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AAkasha -> RE: pro dommes on here (9/7/2006 9:34:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: naughtynick Lol do you blame me for showing anger by the way women are on here? I have been contacting women on sites such as this for a couple of years. I never used to think this way about about it but now I do. Thats why I have my profile this way. I have approached many women in a polite and respectable manner for a long time and I always get the same result in the end. I either get ignored or just a sorry email because women expect more than just the average looking guy that is not a sleaze. So why cant I be bitter? I get the exact same result as I do when I am nice anyway. Women are bitter to men right from the start, even if the man puts on a kind impression at the start. We are all labeled as potential sleaze or rapist in the first place anyway. Thats bitter within its self. Most men are not good enough for every woman on here, its ridiculous. Thats why you see the same women on here for months or years and they get offers daily or weekly. If a male got offers daily or weekly, he wouldnt stay on this site for long. Women are too picky and it makes us males frustrated. I think the average looking male would feel lucky if he got as much attention as the below average looking female does in here. Do you blame me being bitter? I think women need to change their attitudes in here more than anything not so much men. If females got it how us males have it, they would be complaining more than me. But than again, due to the fact that women have it a lot better than men, they still find something to complain about. But when a male complains, due to the fact that he has it a lot worse than women, women never think it should be justified. I think women would go nuts if they didnt get any attention at all from males. Most males dont get attention at all from sites such as this but we have to live with it. Only the super duper males get attention and the below average looking women still get luck. I think most women in here have too high expectations. I see my self as an average looking guy. I am not ugly but I am not what you call hot. Even average looking women reject the average looking men. Than men lower their standards to get a better chance and the below average looking women even reject the average looking men. I really dont know what the above average looking women expect in here. I think women in here and in any personals site on the net have egos bigger than their brains. Women seem to think just because they have a vagina, their own standard of them self is worth more than someone who doesnt have a vagina. If you are a male in a site such as this, you are practically a second class citizen. Thats what makes me bitter. If only men got treated fair, I wouldnt be bitter the first place. I am sick of bending over backwards and trying to be as nice as I can when I dont get the favor returned. You pretty much put yourself in the "butt awful ugly" category with your attitude. With a better attitude, a great personality and a nice smile, an "average guy" can be incredibly hot to women. Akasha

naughtynick -> RE: pro dommes on here (9/7/2006 9:41:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Owned1 Hmmmm one wonders why certain people cannot find what makes them happy, could it be they are simply unhappy people. In order to find someone you need to have something to offer, nick do you have anything to offer other than your negative thoughts? I dont think they will get you far. Take sometime to relook at what you are seeking, take a trip away from the computer, find some local groups and go and visit people in the flesh. However I would strongly suggest a huge attitude adjustment first. Even reading your profile you come across as very negative. If you apply for a job would your resume read with all the things you cannot/will not do and what expectations you have as to what the job will give you? A well written profile should read the same, positive giving others some insight to the you you are willing to share. Good luck in your search Owned Hey thanks for the advice. But even a positive profile for men does not work. I am bitter because women are bitter to me and men in general in the first place. As I have said. I have approached many women in the past with a polite and positive manner but I get negative feed back at the end. What women need to understand is, its not so much with men who need to change, its women. But all the sleazy men that beg for sex, cyber or meeting need to change also. Women have a a few negative encounters and than blame all men for it. Than when the nice men come along they ignore them anyway. I wouldnt be complaining if only a few women do what I have said but sadly 99 percent of women ignore men on here no matter of they are polite or not and its really sad. My profile was not always like this and my attitude was not always like this. It takes a large majority to change it. I just think women need to look at their own behavior more than only looking at everything men do wrong. Many women seem to think their own shit doesnt smell but these same women have more faults than men.

