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meatcleaver -> RE: Do you have a high Libido? (8/25/2006 1:16:22 AM)

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

Gosh, all I can say is it has increased as I approach my 40s almost unbearably... sighs


I remember when I was young and working with a much older colleague (though younger than I am now). Being typical males and in a male environment we discussed women regularly and he said to me, you youngsters might think you have it good but when a woman approaches forty, she's begging for it and they're happy to have sex on a clothes line. Slight exaggeration I admit but in my experience somewhat true. It always seems a mistake of nature to me that as women get beyond the age of childbirth their libido increases (not that I'm complaining). Maybe it is nature's way of giving a woman a good time before the onset of middleage proper.



Sirandlittle1 -> RE: Do you have a high Libido? (8/25/2006 1:30:31 AM)

Im 42.
teens to mid twenties, a vanilla barren desert for libido
then i got chocolatey. and its been a uphill struggle to dampent he libido since.

Since then, ive been thinking with my clit on a daily basis.

And a obliging understanding Dom helps lol

little1



SusanofO -> RE: Do you have a high Libido? (8/25/2006 1:40:46 AM)

I have no idea what to compare to mine. If to a burning volcano, possibly - yes. If to the constantly exploding Sun, probably not. 

I know I think a lot about such things - but - don't we all do that?

- Susan



ExSteelAgain -> RE: Do you have a high Libido? (8/25/2006 2:32:12 AM)

And I thought sex and BDSM were not related....heh.  Seriously, yes, I have a high sex drive, supernova type, to use Susan's exploding sun analogy, but I always make sure that the woman's desire is a little bit more if you know what I mean.

"You take 6 more of these hard and I'll do you."

"Yes Sir,"



mstrjx -> RE: Do you have a high Libido? (8/25/2006 3:12:14 AM)

Not even looking at the other responses.

I've never cared about mine.  I only care about 'hers' (whoever 'her' is).  That's part of my control.

Jeff



cuddleheart50 -> RE: Do you have a high Libido? (8/25/2006 3:22:39 AM)

Mine is higher now than it was when I was younger...the older I get, the higher it goes.  [:D]



RavenMuse -> RE: Do you have a high Libido? (8/25/2006 3:23:25 AM)

Lower than it was 20 years ago but still haven't yet met the gal who could keep up over the longer term. I've 'cured' a few who had claimed to be 'insatiable'.

After saying that, it is a want, not a need. I am in control of it, not the other way around.



popeye1250 -> RE: Do you have a high Libido? (8/25/2006 4:07:10 AM)

My last sub was a true Nympho, we'd go at it all afternoon while her unmentionable was in school then that night again too.
And she orgasmed very easily too, sometimes while we were still standing up before we hit the bed I'd give her g-spot a good massage with my fingers and she'd orgasm right there standing up.
I don't think the word "libido" came into play for her as she was ALWAYS ready.
Man, I can just imagine what the 60's and 70's are going to be like!
Yee Hah!



twicehappy -> RE: Do you have a high Libido? (8/25/2006 4:18:45 AM)

I think i have slowed down some which i have been told is a good thing, lol.

My libido was once described to me as a motor with no off switch, always running, two gears, on and really on, just waiting for a twist of the throttle.

I am ALWAYS ready, it takes about 30 seconds to get me really ready and about 60 seconds to get me off (this only works for those i am collared to and that is a tested fact).

Scooter is the only man i have ever met whose sex drive matches my own; he used to say no woman could match his drive, i'm pretty sure he's changed his mind on that one...... 




FloridaISIS -> RE: Do you have a high Libido? (8/25/2006 4:42:15 AM)

Mid 30's and it's still insatiable. In a relationship, I'd probably be almost considered an addict, except I'm monogamous, so guess nymph would be a better term.  I've been told by past partners I'm insatiable, and my son 's father used to tell me "you're worse than a guy--wanting it all the time". In my 20's three or four times a day wasn't enough; I'd get pouty and turn into the total b-tch, if I didn't get my fix of him every 2-3 hours.

I've matured a lot since then and have learned to put my desire on the back burner to slowly simmer until the right time approaches. My next long term partner is going to be in for a one heck of  a time as I try to make up for lost time;  I never have sex unless it's in a LTR. It makes it rough , but at least I know I won't be contracting anything I don't want.

