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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 8/28/2006 3:52:32 PM

angielouwhos

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I can totally identify with feeling submissive from being without clothes. This is particularily true when the one in authority is not dressed in their birthday suit. In addition to that it feels nice and cool when it's warm out or inside and its very comfortable in general. The flipside though is one feels very vulnerable in that state depending on who is present.

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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 8/28/2006 3:57:54 PM

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Popeye,

i tend to be naked a lot of the time anway - it just feels good, always been like that since i can remember. Hard to do with kids. i have girls but the older one tells me to watch the windows lol.... i tend to have a not care attitude who sees, they shouldn't be looking in!!

Lots of doms have the fantasy "you will be naked at all times" deal going. It wouldn't bother me, i think it would be rather boring to see your sub naked all the time. Kinda like becoming desensitized to it. i think it would be far more tantalizing to have to go around in something skimpy, leave something to the imagination ;-)

i am not an exhibitionist by any stretch but my ex put me in various predicaments and surprisingly enough i found them - in retrospect - to be erotic.

i don't feel vulnerable or exposed when i am naked and even if my dom is dressed. Probably because i am so used to being naked?? Wish i did have those feelings. Maybe i need to start wearing clothes all the time LOL.

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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 8/28/2006 5:35:55 PM

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Simple nudity doesn't do it for me. In fact, like you, I find it boring. But I can't get enough of other types of exhibitionism. For me it's all about doing what my mental programming tells me I shouldn't be doing. My favorite is being exposed in clothing. Having breasts or ass exposed and on display. Having attention drawn to those parts we're supposed to keep covered. Being watched or observed while engaged in a sexual or sensual act. Sharing pictures, stories, flashing a bit in public (but not TOO the general public), having pics taken, having my sounds recorded or listened to on the phone etc...All these things are supposed to be private and hidden. It's breaking a taboo.

Perhaps it does little for you because you don't have the same sense of being private about your body and sexuality so it has no charge.

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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 8/28/2006 9:28:12 PM

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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

Popeye...

It's a bitch when you are cooking bacon.

She may have thought so at first but of course if she did think so she didn't say. She's a good girl. Good girls neither talk back nor use that kind of fucking language.

These days she suggests bacon almost every morning.

Having supervised the operation a number of times I feel confident in suggesting that she could offer anyone here a couple of nice tips on naked bacon preparation.

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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 8/28/2006 10:05:19 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: popeye1250

This is kind of a follow on to another thread in here by Susan about a Master having their sub/slave naked all the time.
I've never had exhibitionistic tendencies at all.
I could walk around naked but it does nothing for me sexually or otherwise.
If you have these tendencies what does it do for you psychologically?
Does it turn you on sexually?
Do you feel sexier?
How does it make you feel and why do you like it?
What are you thinking when you're walking around naked?

Hmm... Well, I was brought up with very strict rules about sexuality. You did NOT run around the house naked. Heck, I got in trouble when I was 3 for being caught humping a stuffed toy. It wasn't that long ago that I would never even have THOUGHT of being naked in front of anyone else.

Of course, my marriage to pup has changed that somewhat. As far as nudity itself goes... since it wasn't something I was used to, I find that the heightened sense of touch is interesting. I am more aware of the temperature of the air, the startling coolness of a countertop brushing my stomach when I'm doing dishes, of the carpet beneath my bare feet. It's a sensual experience, I suppose.

Now, if I've been ordered to perform chores naked (or in just a collar) it's more than just sensual. It really puts me in a sexual/submissive mindset. I do feel vulnerable and d*mn horny.

That said, I am not comfortable with 'public' nudity. I've never attended a real play party. I've witenessed just a little play once when someone brought their slave in dressed in nothing but a red harness that left her bits exposed. I was embarrassed and avoided looking at her. At that time, I viewed nudity as a strictly sexual thing and didn't want others involved in my sex life. If you asked me about this now... I would say I need to think on it. I'm coming to understand that nudity doesn't necessarily trigger mindless hardons in all guys. I /might/ eventually become comfortable enough to be seen nude by other people. That remains to be seen. The potential is there.

zuma

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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 11/16/2006 8:04:01 PM

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It is very common for a lesbian domme to require her sub slut to be naked in the home, even when visitors come over. One reason is so the sub will be available for use of her domme whenever the domme feels like it. Many lesbian dommes require this.

Also partial nudity and "exhibiting" of the sub--at parties, in clubs and other "safe" public places--is a very common form of displaying ownership and intensifying humiliation.

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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 11/16/2006 8:07:18 PM

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You should be the C.M. Thread Historian.

She isn't?!

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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 11/16/2006 8:08:52 PM

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quote:

If you have these tendencies what does it do for you psychologically?

Allows me to be as nature intended

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Does it turn you on sexually?

No

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Do you feel sexier?

Yes

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How does it make you feel and why do you like it?

It makes me feel free, which is also why I like it

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What are you thinking when you're walking around naked?

I am thinking about Master and about how much he would enjoy it

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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 11/16/2006 8:12:22 PM

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In my case, the Mistress prefers me to do the house chores naked..and even when "civilians" are coming to the house I am not to dress unless instructed otherwise.

It's not the humiliation in my case She is going for, but the reinforcing the trust that She will protect me from the slings and arrows of outragous fortune.

I am far from decorative, so have to be practical instead

DrF

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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 11/16/2006 8:37:01 PM

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:) I really am more of an exabitionist then I ever thought!! And its funny because Im really shy!!

