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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/26/2006 3:41:51 PM   
SirKenin


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ORIGINAL: SusanofO

Is this a reasonable request? I've read that some Dominants and Masters want their submissives or slaves to be nude at home all the time. They are simply not allowed to wear clothes in the home. I am wondering how this actually works for them in a practical sense.

I am not ashamed of nudity, but - what if a pizza delivery man or a mail person, or a friend or relative comes to the door who either 1) Is not aware of their bdsm life-style or 2) Doesn't necessarily want to see them nude? What then?

I see this listed as a "requirement" for potential submissives and slaves in some Dominant profiles, and am wondering if they actually do live this way, or are mostly just fantasizing and hoping someone will agree to it someday.

What say you?

Thanks for any replies.

- Susan


Would it not be fair to say that it is not up to us to judge what is reasonable or not?  It would be up to the respective parties.  If  they both agree then it is reasonable, I dare say.  If you do not agree, that is not the Dom/me/Master/Mistress for you.

I am naked in the house 98% of the time.  I answer the door naked.  I am naked as I type this.  I could care less.  If you do not like it, do not knock at My door.  Simple.  Do I demand it of My wife?  No, because to her it is an unreasonable request and as there is no mutual consent, there is no rule. 

I guess I can sum up in this way.  It matters not what YOU think is reasonable.  The only thing that matters is that the involved partners think it is reasonable.  If they are happy, who are we to say otherwise? 

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/26/2006 6:41:27 PM   
DivaDuchess


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Status: offline 		Hmmm ... with the subject nature of my writing, it would frankly get old and very quickly, boring to have someone prancing around nude all the time.  However, on occasion ... it may be entertaining.  Our home is even tempered, and a LONG visit to my aunts home in Hawaii may cure the common cold *lol*.

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/26/2006 9:25:09 PM   
SusanofO


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Status: offline 		You've got a good point, Sir Kenin. I may have sounded like I was, but I was not judging people who do this - I was reallly just asking who does it and why, and curious about how it works on a daily basis for them. Thanks for replying.

- Susan

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/26/2006 9:43:27 PM   
MzMinx


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Status: offline 		byourcommand*smile*  you show your own preferences... I think male bodies are just as beautiful as female ones .... and *smiles*  in my own personal  view ... far sexier .. but that is simply because I am a hetro female and am attracted to males

I enjoy my boys naked, often *smiles* ... with  cuffs, collar  and other bits as I desire

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/26/2006 9:45:53 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		FR- I have to say I find it amusing all the doms who answer this talking about nudity "losing it's shine if it's all the time."

As if getting turned on is the only reason they could think of for keeping a slave naked or why someone would want to be naked all the time...

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/26/2006 9:58:07 PM   
Homestead


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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

FR- I have to say I find it amusing all the doms who answer this talking about nudity "losing it's shine if it's all the time."

As if getting turned on is the only reason they could think of for keeping a slave naked or why someone would want to be naked all the time...


It really doesn't turn me on. I've never had the puritanical mindset that called up something like that as taboo-therefore being desirable as a kink. My sexual turn ons are more about fetishes that add to a canvas, not a blank one.

I do use nudity on occasion to enforce my power, as I stay dressed. Or I will use a slight addition to it, like a custom leather belt holding a plug in a girl's ass as she goes about her duties. If I feel particularly sadistic that day, contoured thigh cuffs can be added as well. I run short chains from the inside tops to a ring in the plug base.The middle section of the crotch strap is made out of rubber. As she walks about the chains pull the plug a bit out of her ass, and the rubber returns it.

So I know she's being sodomized by default. I enjoy that sort of thing. I guess what really gets to me is the lack of imagination and ability I see in so many other Doms.

It's almost like there is some sort of sterotype they are following. I wonder what porn site they got it from.

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/26/2006 10:09:47 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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As if getting turned on is the only reason they could think of for keeping a slave naked or why someone would want to be naked all the time...


