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RE: D/s: innate or learned? - 9/3/2006 10:21:43 AM

WhippingPostNY

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Yes, but in neither case was it abuse until i found out that society had a label for it, them, and Me.

I think it is one of the thousands of little experiences and thoughts and feelings that have made me into the person I am today.

Whatever the cause, my very soul whispers it's truth to me.

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RE: D/s: innate or learned? - 9/3/2006 10:22:41 AM

Lordandmaster

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No and no.

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ORIGINAL: Bedlam2Night

That said, my question is: do you have any sexual abuse in your history and do you think that may be a contributing reason as to why you are involved in D/s now as an adult?

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RE: D/s: innate or learned? - 9/3/2006 6:08:23 PM

rick19

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I was never abused growing up, I led a pretty much normal and mundane life. Don't know why I'm into kink, don't care, its a part of who I am I guess

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RE: D/s: innate or learned? - 9/4/2006 11:00:20 AM

MysticFireTopaz

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The only sexual abuse I experienced in My childhood was a one-time encounter at a public beach from a total stranger at age 9. Yes, it was traumatic at the time, but I got over it.

My father, while very verbally and emotionally abusive, never abused Me sexually, nor did any other family member.

So I would have to say that the small amount of sexual abuse in My childhood has no bearing at all in My involvement in BDSM.

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