naughtynick -> RE: pro dommes on here (9/7/2006 9:49:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AAkasha quote: ORIGINAL: naughtynick Lol do you blame me for showing anger by the way women are on here? I have been contacting women on sites such as this for a couple of years. I never used to think this way about about it but now I do. Thats why I have my profile this way. I have approached many women in a polite and respectable manner for a long time and I always get the same result in the end. I either get ignored or just a sorry email because women expect more than just the average looking guy that is not a sleaze. So why cant I be bitter? I get the exact same result as I do when I am nice anyway. Women are bitter to men right from the start, even if the man puts on a kind impression at the start. We are all labeled as potential sleaze or rapist in the first place anyway. Thats bitter within its self. Most men are not good enough for every woman on here, its ridiculous. Thats why you see the same women on here for months or years and they get offers daily or weekly. If a male got offers daily or weekly, he wouldnt stay on this site for long. Women are too picky and it makes us males frustrated. I think the average looking male would feel lucky if he got as much attention as the below average looking female does in here. Do you blame me being bitter? I think women need to change their attitudes in here more than anything not so much men. If females got it how us males have it, they would be complaining more than me. But than again, due to the fact that women have it a lot better than men, they still find something to complain about. But when a male complains, due to the fact that he has it a lot worse than women, women never think it should be justified. I think women would go nuts if they didnt get any attention at all from males. Most males dont get attention at all from sites such as this but we have to live with it. Only the super duper males get attention and the below average looking women still get luck. I think most women in here have too high expectations. I see my self as an average looking guy. I am not ugly but I am not what you call hot. Even average looking women reject the average looking men. Than men lower their standards to get a better chance and the below average looking women even reject the average looking men. I really dont know what the above average looking women expect in here. I think women in here and in any personals site on the net have egos bigger than their brains. Women seem to think just because they have a vagina, their own standard of them self is worth more than someone who doesnt have a vagina. If you are a male in a site such as this, you are practically a second class citizen. Thats what makes me bitter. If only men got treated fair, I wouldnt be bitter the first place. I am sick of bending over backwards and trying to be as nice as I can when I dont get the favor returned. You pretty much put yourself in the "butt awful ugly" category with your attitude. With a better attitude, a great personality and a nice smile, an "average guy" can be incredibly hot to women. Akasha Oh yes and women show a lovely attitude towards men dont they. I just love it when they say that "men only think with thier dicks" "We are all jerks" and all the male bashing threads as for the "No Mistress does not want" thread. rolls eyes

Owned1 -> RE: pro dommes on here (9/7/2006 9:52:12 PM)
Nick, I hear what you are saying however do you realize you have now given all your power and control of your life to those who have treated you poorly. There is something to be said about taking the high road. If someone treats you poorly treat them better, take the high road. You very well might have meet a few of the nasty women, however all women as all men are not evil rotten dogs. Trust me I have kissed many frogs inorder to find my Prince. Yes there are evil women however there are also honest caring compassionate passionate Dominant women everywhere. I would suggest if you are only meeting the nasty ones perhaps it is your bait? Owned

MistressSassy66 -> RE: pro dommes on here (9/7/2006 10:06:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: naughtynick quote: ORIGINAL: Owned1 Hmmmm one wonders why certain people cannot find what makes them happy, could it be they are simply unhappy people. In order to find someone you need to have something to offer, nick do you have anything to offer other than your negative thoughts? I dont think they will get you far. Take sometime to relook at what you are seeking, take a trip away from the computer, find some local groups and go and visit people in the flesh. However I would strongly suggest a huge attitude adjustment first. Even reading your profile you come across as very negative. If you apply for a job would your resume read with all the things you cannot/will not do and what expectations you have as to what the job will give you? A well written profile should read the same, positive giving others some insight to the you you are willing to share. Good luck in your search Owned Hey thanks for the advice. But even a positive profile for men does not work. I am bitter because women are bitter to me and men in general in the first place. As I have said. I have approached many women in the past with a polite and positive manner but I get negative feed back at the end. What women need to understand is, its not so much with men who need to change, its women. But all the sleazy men that beg for sex, cyber or meeting need to change also. Women have a a few negative encounters and than blame all men for it. Than when the nice men come along they ignore them anyway. I wouldnt be complaining if only a few women do what I have said but sadly 99 percent of women ignore men on here no matter of they are polite or not and its really sad. My profile was not always like this and my attitude was not always like this. It takes a large majority to change it. I just think women need to look at their own behavior more than only looking at everything men do wrong. Many women seem to think their own shit doesnt smell but these same women have more faults than men. LOL...dude you are so off about a positive profile. I have met and still have as submissives several men from CM. Check out the POSITIVE MEETINGS section and you will see many people find what they want here. Perhaps if you looked at their profiles you would see what works. BTW....I guess you missed the part I posted about earlier about being raped and NOT judgeing all men on the basis that they are "all" like that.If anyone has a right to judge men I would think a rape victim would be it.But I dont assume that all men are rapists just like I dont assume all Pros are whores/hookers/prostitutes. I wouldnt even say that 99% are like that.I base each person on them not on the others before them.Try it you might find it works.But I know that you wont...its so much better/easier to complain than to fix it. Lots of Luck to ya.

