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What is it about Exhibitionism? - 8/27/2006 10:39:18 PM

popeye1250

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This is kind of a follow on to another thread in here by Susan about a Master having their sub/slave naked all the time.
I've never had exhibitionistic tendencies at all.
I could walk around naked but it does nothing for me sexually or otherwise.
If you have these tendencies what does it do for you psychologically?
Does it turn you on sexually?
Do you feel sexier?
How does it make you feel and why do you like it?
What are you thinking when you're walking around naked?

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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 8/28/2006 1:07:51 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: popeye1250

This is kind of a follow on to another thread in here by Susan about a Master having their sub/slave naked all the time.
I've never had exhibitionistic tendencies at all.
I could walk around naked but it does nothing for me sexually or otherwise.
If you have these tendencies what does it do for you psychologically?
Does it turn you on sexually?
Do you feel sexier?
How does it make you feel and why do you like it?
What are you thinking when you're walking around naked?

Think about what gets you going then apply it to your questions.

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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 8/28/2006 2:47:06 AM

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I live in Hotter than Hell Texas and I just want to stay cool.

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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 8/28/2006 3:20:44 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: popeye1250

This is kind of a follow on to another thread in here by Susan about a Master having their sub/slave naked all the time.
I've never had exhibitionistic tendencies at all.
I could walk around naked but it does nothing for me sexually or otherwise.
If you have these tendencies what does it do for you psychologically?
Does it turn you on sexually?
Do you feel sexier?
How does it make you feel and why do you like it?
What are you thinking when you're walking around naked?

Walking around naked seems to be too simple. It is the seduction of the mind that makes me enjoy showing my body off.

I like the sensual tease. My walk becomes different, maybe a few of my buttons lie open, the lace at the top of my thigh highs peeking out from beneath a swinging sundress.

Yes, I become aroused when Men turn and look at me, I also feel sexier when they are doing so. It all gives my mind such great things to think about.

This lifestyle allows us to be very open in our sexual needs, one of the things that keeps me teasing my way through it so to speak.

(Look at that I finally made a real post)

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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 8/28/2006 3:55:14 AM

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Glisten, nice post!
That's the type of answer I was looking for.

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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 8/28/2006 3:57:33 AM

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Yes, I like it. Yes, it turns me on. I am not thinking anything in particular, I'm just feeling more open, usually.
Why do I like it - I am not sure; but I just know I like the idea other people are probably enjoying it, and I am being watched.

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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 8/28/2006 4:15:39 AM

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Susan, another good answer.
I'm just wondering about the psychology of it.

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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 8/28/2006 5:19:01 AM

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I appreciate the combination of attention I am getting, combined with my own bit of possible (but not always) self-consiousness or shyness about being exposed, I guess.

- Susan

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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 8/28/2006 5:38:00 AM

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Popeye...

It's a bitch when you are cooking bacon.

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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 8/28/2006 5:58:06 AM

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I'm not much of an exhibitionist either, but if Master wanted me to walk around naked all the time, well, then I would. But I don't particularly enjoy public play either.

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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 8/28/2006 5:58:08 AM

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Susan, "shyness about being exposed."
That makes sense in a submissive way.

Lotus, you have to start right in on me don't you?

I got about 2 hours sleep last night!

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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 8/28/2006 5:59:30 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: popeye1250

This is kind of a follow on to another thread in here by Susan about a Master having their sub/slave naked all the time.
I've never had exhibitionistic tendencies at all.
I could walk around naked but it does nothing for me sexually or otherwise.
If you have these tendencies what does it do for you psychologically?
Does it turn you on sexually?
Do you feel sexier?
How does it make you feel and why do you like it?
What are you thinking when you're walking around naked?

I feel comfortable and at ease. It makes me realize how restricting clothing can be. I find myself relaxing and unwinding. When I'm alone there are no sexual connotations. If someone is in my presence the thought may pass my mind. I won't say that I feel sexier, but it is definitely much more freeing. Perhaps it's that element of vulnerability that appeals most of all. I cannot know what the viewer is really thinking, but I've found that nudity has made me worry far less about these things.

