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Steelriven -> What do you do? (8/23/2006 1:22:45 PM)
This might not be the best place to put this, but oh well... You've just had a really bad day. Everything that went wrong did. You're so stressed out that your jaw hurts from clenching it too much. Everyone around you seems to be some how against you, annoying you, or agrivating you... So, how do you unwind? Me? A nice hot bath. Although alot of times I wish I had a body bag to go at. Steelriven

SusanofO -> RE: What do you do? (8/23/2006 1:24:36 PM)
I go to sleep. I realize some people might consider this to be dysfunctional, but I don't care. It works for me. Not much can get to you when you are unconscious....so, if you can do it, take a nap? - Susan

mstrjx -> RE: What do you do? (8/23/2006 1:38:41 PM)
Usually, I'm very even-tempered, calm, collected that it doesn't become an issue. Usually. A place I used to work voted me 'Most likely to go postal'. I think it was because I never really said a whole lot, it was always difficult to tell what I was about. That sort of thing. I don't work there anymore. Nor did I leave witnesses. Jeff

akisha -> RE: What do you do? (8/23/2006 1:39:53 PM)
I go to the gym for an hour or more and work out my fustrations. Once I could barely walk down the stairs back to the change room but I felt great. well a lil sore the next day but I always kind of like that feeling no matter how it was achieved hehe.[:D] But I was emotionally cleansed and physically i was full of energy and happy. After I got my breath back that is S

onestandingstill -> RE: What do you do? (8/23/2006 1:41:41 PM)
I try to start my day over when I get home from work. Sometimes just changing where my point of view focuses is enough to give me great stress relief. I've also found volunteering helps me take my mind off my own demise and helps me remember how blessed I am. Suzanne

LotusSong -> RE: What do you do? (8/23/2006 1:43:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Steelriven This might not be the best place to put this, but oh well... You've just had a really bad day. Everything that went wrong did. You're so stressed out that your jaw hurts from clenching it too much. Everyone around you seems to be some how against you, annoying you, or agrivating you... So, how do you unwind? Me? A nice hot bath. Although alot of times I wish I had a body bag to go at. Steelriven a box of chocolates and a gun :) (just kidding.... I'm watching my weight)

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: What do you do? (8/23/2006 1:52:45 PM)
Gym, sauna, hot tub, smoothies, cool bed, masturbation and sex. And I'll go ahead and say it- it's ok to use your slave to work out your energy on (with the blah blah caveat of "if you've consented and if you can be a responsible adult about it etc etc ad infinitum")

mstrjx -> RE: What do you do? (8/23/2006 1:54:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross And I'll go ahead and say it- it's ok to use your slave to work out your energy on (with the blah blah caveat of "if you've consented and if you can be a responsible adult about it etc etc ad infinitum") Or, if a bottom, to have that stress worked out of you in the form of a (consensual) beating. At times even I wish I could have my stress relieved that way. Go ahead. Try and break me. Jeff

agirl -> RE: What do you do? (8/23/2006 1:56:35 PM)
I'd just throw myself on my bed and cry. My Master hung a kick-boxing bag from my bedroom ceiling.....so I get to kick and punch like a tantrum-consumed toddler, with as much elegance as one, too. I have been known to spit at it, also....Yes, disgusting. My sprogs also kick and punch it rather than each other and my grandchildren get to swing from it too...[:D].....Did I say Thanks Master?......LOL agirl

Steelriven -> RE: What do you do? (8/23/2006 2:00:13 PM)
Yeah, I have to agree with LA here... Orgasms do help heh. Well, for me anything physical works well. I'm not one to loose my temper easily or break down easily... But it happens to all of us. And if I wear myself out physically it usualy puts my mind at ease. Steelriven

mnottertail -> RE: What do you do? (8/23/2006 2:02:18 PM)
The wonderful thing about blowjobs in my estimation; afterwards, I don't feel like killing anybody anymore. Ron

Majik -> RE: What do you do? (8/23/2006 2:06:14 PM)
I have a punching bag in the garage. Usually about an hour or so on it and i'm to drained to even remember why I was so angry/flustered/annoyed.

agirl -> RE: What do you do? (8/23/2006 2:12:19 PM)
Cool.....you give blow-jobs mnottertail?[;)] Yup, think that'd work for me too......[:D] agirl

addisonclarkgirl -> RE: What do you do? (8/23/2006 2:12:29 PM)
Coloring...i don't know why, but when i'm in a bad mood, upset, sad, bitter...i color. It just helps me relax and calm down.

thetammyjo -> RE: What do you do? (8/23/2006 2:25:22 PM)
I usually kill things in video/computer games or scream and yell. Sometimes Fox offers his body to me to hit -- I don't do that, it goes against my personal code but the offer itself usually gets me talking about what is pissing me off.

diamonddreamlove -> RE: What do you do? (8/23/2006 2:28:00 PM)
I draw with crayon a picture of the frustration tape it to the wall. Get several damp tissues and throw them at the picture saying whatever needs to be said. Gets the words out and the physical energy out at the same time.

justanotheclaire -> RE: What do you do? (8/23/2006 2:38:21 PM)
porn or mucky stories masterbate read soem mroe masterbate again maybe stuff my face with pizza masterbate then bed always wake up with a smiel on me face after lol [:D]

justanotheclaire -> RE: What do you do? (8/23/2006 2:41:20 PM)
note to self type slower

zumala -> RE: What do you do? (8/23/2006 2:42:22 PM)
It depends on how stressed I am. Sometimes exercise works. Sometimes sex works. Sometimes I just need to be cuddled while I talk out what's bothering me. zuma

LaTigresse -> RE: What do you do? (8/23/2006 2:48:57 PM)
I focus on stuff that is bigger than the problem at hand. Spend quiet time out in the woods or hanging out with the animals, mucking out the horse barn is great therapy especially in the winter. OR, I just stay pissy for awhile, stomp around glaring at, and scaring everyone that gets in my path. After getting enough fearful looks I start smiling again! Just thought of something else. I have a VERY vivid imagination so this works amazingly well. Quite often if an individual pisses me off I imagine different very sadistic BDSM scenes with them being the sniveling scared whiney ass I know they would be! I hang around alot of really vanilla wussies.........sad............

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