The good thing is I'm finding most men in their 40's are kinky as hell, and want it as much as I do-no Viagra in their near future. The guys I've found in their 30's, for some odd reason, don't seem to be able to keep up. I know they're out there, but I haven't been lucky enough to find one. The true trick is going to be finding a new partner who can actually wear me out every day of my life. Til then it's a nice dream.
___________________________________
Live, Love, Laugh
Isis 



popeye1250 -> RE: Do you have a high Libido? (8/25/2006 4:54:30 AM)

Twicehappy, LOL! Funny description!
I'd like to play just about everyday. When I find a sub though I know that's not possable because of the female thing and them getting so sick they have to stay in bed all day or 2 like my last sub did.
But a nice 2-3 hour bondage session daily with a good hard fucking for a bit would do I suppose.
No way could I not do ahem,..."something" for like a whole WEEK though! Damn, I WOULD explode!



Chloelicious -> RE: Do you have a high Libido? (8/25/2006 5:05:39 AM)

I've been sexless since almost 4 1/2, and i miss It baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaadddddddddddd. My dom is having erection problems and do nothing to make it work (no time, no money, can't leave his job for a week { he is his own boss}, etc, etc...[:@]

Masturbation is nice but not for a long period. Hopefully We are practicing Fisting, does it count? LMAO [8D]

Now to answer the question, I got a pretty high libido : i can make love 3 times a day but it had probably increased [:o]





popeye1250 -> RE: Do you have a high Libido? (8/25/2006 5:16:10 AM)

Chloe, get him some viagra. I take it on occaision to "enhance" things as it were.
Then there's Ciallis that lasts for 36 hours and a few others.
They've made big strides in erection problems in the last ten years with new things comming out all the time!
I'm sure he'll be very gratefull to you![:)]
I read somewhere that the "average" times in the U.S. that couples make love is something like 2.3 times per week.
That just wouldn't cut it with me!



Viper001 -> RE: Do you have a high Libido? (8/25/2006 5:43:40 AM)

Reading all these posts, I'm starting to feel like the exception to the rule, lol. I can "take it or leave it" in most cases, the exception being while immersed in a dark PE environment (i.e. dungeon). [&:]

Is it a state of low libido if certain stimuli are necessary? Or perhaps having children running around the house all day dampens the ardor? Or is it that some of us (like myself) have simply become jaded? The physical act simply isn't enough to reach orgasm and while some partners thoroughly enjoy the 4-5 hours of sexual play, it has become a source of personal frustration over the last decade as the necessary mental stimuli extends further into the realm of "edge play" (and/or the lack thereof leaves me unfulfilled after several hours of physical exertion). Happy that my partner is sated, but personally disappionted.
Fortunately, my wife/slave is a genoooooooine masochist and we have access to three local dungeons/clubs - so all is well (although I ponder this very topic often and wonder what road we'll travel during the next decade).

Ironically, this is the very reason we're on this site to begin with. My wife/slave is exemplary in all aspects of our relationship and truly deserves to have a confidante/playmate to meet the needs of her bi-fem libido. But that's another topic altogether. :)

Respectfully,
RFJM




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Do you have a high Libido? (8/25/2006 6:58:14 AM)

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So how's your Libido?

I used to think I was a sex fiend and had a huge libido.  But now I think I'm really not that much above average- I just think I am a lot more open and active than most people about it which leads to the appearance of me having a higher sex drive.



indigo302 -> RE: Do you have a high Libido? (8/25/2006 8:32:36 AM)

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ORIGINAL: popeye1250
I read somewhere that the "average" times in the U.S. that couples make love is something like 2.3 times per week.
That just wouldn't cut it with me!


I want to know who is getting *my* share!  And by dangit. I want it back!

While I have a healthy libido, other than masturbation it's found no outlet in a long time....(a long time is more than a few weeks, or months...even more than a couple of years). 

I sometimes wish I understood and could handle the dynamics of the casual fuck...but I can't.




SleeplessGypsy -> RE: Do you have a high Libido? (8/25/2006 9:43:00 AM)

I hit my sexual peak at 30..
I'm 39 now and it just keeps getting better and better.. [:D]



LeMis -> RE: Do you have a high Libido? (8/25/2006 9:55:48 AM)

It just keeps getting better and better, dang!
The 30's were good, and the beginning of the 40's were great, I'm 49 and still so horny at times, damn!  Where's that "off" switch?  [&:]

Thank God for "B.O.B."...... and masturbation   *sigh*



Powerman40 -> RE: Do you have a high Libido? (8/25/2006 10:05:02 AM)

My youth was good, the 40's are even better. [;)] Every day with or without someone and some times two or three times a day. I guess my libido is still running pretty strong.



Chloelicious -> RE: Do you have a high Libido? (8/25/2006 12:05:40 PM)

Popeye,

Thank you for your advices but we have already tried thoses 2 medecine and nothing happends!!

What can explain this situation is that i'm his first girl friend and lover, another one is that he is not circumsized and penetration gives him great pain. He is not erectionless (if it s  receivable as a word) it's just that jhe start penetration, his penis look like marshmallow.

Anyway i love him and can  do nothing else then wait.



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