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RE: Technique - 1/3/2005 6:51:09 PM

realophelia

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It seems all women think they give the best oral sex, what is your technique, or what little thing do you do that puts him over the edge?

Cock worship is a really big thing for me. So I would have to say that it usually goes beyond technique and into something else -- on my end. Sometimes, maybe most times, I get caught up in what I'm doing and my delivery suffers. Occasionally he will correct me, but more often seems to like the fact that I enjoy it.

I don't think I give the best oral sex though, at all. I know there are a lot of people who are technically better.

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RE: Technique - 1/3/2005 7:57:02 PM

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One thing i have had some success with is giving head while having ice in my mouth - dunno why but it does seem to work for some guys - I guess you need to be careful its not too cold otherwise you'll end up with bits of body stuck to the roof of your mouth :-)

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RE: Technique - 1/3/2005 8:59:28 PM

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I would have to agree with fact that it has nothing to do with Technique (as a few have mentioned) because each and every male is different in their likes and dislikes.... I truly love worshipping my Master in any way and BJ's being the number one way to show it. I found that I worried too much about pleasing Him. It was only when I relaxed and did what was natural instead of trying to use " techniques” that He complimented me on how much better I had gotten (not that he complained about it before)

So my advice would be... like what you are doing, Trust Him enough to tell you if he likes it or not, and relax.

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RE: Technique - 1/4/2005 1:34:07 PM

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what is your technique, or what little thing do you do that puts him over the edge?

For starters, every Man enjoys His oral sex differently, just another of the 31 flavors. i usually request to be taught how He prefers it, then practice... a lot... with Him, of course.

There are many 'techniques' that are there for learning, such as the 'lollipop' or 'ice cream' technique... i have always enjoyed giving oral pleasures, and found that if it is being done sensually and erotically and i am enjoying it, then He is much more lenient to forgiving if it is different from other ways He has experienced.

Staying in open communication during the act (one's mouth isn't always filled *laughs lightly*) helps as well... i will do this by asking 'may i lick Your .....' Sometimes i can be a bit teasing, keeping the full penetration of His manhood from my mouth until He feels He is fully in want of it.

It can vary so much, because there are so many techniques... asking Him what He likes is always the best way to find out.

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RE: Technique - 1/8/2005 11:40:22 AM

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Perhaps there's something wrong with me, but i've always found hand manipulation feels far better than a BJ. Long nails and a little teasing... HELLO!

... it's probably why i could fall asleep watching a typical porno flick.

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RE: Technique - 1/8/2005 7:34:22 PM

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To stay as Far away from Dick as possible!

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RE: Technique - 1/9/2005 7:38:53 AM

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My reply will appear as directed at You, Master, and although i'm sure that You already know my stance on the subject, in that i do have an interest in sharing in the discussion with others here, i'll post my answer just the same.

i agree with many here who stated that the technique could certainly vary based on the recipient.

i strongly agree that one of the most important techniques involved when giving a man oral is for him to see and know clearly that the woman enjoys giving him one, as much as he would enjoy receiving.

i'm sure that swallowing is always a plus. i'd think it could be a bit of a turn off for some to have the woman suddenly stop all action at the peek of climax, or to spit rather than swallow afterwards like it is toxic waste or something. Again, this points to the recipient's enjoyment being increased in knowing that the giver is enjoying doing so.

Some like teeth, some don't.
Some like a firm stroking of the tongue, some don't.
Some like firm suction, some don't.
Some enjoy having the 'opening' probed with a firm tonguing, some don't.
Some enjoy a well lubricated stroking of the hand to be included (some fast,some slow), some don't.
Some enjoy a bit of attention directed at their anus by a finger or two to be included (some fast,some slow), some don't.
Some like deep throating, some don't (hard to believe but i'm sure they exist).

Everyone has their preferences, everyone is different.

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RE: Technique - 1/9/2005 8:26:53 AM

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I certainly would never say I was the best but I have rarely gotten any complaints. I do know that I love giving blowjobs and I think that my enthusiasm and wanting to give pleasure enhances my performance. As has been stated before, each man is different and you have to learn their likes and dislikes. I love finding out the special places that make him groan and have him grab my head in closer to him. But I think as in most things in life, if you enjoy what you are doing you will be good at it.

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