Jasmyn -> RE: pro dommes on here (9/7/2006 10:08:21 PM)
quote: How about getting a real job, you might get respect from people than. You cant be a Pro Domme forever. Once you get all wrinkled and old, how will you be earning money? Oh let me guess the government will be paying you? Too bad you have no proper work experience to keep going. You are pretty much well doomed once your looks go from age. Oh how little you know grasshopper quote: I have no respect for anyone who expects me to pay them for sex or anything sexual related as for BDSM. This should be for free. I think they are sluts,whores, or what ever. Those words only apply to me when a person expects money for sexual pleasures. I dont believe in using the words slut, whore on a woman who sleeps with lots of men for free. I see nothing wrong with that. Now that's your first mistake...to coin a cliche ... nothing in life is free. quote: I think being a prostitute is lower than being unemployed. If someone asked you what do you do for a living, what would sound best? I am a prostitute or I am unemployed? I think I would be more interested in the unemployed woman. Pfft, don't play precious ya sanctimonious fuck... quote: As for what you said about people visit Pro Dommes for experience and not looks. That is garbage to some extent. Yes, people do go for experience but being a Pro Domme, you have no choice of which clients you participate with. If I was looking for Pro Dommes, I would choose the most attractive one because in real life as for dating or relationships, I wouldnt have a chance with the really good looking ones. When you are paying her as a Pro Domme she has no choice but to accept you. I think most men would go for the more pretty looking women because them women have no choice unless you are the type of Pro Domme who actually chooses which men to play with. Come on grasshopper covering ya arse is a lazy way to debate ... on one hand you say a pro dom has no choice, then on the other hand you say a pro dom does have choice ... make up ya mind ...either we have a choice or we don't ... pick a side ... or are you cosy with a fence post up ya bum no babies? I turn down more sessions than I take...primarily because of the attitude they have...go figure..an attitude that is akin to yours. Like I said, please stay on your side of the Tasman.

naughtynick -> RE: pro dommes on here (9/7/2006 10:12:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressSassy66 quote: ORIGINAL: naughtynick quote: ORIGINAL: Owned1 Hmmmm one wonders why certain people cannot find what makes them happy, could it be they are simply unhappy people. In order to find someone you need to have something to offer, nick do you have anything to offer other than your negative thoughts? I dont think they will get you far. Take sometime to relook at what you are seeking, take a trip away from the computer, find some local groups and go and visit people in the flesh. However I would strongly suggest a huge attitude adjustment first. Even reading your profile you come across as very negative. If you apply for a job would your resume read with all the things you cannot/will not do and what expectations you have as to what the job will give you? A well written profile should read the same, positive giving others some insight to the you you are willing to share. Good luck in your search Owned Hey thanks for the advice. But even a positive profile for men does not work. I am bitter because women are bitter to me and men in general in the first place. As I have said. I have approached many women in the past with a polite and positive manner but I get negative feed back at the end. What women need to understand is, its not so much with men who need to change, its women. But all the sleazy men that beg for sex, cyber or meeting need to change also. Women have a a few negative encounters and than blame all men for it. Than when the nice men come along they ignore them anyway. I wouldnt be complaining if only a few women do what I have said but sadly 99 percent of women ignore men on here no matter of they are polite or not and its really sad. My profile was not always like this and my attitude was not always like this. It takes a large majority to change it. I just think women need to look at their own behavior more than only looking at everything men do wrong. Many women seem to think their own shit doesnt smell but these same women have more faults than men. LOL...dude you are so off about a positive profile. I have met and still have as submissives several men from CM. Check out the POSITIVE MEETINGS section and you will see many people find what they want here. Perhaps if you looked at their profiles you would see what works. BTW....I guess you missed the part I posted about earlier about being raped and NOT judgeing all men on the basis that they are "all" like that.If anyone has a right to judge men I would think a rape victim would be it.But I dont assume that all men are rapists just like I dont assume all Pros are whores/hookers/prostitutes. I wouldnt even say that 99% are like that.I base each person on them not on the others before them.Try it you might find it works.But I know that you wont...its so much better/easier to complain than to fix it. Lots of Luck to ya. I feel for you and I am sorry about you being raped. But think about it this way. How many women would sleep in the same room as a man they didnt know and their friends didnt know? How many women would have drinks with a man on a first date? I dont think many would and why? Because men in general are labeled as potential sleaze or rapist. I think thats more negative or bitter upon a whole gender more than anything. Call me a misogynist all you want, its the truth. If you think I am bitter or negative, think about that.