Actually, it has nothing to do with getting turned on, or not. I just find some things far more apealing than a naked body. Ands ince my boy isnt terribly comfortable nude anyway, allowing hi to dress while he serves rather than demaning him stay naked benefits us both. 

DV

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/26/2006 11:39:44 PM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		Heh...leave it to someone named DiurnalVampire to question the virtues of being stark naked in the middle of the day...

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/27/2006 12:10:00 AM   
NastyDaddy


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It's very reasonable... besides, soon all your pizzas will be free if your naked sub always opens the door for the delivery guy.

I'm sorry... did you order no anchovies.... oh, those dumbasses.... I'll be right back....



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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/27/2006 12:12:39 AM   
SusanofO


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Status: offline 		You might be right about the free pizza, Nasty Daddy.

- Susan

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/27/2006 10:20:10 PM   
marieToo


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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

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ORIGINAL: Sunshine119

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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie
After awhile I asked if he would allow a bra, lest I be sagging and dragging by the time I'm 50.  The request was granted.



Owned.....I just noticed this post a day late and 5 pages have already gone by since your post.  However, your comment really cracked me up.  Honey....by the time you get to 50, you'll be sagging and dragging with or without a bra....unless of course you get implants before then.  LOL!  Keep them naked and free!



LOL Sunshine - - thanks!  But I'm a bit endowed and frankly it is rather uncomfortable to be so "free" all the time.  Their weight does come into play.   Implants???  I'd be knocking things over around the house


lmaoooo.....me too!  I mean, I have gone around naked when required to,  but when Im free to my own choice,  I wear a bra until I go to bed (unless of course Im in the shower, or being physically intimate).  Its simply not comfortable to go braless considering the size and weight of them.   I mean....Im not bragging, because I dont see large breasts as anthing necessarily great, except, well, they do look great in tight tops etc, but frankly they are a physical pain in the ass and I prefer to keep mine teathered as much as humanly possible.  Its simply more comfortable then walking around without the help of support.  Beyond this, my frame is very small, which I think makes it harder to be lugging around such massive breasts without the help of a bra.  Gees, I hope I never meet a Master whose going to require continual and complete nudity.  If I swing around too fast, I could cause a concussion to an innocent bystander!  lmaooo

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/27/2006 10:30:36 PM   
popeye1250


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Status: offline 		Marie, you mean everytime you turn around you have to make hand signals?

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/27/2006 11:05:59 PM   
marieToo


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Marie, you mean everytime you turn around you have to make hand signals?


lmfao....that was good!

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/27/2006 11:14:52 PM   
BlueHnS


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Status: offline 		I hate clothes. I'm nekkie every chance I get just cause I like it. I do keep a robe handy by the door just in case though!

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/28/2006 9:10:19 PM   
angielouwhos


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Status: offline 		My last owner required this (of both of us) and is was basically the requirement that we be nude whenever it was practical. That amounted to a vast majority of the time, although there were times were it would have been offensive to a visitor or made someone like that uncomfortable. I was usually in close proximity to a quick coverup of some sort for the visit from the UPS man or the like.  There were a few slip ups of course as this was a period of service of three years. A suprised meter reading guy and a couple of Jehovah's witnessess come to mind, but I do not think any of them were irepairably harmed. Those times tended to happen when i was working in the yard that was normally private and secluded.

Still, there was a significant minority of the time where I covered some of me or all of me up. Sickness, coldsnaps, holidays and parties are times where we dressed more modestly.

So I think its true you can truly serve a majority of the time naked if you are primarily at home. I think once I counted about ten days where I never put a stitch on, even shoes.

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/28/2006 9:15:51 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Someday perhaps I will regale you with the stories of the meter-man waltzing in at inopportune happenstances.

Jehovahs witnesses have seen jehovah, so  I would like to think that they are already irreperably damaged, and having stripped there soul, should not have issues with the stripping of flesh.

LOL,

angie lou whos, a great way to say what is.


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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/29/2006 6:48:14 PM   
MistressCamille


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ORIGINAL: marieToo

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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie

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ORIGINAL: Sunshine119

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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie
After awhile I asked if he would allow a bra, lest I be sagging and dragging by the time I'm 50.  The request was granted.



