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amayos -> RE: Forced! (9/1/2006 3:19:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Homestead It is emotive and obsessive in nature. And trying to come to terms with it logically is a waste of time. You only chase your tail. Ah yes, well put.

Homestead -> RE: Forced! (9/1/2006 3:20:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: onestandingstill quote: ORIGINAL: SusanofO Well, if one has a prettry good imagination, and also a deep desire to have something that's in fact been desired seem to be forced, that can work sometimes, to make the situation run a close second to "reality", can't it? What other choice is there, here, except for the general consensual agreement to agree to whatever (anything), and then maybe have some particular desired scenario be a "surprise"? I suppose I am asking - What would the alternative be, for someone who likes "forced" scenarios? I don't really see that many. In fact, I don't see any. - Susan Homestead titleAndStar(732,0,0,false,"","") Corrupted [image]http://www.collarchat.com/image/9star.gif[/image] Posts: 732 Status: offline [image]http://www.collarchat.com/image/blank.gif[/image] You force them to do something they really dislike. They have to pick three, you do one. No safe words![;)] I really got hot over this suggestion. Lay down three outrageous, push your limit to the hilt, hard types of things you're willing to do. I love the evil twist of watch what you ask for you just might get it in this. Very creative there Homestead. Suzanne The loviest thing being that the dears set themselves up for it all. Hard to whine about it afterwards-I like that.[;)]

Domnumberone -> RE: Forced! (9/1/2006 3:21:18 PM)
In my opinion, if a slave or any submissive person asks to be punnished or forced to do something, the most punnishing answer or action from the dominant person would be to refuse. http://clips4sale.com/store/3770

Homestead -> RE: Forced! (9/1/2006 3:22:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: amayos quote: ORIGINAL: Homestead It is emotive and obsessive in nature. And trying to come to terms with it logically is a waste of time. You only chase your tail. Ah yes, well put. I do rough layouts of methodologies, and tell a few stories as test with new girls. Then see what grows from the seeds I plant. I find that they were often already there ,but only needed germination with something to force them into life.

Homestead -> RE: Forced! (9/1/2006 3:24:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Domnumberone In my opinion, if a slave or any submissive person asks to be punnished or forced to do something, the most punnishing answer or action from the dominant person would be to refuse. http://clips4sale.com/store/3770 While this appeals to my stubborn side, I prefer to simply do something unexpected instead. And denial is far too predictable a tool to rely on.

mistoferin -> RE: Forced! (9/1/2006 3:26:42 PM)
Nice new pic amayos....but something is missing.................. .....................................ah yes........................the horns.....

amayos -> RE: Forced! (9/1/2006 3:32:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DoctorDubious Now you have a halo, which I find mordantly ironic, and fitting.... * Laughs I thought so, too. Btw, thank you for your compliments, sir.

onestandingstill -> RE: Forced! (9/1/2006 3:35:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mistoferin Nice new pic amayos....but something is missing.................. .....................................ah yes........................the horns..... Oh but I really like the almost glimpse of something that's not missing at all the best.

popeye1250 -> RE: Forced! (9/1/2006 3:47:00 PM)
It'd be very easy for me to do a "Forced" rape scene here. I'd just go down to the "Dew Drop Inn" down the road and get a couple of big Rednecks to come home with me for $20 each and grab the sub/slave and strip her and tie her to the bed while I gag her! And they'd be rough about it too! "Thanks Boys!"

MrrPete -> RE: Forced! (9/1/2006 3:50:40 PM)
Fantastic website. I love the heretic's fork.

LotusSong -> RE: Forced! (9/1/2006 4:05:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: amayos Goodness, that's brevity and linear absolutism, all in one, I'd say. So it's all fantasy? Huh. Well, I'm speechless, other than to say that I suppose an inability to comprehend something does not mean it cannot exist. While I nod to your personal experience, I will, for the sake of reciprocal brevity, respectfully disagree. Ok.. then please explain to me where it is NOT fantasy.. where at one point you did not decide to offer your submission, orchestate the situation and allow it to happen. Unless you were surprised with an activity you didn't know you would like.

amayos -> RE: Forced! (9/1/2006 4:06:57 PM)
Your interpretation/extension of the spider analogy was enjoyable, and I feel there is really no right or wrong to those images—just what you relate to and draw from them. quote: ORIGINAL: marieToo As was eluded to earlier, Sometimes a desire that feels so strong, remains in complete incongruency with our beliefs of right/wrong, moral/immoral, evil/pure. This is where conflict comes in ....for me anyway. A horoscope once said of me, "A Scorpio's soul is a battlefield of light and dark." I thought that was a neat way of describing the human condition of us all, in fact. quote: ORIGINAL: marieToo Your response to my post felt like a gift. Not even so much that there was an agreeance of sorts, but because it was a response...from you. Thank you. < The halo perhaps is fitting, for today, at least> : ) marie. Respect to a good counterpoint must be given where it's due. I was wanting one, and you came through for me. Dialog is good when you can sink your teeth into it, and it, into you.

Homestead -> RE: Forced! (9/1/2006 4:11:06 PM)
I have gotten to the point that there is no longer a conflict. I merely realize boundaries. How far those extend is dependent upon my own views, the freedom my partner allows, and those of the society in which I must bide. That is the reality.

onestandingstill -> RE: Forced! (9/1/2006 4:41:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: popeye1250 It'd be very easy for me to do a "Forced" rape scene here. I'd just go down to the "Dew Drop Inn" down the road and get a couple of big Rednecks to come home with me for $20 each and grab the sub/slave and strip her and tie her to the bed while I gag her! And they'd be rough about it too! "Thanks Boys!" MMMMMM as long as I knew it wasn't real. If I thought it was real I'd be pissed.

LotusSong -> RE: Forced! (9/1/2006 4:47:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: onestandingstill MMMMMM as long as I knew it wasn't real. If I thought it was real I'd be pissed. But if it WAS real.. then you'd REALLY be forced...but then that isn't what you would want..because you didn't agree to it to begin with.... and of course "forced" means having given your permission and then.. well.. it's really not forced at all :) (Isn't that a really neat LONG linear thought??"..hmm, could have been a runon sentence....dunno at this point.)

marieToo -> RE: Forced! (9/1/2006 4:52:41 PM)
deleted. Because it was far too revealing of who I am. I must be crazy. this message board stuff is starting to feel like group therapy and its alittle too easy to 'open up' around here. Ok...its over...Im back in control of myself. :)

Homestead -> RE: Forced! (9/1/2006 5:02:32 PM)
But there is very little real intensity in the white picket fence lifestyle. Intensity is when you are stripped rudely of your carefully crafted masks, and watch them ground beneath a boot while you watch in abject horror.. Have your raw and quivering core plunged into the primal mire, and yanked just as rudely back out again, dripping with slime..............And he's still there, and you still have value. And it just went up a notch with him, not down.[;)]

marieToo -> RE: Forced! (9/1/2006 5:19:59 PM)
!!

Homestead -> RE: Forced! (9/1/2006 5:31:34 PM)
As you wish. And marie? I have always "gotten it"........ Practice makes perfect.[;)]

popeye1250 -> RE: Forced! (9/1/2006 5:50:05 PM)
Boy, some of you use a lot of "flowery" abstract language. We're not writing a novella here. Onestanding, for the above scenario, I'd discuss it with the sub first and then say ;"OK within the next 60 days we'll do a rape scene."

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