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Technique - 1/3/2005 6:36:49 AM   
INSIDEYOURMIND


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It seems all women think they give the best oral sex, what is your technique, or what little thing do you do that puts him over the edge?

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RE: Technique - 1/3/2005 7:08:36 AM   
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It seems all women think they give the best oral sex, what is your technique, or what little thing do you do that puts him over the edge?


I let one of my slaves take care of that responsibility for me. Why should *I* have to do the dirty work???? LOL

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RE: Technique - 1/3/2005 7:15:48 AM   
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Status: offline 		Well I would never be one to claim that I am the best at anything.....lol. I have had my fair share of compliments in this department but I think I can attribute them not to a specific technique....but to getting to know my partner. It seems that each man is different in exactly how it is that he likes this done. I like to watch the facial expressions of a man as I do this for him. Read his body language. Some men seem to like to have you be very, very tender while others wants you to pretend that you are trying to suck the chrome of the exhaust pipe of a Harley. I just try to watch and read how my partner likes it and that always seems to work just fine!

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RE: Technique - 1/3/2005 7:53:40 AM   
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I was asking the subs/slaves!

In jest!

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RE: Technique - 1/3/2005 8:11:22 AM   
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RE: Technique - 1/3/2005 8:53:25 AM   
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RE: Technique - 1/3/2005 12:20:58 PM   
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It seems all women think they give the best oral sex, what is your technique, or what little thing do you do that puts him over the edge?


Really? I don't consider myself a woman. I'm a female. Maybe that is where you went wrong you said all women?
I know I don't give the best oral sex there is to be had. Every man I've ever given it to has liked something almost completely different.
So, communication is the key on what they like. If they are too embarrassed to tell me, well then their loss.

Some like teeth, some don't. Some like a hoover type suction, some don't. Just depends on the man.
I don't have a clue what women like....so I'm only referring to men here.

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RE: Technique - 1/3/2005 1:32:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		It never ceases to amaze me how little women understand men. This question is a good example.

There is no such thing as a bad blow job !!!! No guy will ever stop a woman during oral sex because it just doesn't feel as good as the others. Besides, I've never met any women who've claimed to be the "best" at giving head.

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RE: Technique - 1/3/2005 2:13:45 PM   
Sweeticing


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Status: offline 		I would never say I was good at this because I Hate Giving BJ So to me the best things is get them in the shower clean them off real good . Give some light kisses to the head then roll my tongue around the tip to the base . suck all of 7 times( slowly) then fill my hand up with body wash and jack them off. Never had any complaints But as you already said No guy will say stop and say "hey your not doing it right."

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RE: Technique - 1/3/2005 2:29:34 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have to say Ive never had any complaints and again all men like different things - but in my overall expereince (damn nearly used the word vast there) man are more than happy to find a woman who will give them head and if she happens to swallow its apparently even better - Ive never had a problem with swallowing anything (explains why my butt is the size of a large warehouse lol)

My technique is pretty much to do what I usually do and then fine tune from there - communication is a HUGE help.............plus I like to do it and believe it or not enjoying what you do is almost technique in itself.

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RE: Technique - 1/3/2005 2:47:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: alwayzron
There is no such thing as a bad blow job !!!! No guy will ever stop a woman during oral sex because it just doesn't feel as good as the others.



Ah but it takes a man to say that.

Personally I've never asked about my performance. I always figured the reactions during the act was a good indication of how well I was performing. As well as the end result, or should I say the "outcome". I don't think I fit in the catagory of "all women". Never have I claimed to give the best "oral sex". I will say I've never had any complaints. lol

As far as a special technique, I really don't have one. And like Gloria stated "Some like teeth, some don't. Some like a hoover type suction, some don't. Just depends on the man."


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RE: Technique - 1/3/2005 3:30:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: alwayzron
There is no such thing as a bad blow job !!!! No guy will ever stop a woman during oral sex because it just doesn't feel as good as the others.

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odd, I've had several men tell me there -is- such a thing. In fact, I've had a couple go so far as to say they'd rather get -nothing- than have oral sex from certain people. (These are non-sexual friends, so they aren't telling me this in praise of my technique :) )

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RE: Technique - 1/3/2005 3:43:21 PM   
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I've had several men tell me there -is- such a thing

A starving man will never complain about a free meal. I guess some guys have all the luck. It's my understanding that the only bad blowjob is the one you give yourself.

