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RE: Improvement as a person - 8/31/2006 9:15:33 PM

Caitriona

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I am so happy to see this thread! I love what everyone is saying!

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RE: Improvement as a person - 8/31/2006 9:38:09 PM

perverseangelic

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My Owner is -amazing- in regards to my mental illness. He makes me go to doctors appointments, makes sure I take all the pills Ineed to. He helps me moniter my moods and lets me know if I'm going off one end or the other. He deals with me when I'm angry at everything. He still loves me when I tell him that he deserves better, and I should just leave his life. I dunno. It's amazing. He's supportive in ways I've never had anyone be, ever.

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RE: Improvement as a person - 9/1/2006 3:10:10 AM

youngslavegirl82

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Master has made her feel safe, loved and helped her believe in herself. If it was not for Him, she would not have the self confidence to be what she really feels deep down inside. All this helps her to feel proud of what she is.

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RE: Improvement as a person - 9/1/2006 8:58:05 AM

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My Dom has been an incredible influence in my life. He has improved me in so many ways, it is almost impossible to list them. He has not tried to "change" me so much as to allow me the chance to show him myself, to allow me to embrace what is good, and he has given me the strength and motivation to do things I needed to do for my own good.

When I met him, I was still more than a little afraid of people, but he dispelled this quickly. I learned through his unwavering example that I could be vulnerable, that I could trust another person and not suffer for it. He has taught me that sex is not something wrong, that the ways I experienced it before perhaps were, but that it could be healthy and beautiful. He has shown me how to love on a level I cannot hardly describe. For these things, I am greatful to him.

He has encouraged me to pursue my ambitions, to take up music, to go on tour, to do art. Sometimes, he assigns things to me that are simply things I have wanted to do but are concerned about taking the time for. He makes sure that I take time for myself, that part of my service to him is to improve who I am and my own talents. Were it not for him, I would not have started painting again, I would not have thought it okay to spend time playing insturments when there is work to be done elsewhere.

He has given me things to read to improve my confidence. He has told me that I am a hero to him because of how I have handled things that have happened in my life. He would not let me be a victim to what happened in my past, but instead, showed me what I should consider so I could rise above these things. He makes sure I eat when I would otherwise skip meals and starve. He takes care of me when I am upset or ill, and he never blames me for getting upset or sick, he simply helps me to get better again, and will not let me apologize for these things. During the beginning months of our living together, I broke two vertebrae, and were it not for him, I would not have healed as well as I did. He would make me take the painkillers, go to my appointments, and rest so I did not make things worse. I would not have done that last thing alone- he showed me that being able to care for myself and rest when I need to is good and that he wants me to value what and who I am- so that I can be better for him as well as for myself.

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RE: Improvement as a person - 9/2/2006 9:00:00 PM

BLKSIRESwench

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BLKSIRE is my Master, Mentor, and indispensible friend. In the four years we have been together, He has helped me achieve more professionally and personally. He has counseled me on financial matters, helping me to improve my credit and save more for retirement. i have been able to realize one dream of mine by writing - and getting paid for it - all because of His encouragement. He is always honest with me, but also very supportive. Although He is incredibly accepting of me, He also encourages me to keep myself physically fit and He is generous with praise when i do well and focus on goals. By opening up my true nature, He has shown me what it is to live without limits, truly trusting in my abilities to achieve whatever i set out to achieve. He has been the single most influencial person in my entire life. i can honestly say that knowing Him has not only made me a better submissive, but a better person.

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RE: Improvement as a person - 9/2/2006 10:04:52 PM

Sirandlittle1

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I was a complete wholesome person when i went looking for a Dom. I didnt need help to be a better person. I consider bettering myself as my responsibility, not my Dom's. And as im being true to myself, then being better, is not for someone else to decide.
Self improvement is a ongoing process for me.

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RE: Improvement as a person - 9/2/2006 11:08:14 PM

Kashan

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Oh, and I can say "No." now. Big improvement in my life. Thank you Master.

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RE: Improvement as a person - 9/3/2006 2:34:52 PM

Shalyn

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In the short time i have been with my Master, i have become more motivated. We talk more openly now and hold nothing back. Before, I was a little shy to fully open up. I actually feel much better about myself in general and its a great feeling.

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RE: Improvement as a person - 9/3/2006 3:05:29 PM

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My boyfriend has helped me grow a spine. Outside of the bedroom I am now perfectly comfortable going "No, I hate this, fuck off," or "No, it really bothers me that you didn't consider the fact that we had evening plans and now you say you have to cancel to go to this [which would have been easily taken care of eariler if he had bothered to look at his schedule and not played games all day] so I'll let it slide this time but I don't want it to happen again." As unsubmissive as this sounds, it actually helped me become a better submissive. I'm comfortable telling him what I need and I can actually figure out what I need. It also makes me more open to expermenting with the things that he wants to do! Because I know that he is comfortable with me being me and respects my opinions and my limits, I'm much more open to him pushing my limits then I have been with anyone else.

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