Master often has me wearing nothing but nipple clamps a lot of times he has me only wearing bottoms usualy he likes to have my top bear, and I love it I love cleaing and doing everyday things like that. Also at the club I love when we scene there. the first time we scened in the club I was so out of it I didnt even notise people arouind me at all we where in a corner so we really had a lot of privasy and every now and then I would see someone pop their heads in to see what was happening I was a little dissapointed that we were in such a sucluded place I found I liked when others where watching.. anyway after someone told me that one of the other Doms my Master is friendly with was cheering him on calling out his name in encuragement and cheering him on and stuff neather of us heard him he was in Dom space and i was in sub space only consentrateing on eachother at that point. Anyway hearing this i dont know exited me.

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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 7/18/2007 6:34:13 PM

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I'm really into forced nudity, so for me it's a control/vulnerablity thing. The whole idea of not knowing what's going to happen next, esp in a public or outdoor scene, is a huge thrill.

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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 7/18/2007 6:45:02 PM

LadyHeart

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ORIGINAL: subsa

this may sound odd but being naked isn't exhibitionism for me.

It doesn't sound odd to me. There is not a lot of correlation between nakedness and exhibitionism. Ask any nudist. They are two completely different things that happen to have a degree of overlap.

:))
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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 7/18/2007 7:32:50 PM

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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 7/18/2007 8:14:23 PM

daddyscherry

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There are a few different things that i like about being naked...something i've recently discovered within myself.

i like the feeling of vulnerability, even when i'm by myself it makes my mind wander to what if someone saw me like this....or when Daddy is home wondering if he will decide to make use of me.

Also the freedom of being without clothes seems to make me much more keenly aware of my sexuality, as a sexual being...kind of like it is all just "there", so to speak... and i gotta love it when a cool wind blows lol.

i like the idea of peeka boo clothes the best though, my Daddy doesn't let me wear panties (like most Masters that i have read about) so when i wear a dress, like the one in my main pic, without panties it adds an element of possibly getting caught by someone...maybe giving them a show or an unintentional flash of pink.

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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 7/18/2007 8:19:33 PM

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The thrill of exhibitionism is definately part rebellion. Society frowns upon this behavior, so in being naked we are giving that restriction, and societies restrictions in general, a metaporical middle finger. This is popular in this community because we all know bout societies restictions upon us (this reason is definately the reason why I have ran through the park a few times). But i think it pertains to something else. When we engage in exhibitionism, we exercise control in our own actions and confidence. It is sort of an exercise in high self control, which is nice for us Doms. However, in the same situation, we have no control over what those people may think of us, and this may be a turn on for the submissives out there.

Just a thought.
Ian

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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 7/18/2007 11:40:09 PM

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Im not sure why I like it. But yes it does turn me on to show off my body or to be naked in a crowd like a play party. I think it's partly due to the attention it attracts and knowing that people are looking and enjoying what they see. Though I do love the attention it also makes me nervous knowing that people are looking and watching which turns me on even more. I can't really explain it since im still discovering this side of myself, but I definetly consider myself an exhibitionist.

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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 7/19/2007 7:35:00 AM

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I have no modesty, comes from growing up on a clothing optional beach. At the same time, I have no exhibitionistic qualities, comes from growing up on a clothing optional beach. Nude just is, never did anything for me or for the others I would meet anymore than we would focus on whether someone wore a maillot or a bikini. Clothing is situation specific for me. Bothers The Man because he grew up in a normal family and he does have modesty.

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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 7/19/2007 8:59:03 AM

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quote:

I could walk around naked but it does nothing for me sexually or otherwise.

Popeye, I really hope you dont mind a slight hijack.

I noticed this line of what you asked and I wonder if there isnt more to this. I know you are also a Military man so I am asking this to you. Sir has this same view. He could care less who sees him naked, its a very difficult thing for me to grasp. He walks out on our front porch naked in the evening to get something from the refrigerator (no we arent that big of rednecks, our kitchen is being remodeled and the fridge sits out there right now). I get bothered by it because it would be very easy for our neighbors (my grandparents a great aunt and a few other houses) and anyone driving by to see him. His opinion is that "he aint got anything none of them havent already seen". And I wonder if this total lack of modesty doesnt come about from years of public showers and absolutly no privacy in any aspect of your life while in the Military. To me, alot of what he does naturally is seen by me as absolutly crude. But I see it in alot of the career military men I know, so maybe its a natural state of progression.

But once youve come to that point, is it then impossible to get back to feeling that those things are in anyway intimate or sexual? We were at a party a few weeks ago where Sir was discussing a certain type of nipple clamps with someone, he just nonchalantly raised my dress all the way to my armpits to try them on me. Room full of about 20 people, not scening, just talking. I had nothing on under the dress, so all of the sudden I was naked in a room of people I didnt really know. Im not an exhibitionist, and lemme tell you my face was damn red. He couldnt understand why it bothered me, but in a way it did make me feel a whole lot more submissive at that moment.

ghita~

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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 7/19/2007 12:18:28 PM

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Hmmmm.... I dont do nudity easily.... but recently due to health issues I am bigger than I'm used to & it has shot my self confidence in my own body.

To me there is nothing more beautiful than a sub/slave presenting herself gracefully to her dom/master... to see her move from a knelt down position to a stood one, holding her hands out infront to be cuffed.

I do find clothing incredibly sexy and certain styles even help influence my mood and behaviour... or a better description may be that the clothes enhance it.

I long to be thinner & more confident again so I can offer myself to him as I feel is right to do so.... I long to offer him such beautiful submission.

Does that make any sense to you guys?

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RE: What is it about Exhibitionism? - 7/19/2007 12:46:55 PM

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I can walk around naked and its not the same. But i liek to be made to things like be naked, etc. Its just makes me feel more open, and vulnerable in a good way. Giving that to your Domme is very powerful for me. Exposing myself for their enjoyment means alot to me for some reason

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