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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 8/28/2006 7:16:54 AM

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Wait, you started nearly exactly this same thread less than two weeks ago.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_540397/mpage_1/key_exhibitionist/tm.htm#540688
Exhibitionists

There seems to be many exhibitionists in this site.
For the exibitionists among us...
What is it that thrills you about showing off or more exactly showing off your body and being naked for others to see?
And are you a "public" exhibitionist or just in private for certain people?
Do you like to be totally naked or in lingerie?

And then asked the same questions you ask here in the following three pages.

What exactly new do you expect to find now?

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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 8/28/2006 7:47:47 AM

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L.A. I did didn't I!
I forgot all about that other thread! lol
You're good with thread histories in here!
You should be the C.M. Thread Historian.

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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 8/28/2006 8:00:21 AM

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I think there are different definitions of exhibitionism. Mine involves nudity, sexual or non-sexual, in front of a consenting (and hopefully appreciative) audience.

For me, the restrictions of society are what make it erotic. We are told nudity is for the bathroom or bedroom only, and that our private parts are private. So being naked or enjoying intimacy or a scene in front of other people -- even with a look but don't touch rule -- is "naughty." I've never tried it, but just the idea itself is powerful to me.

pup75

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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 8/28/2006 9:23:40 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: popeye1250

Susan, "shyness about being exposed."
That makes sense in a submissive way.

Lotus, you have to start right in on me don't you?
I got about 2 hours sleep last night!

GRINS.. burns from the bacon?

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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 8/28/2006 10:50:12 AM

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I've never been one that was comfortable being naked in front of someone. Although since being in my current relationship, I've noticed different things that my boyfriend likes to see me in/do. So,up until the other day, I never really sat down to think about the way things have changed in the way I dress when we go out, or how little I wear at home wandering around the house.

It gives me a charge to know that he thinks I look sexy either in or out of clothes. I'm still somewhat selfconscious about my body, but I don't hate it either. I'm currently working on loosing a few pounds, but I know that it is for me, not for him as he likes me anyway that I am.

But because of my insecurities, it makes me so much more aware of what is exposed of myself in any circumstance because of how little I used to expose. It makes me blush and want to cover up, but it also gives me a charge to know that others and my boyfriend are looking and like it. As for at home, being completely naked and wandering around has become part comfortable, part a rush since we are in a pretty well occupied neighborhood.

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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 8/28/2006 10:57:58 AM

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I live in a very cold climate for most months of the year. And so I freeeeeze, with no clothes on. If I do walk around naked on thiose rare occasions its not for long, becuase its atypical.
And if Ive got things to do, I cant do them unless clothed. Thats a learned behavior.
I also went to fashion design school and think clothes make me look and feel better about myself.
So, a nudist,...I'm not!

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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 8/28/2006 11:54:39 AM

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Gosh i remember my first public scene. i'd been told 2 weeks before that i would be nude and wrapped in saran wrap. This was to be a final step to overcomming my hang ups i'd had with having my hands restrained. i knew the saran wrap thing was going to be a huge challenge for me but i worried most about the nude part lol.

For two weeks i was freaked out about being nude in front of strangers. When it came down to it, it wasn't near as big a deal as i had made it in my mind. i then realized i should have given more thought to the saran wrap scene and how to deal with that. i ended up doing well with both the nudity and the scene.

Since then i have been nude or exposed in front of others several times. It doesn't turn me on and it still isn't easy for me but i am able to when it's required of me. i hope that someday it will become a turn on for me but for now it is for His pleasure.
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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 8/28/2006 3:48:07 PM

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this may sound odd but being naked isn't exhibitionism for me. i don't particularlly like clothes. i've spent a lot of time naked in my life and would do it more if society didn't frown on it so much. being naked is comfortable to me. but exhibitionism is having some clothes on that make the viewer want to see more and then occasionally letting a flash of more skin (or even lingerie) show. those are the clothes i like to wear. for example i have a black sheer lace top that i wear under a jacket. keep the buttons buttoned and its no big deal. leave them undone and let the wind blow while walking down the street or remove the jacket in a club and someone will get a show. or what about wearing a very short skirt with no panties to sit and drink coffee at starbucks. all it takes is a change of position and again you have exhibitionism. but that's just my take on it.

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