Owned.....I just noticed this post a day late and 5 pages have already gone by since your post.  However, your comment really cracked me up.  Honey....by the time you get to 50, you'll be sagging and dragging with or without a bra....unless of course you get implants before then.  LOL!  Keep them naked and free!



LOL Sunshine - - thanks!  But I'm a bit endowed and frankly it is rather uncomfortable to be so "free" all the time.  Their weight does come into play.   Implants???  I'd be knocking things over around the house


lmaoooo.....me too!  I mean, I have gone around naked when required to,  but when Im free to my own choice,  I wear a bra until I go to bed (unless of course Im in the shower, or being physically intimate).  Its simply not comfortable to go braless considering the size and weight of them.   I mean....Im not bragging, because I dont see large breasts as anthing necessarily great, except, well, they do look great in tight tops etc, but frankly they are a physical pain in the ass and I prefer to keep mine teathered as much as humanly possible.  Its simply more comfortable then walking around without the help of support.  Beyond this, my frame is very small, which I think makes it harder to be lugging around such massive breasts without the help of a bra.  Gees, I hope I never meet a Master whose going to require continual and complete nudity.  If I swing around too fast, I could cause a concussion to an innocent bystander!  lmaooo


Even very large breasts don't hurt when you are braless once your ligaments get back into shape. It's just like not exercising, if you don't use it, you don't have the ligaments toned and that is what makes it hurt, not the fact that they are not contained. If it's hurting to have them loose you only have the bra to blame.

Incidently I found a great website about this at
http://goingbraless.net/index.html

All I ask is that you research this just a little before deciding if I'm a kook or not.

Wearing a bra till you go to bed greatly increases your chance of getting cancer.

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/30/2006 3:37:13 AM   
odinlove


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Status: offline 		I wish I could go 10 DAYS TOTALLY NAKED.  wiTH A COUPLE NEW WET NURSES TOO.  yUMy

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/30/2006 8:01:08 AM   
ownedgirlie


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Wearing a bra till you go to bed greatly increases your chance of getting cancer.


So does drinking non-organic, hormone-laden milk, so does being on the pill, so does smoking, so does eating pesticides, so does using a hair dryer, so does breathing the air...

You get the idea.  I do not mean to be sarcastic; I am simply pointing out that we all do a risk assessment in our lives and determine what we want to change, and what we do not.  I personally found after several months going sans brassiere at home, that I was incredibly uncomfortable, and gravity was already starting its "pull" if you will.  I choose to wear a healthy, non-snug, attractive bra and I am allowed to do so, unless he wishes it off.

I did peruse the site you posted.  In all honesty, their mission seemed to have as much "bra burning, we are women, here us roar" agenda as it did health reasons.  I did check out another site (http://www.all-natural.com/bras.html) which stated the risk of breast cancer increases due to lach of lymphatic movement, and due to raised temperature to the lymphatic system, which bras will contribute to.  It also emphasized the way women wear bras is detrimental - so snug they create indents in one's body.

Here's another article which states the same: http://www.007b.com/bras_breast_cancer.php
This is the summary of findings from a study conducted in 1990:
    3 out of 4 women who wore their bras 24 hours per day developed breast cancer.
    1 out of 7 women who wore bras more than 12 hour per day but not to bed developed breast cancer.
    1 out of 152 women who wore their bras less than 12 hours per day got breast cancer.
    1 out of 168 women who wore bras rarely or never acquired breast cancer.

All articles I read (and there were many) pointed to the same study, conducted by Singer & Grismaijer.  I wonder if that is the only study which has been done?

Thank you for pointing others in the direction of knowledge.  I will continue to wear what I wear, but it is always good to be more informed about what we do, than not.

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/30/2006 8:09:28 AM   
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    3 out of 4 women who wore their bras 24 hours per day developed breast cancer.


Ahhhhhh!  There are women who submit to that kind of torture 24 hours per day????  And they think WE'RE into pain!


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