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RE: Technique - 1/3/2005 4:12:53 PM   
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odd, I've had several men tell me there -is- such a thing. In fact, I've had a couple go so far as to say they'd rather get -nothing- than have oral sex from certain people. (These are non-sexual friends, so they aren't telling me this in praise of my technique :)


I've heard the same from more than several. ALthough I credit them for not telling their partners how they want it done. So, all their fault. However, hanging out with men all the time...you hear what men talk about. There are lot's of bad blow jobs.

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RE: Technique - 1/3/2005 4:47:36 PM   
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There are lot's of bad blow jobs.

Well .... I'd be happy with a few of them ....

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RE: Technique - 1/3/2005 4:51:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		How about a tangent question. Has anyone out there taken, as beth refers to it, the "Pepsi - Blindfold Challenge"?

One of the clubs we frequent has a room called the 'Dark Room'. You can't see your hand or any other part of you for that matter, right in front of your face. The question is, if you go into that room, or I guess a 'glory hole', or even a blindfold, would work just as well, and have a male and female both perform, who would be the "Best"?

Theory is, and for me it may ALWAYS be theory; (Not that there is anything wrong with that!) someone with personal knowledge of how the equipment works would be the better technician. This of course assumes both 'experts' would be equally dedicated to the task at hand. Ummmm, can/should hands be used?.

Has anyone any taken this challenge? What about our knowledgeable and experienced females? Your thoughts/comments.

Before jumping in with the answer, I think there is another key factor to consider. I believe that the most erogenous zone of the body, the brain/mind is contributory to the result. Meaning, if you knew it was a guy and you weren't into guys, your vote would be effected. Conversely, if you are so turned on with the idea of a homosexual experience that may also prejudice your answer. So it must be a blind test - where the performer isn't know. I guess this would eliminate guys with facial hair.

In the interest of science, I think this is a subject should be studied in detail.

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RE: Pepsi - Blindfold Challenge - 1/3/2005 5:03:30 PM   
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Outstanding post! I can't wait to read some of the other responses. Having been privy to "his" and "hers' blow jobs, although not under the circumstances you've stated, I think there's a definate difference. However .. dot com .. expectations may well play a factor in how the experience is perceived. Women, I believe, are not as aggressive in their performance. I believe for the male 'giver', it's a matter of enjoying what you're receiving ... vice for the woman, it's the enjoyment of what you're providing. Other thoughts ???

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RE: Technique - 1/3/2005 5:29:43 PM   
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It seems all women think they give the best oral sex, what is your technique, or what little thing do you do that puts him over the edge?



i'm not sure if it could be called technique, but i love giving head and it shows.... eagerness, enthusiasm, purely relishing what i'm doing, wanting to make it last for as long as i can and listening to what he wants, be it hard or soft, seems to bring consistant happiness and pleasure...

if You're looking for the nitty-gritty skills and special delights i've learned through my avocation of oral, there's lots of things i do that seem to cause especial pleasure... if allowed to roam, no place is sacred from kisses, licks, sucklings and light grazes of teeth... from thigh to thigh and tip to t'aint, it's all to be enjoyed... tongue boxing with the head, going down deep and flicking licks to the balls, a rippling tongue action that's hard to describe but i've been told feels fantastic, there's a million and one ways to savor and play... if i'm allowed to speak, whispering sweet wicked nothings of fun i'm having, and if not, i just let those lovely little noises that occur speak for themselves...

i won't lay any claim to being the "best" or any such accolade, that's for my Partner to decide, but i've yet to ever have any complaints...
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thank You for the interesting question...

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RE: Pepsi - Blindfold Challenge - 1/3/2005 6:25:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't have a specific technique but have been praised for how I do it by every man I have been with. I think it has to do with how much you love what you are doing.......and I do. I savor every second of the act and glow with every moan from him.

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RE: Technique - 1/3/2005 6:28:58 PM   
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Status: offline 		She will say also saying one is hte best is a tad overzealous lol, and also it varies form man to men...but in the realm of special techniques she will say many men enjoy perrenium action, slight pressure with the fingers or tongue.

And as for Master He quite easily prefers a bj after it is dripping wet with female juices lol...that He says is the best kind lol

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