you are in position to take it out on the beautiful flower, fully vent your deadly head of esteem steam.. touching a soft petal of the beautiful flower, rip that mutherfucker right off, throw the former beautiful appendage into the wind, scattering it far from it's source.. as a model of disection efficiency! Go for another one.. and as you progress at tearing the beautiful petal/appendages from their beautiful host, relish the agony and destruction only you have caused.. that will show them baisturds who fucked with you... tear that beautiful flower a new asshole. To increase the intensity a notch, eat a few parts of the beautiful flower as you tear it to shreds... not because you LOVE the flower, fuck no.... but because you NEED to unwind... and because the beautiful flower was dumb as dirt and stupid enough to just stand there, so it deserves it.

Depending on your need and speed, you could unwind VERY fast... or d r a g it out a bit and m i l k it baby, make that fucking flower suffer!

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RE: What do you do? - 8/23/2006 4:23:54 PM

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living and working from the home and being single generally makes for a pretty unstressful day but when it does happen....I generally go for a hike in the mtns or jump on a motorcycle and go for a putt.....either clears the head for me.

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RE: What do you do? - 8/23/2006 4:25:42 PM

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...and just look at how much time you have left in the day now for some real mischief.... so you see it does work. (unless you still feel shitty?)

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RE: What do you do? - 8/23/2006 4:37:13 PM

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I have gone to the gym to relieve stress .. and that worked well .. except the time someone irked me afterwards ..... mostly now adays I crank really loud music and take a long HOT steamy shower ..... just unwind. maybe I should change my profileto say that instead of scaring away girls wondering what they are in for if I come needing to vent

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RE: What do you do? - 8/23/2006 4:37:24 PM

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I put on a nice comfy pair of Leotards and Tights (Ballet Slippers or Pointe Shoes optional), or maybe a pair of Mary Janes to help me relax and comfy.

Now where can I get some more Mary Janes? Ballet Bob

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RE: What do you do? - 8/23/2006 4:38:03 PM

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Pretty little flowers go bye bye...all for you NastyDaddy. Enjoy. PS...You might want to throw a few over to Steelriven.

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RE: What do you do? - 8/23/2006 4:46:11 PM

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Hehehe, no no no... I'm all good now hehe. Still laughing my ass off. Thanks alot NastyDaddy! Oh, I'm gonna remember that one!

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...and just look at how much time you have left in the day now for some real mischief.... so you see it does work. (unless you still feel shitty?)

Edited because I was laughing too much to type correctly!

< Message edited by Steelriven -- 8/23/2006 4:48:30 PM >

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RE: What do you do? - 8/23/2006 4:47:36 PM

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I come home and scream at my kid.

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RE: What do you do? - 8/23/2006 4:58:52 PM

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I draw, I write, and I vent.Usually my sketchbook is the best place to go when I'm frustrated in some way or another.

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RE: What do you do? - 8/23/2006 5:08:09 PM

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I have a good cry take a couple pills soak in the tub surrounded by candles then kick the dog j/k lol
and im good to go

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RE: What do you do? - 8/23/2006 5:53:32 PM

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Ahhhhhhh, it is too obvious what we all actually do. We get on CM and other D/s sites.

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