naughtynick -> RE: pro dommes on here (9/7/2006 10:16:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jasmyn quote: How about getting a real job, you might get respect from people than. You cant be a Pro Domme forever. Once you get all wrinkled and old, how will you be earning money? Oh let me guess the government will be paying you? Too bad you have no proper work experience to keep going. You are pretty much well doomed once your looks go from age. Oh how little you know grasshopper quote: I have no respect for anyone who expects me to pay them for sex or anything sexual related as for BDSM. This should be for free. I think they are sluts,whores, or what ever. Those words only apply to me when a person expects money for sexual pleasures. I dont believe in using the words slut, whore on a woman who sleeps with lots of men for free. I see nothing wrong with that. Now that's your first mistake...to coin a cliche ... nothing in life is free. quote: I think being a prostitute is lower than being unemployed. If someone asked you what do you do for a living, what would sound best? I am a prostitute or I am unemployed? I think I would be more interested in the unemployed woman. Pfft, don't play precious ya sanctimonious fuck... quote: As for what you said about people visit Pro Dommes for experience and not looks. That is garbage to some extent. Yes, people do go for experience but being a Pro Domme, you have no choice of which clients you participate with. If I was looking for Pro Dommes, I would choose the most attractive one because in real life as for dating or relationships, I wouldnt have a chance with the really good looking ones. When you are paying her as a Pro Domme she has no choice but to accept you. I think most men would go for the more pretty looking women because them women have no choice unless you are the type of Pro Domme who actually chooses which men to play with. Come on grasshopper covering ya arse is a lazy way to debate ... on one hand you say a pro dom has no choice, then on the other hand you say a pro dom does have choice ... make up ya mind ...either we have a choice or we don't ... pick a side ... or are you cosy with a fence post up ya bum no babies? I turn down more sessions than I take...primarily because of the attitude they have...go figure..an attitude that is akin to yours. Like I said, please stay on your side of the Tasman. How did I say pro dommes have a choice and than say they dont have a choice? what do you mean?

carolsea -> RE: pro dommes on here (9/7/2006 10:21:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: naughtynick quote: As for what you said about people visit Pro Dommes for experience and not looks. That is garbage to some extent. Yes, people do go for experience but being a Pro Domme, you have no choice of which clients you participate with. If I was looking for Pro Dommes, I would choose the most attractive one because in real life as for dating or relationships, I wouldnt have a chance with the really good looking ones. When you are paying her as a Pro Domme she has no choice but to accept you. I think most men would go for the more pretty looking women because them women have no choice unless you are the type of Pro Domme who actually chooses which men to play with. How did I say pro dommes have a choice and than say they dont have a choice? what do you mean? Geez, she quoted it for you, and I copy and paste it here. She even put it in bold for you. Read it one.... more.... time....

MistressSassy66 -> RE: pro dommes on here (9/7/2006 10:27:13 PM)
[/quote] I feel for you and I am sorry about you being raped. But think about it this way. How many women would sleep in the same room as a man they didnt know and their friends didnt know? How many women would have drinks with a man on a first date? I dont think many would and why? Because men in general are labeled as potential sleaze or rapist. I think thats more negative or bitter upon a whole gender more than anything. Call me a misogynist all you want, its the truth. If you think I am bitter or negative, think about that. [/quote] Oh yeah I am so sure you feel for Me...whatever...What are you sorry for you didnt do it.Keep your apologies for yourself you'll need them. I am trying very hard to not think about what is spewing out of that mouth you kiss your Mother with. You sir and I use that term loosely are a sack of crap. The point was that I dont judge others whereas you do.The point was go look at some other profiles and you'll see what works.I dont need or want your pity attitude.Thank goodness I cant reach you from here...I shudder to think what I would do...Blocking out all safety words and as I keep on smacking away.... I wanted to add...any submissive that has the attitude I have to session with them because they are paying...can take a long walk off a short pier.I dont have to do anything I dont want to.Okay where is that f'n block button,I'm gonna be sick [:'(]

naughtynick -> RE: pro dommes on here (9/7/2006 10:27:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: carolsea quote: ORIGINAL: naughtynick quote: As for what you said about people visit Pro Dommes for experience and not looks. That is garbage to some extent. Yes, people do go for experience but being a Pro Domme, you have no choice of which clients you participate with. If I was looking for Pro Dommes, I would choose the most attractive one because in real life as for dating or relationships, I wouldnt have a chance with the really good looking ones. When you are paying her as a Pro Domme she has no choice but to accept you. I think most men would go for the more pretty looking women because them women have no choice unless you are the type of Pro Domme who actually chooses which men to play with. How did I say pro dommes have a choice and than say they dont have a choice? what do you mean? Geez, she quoted it for you, and I copy and paste it here. She even put it in bold for you. Read it one.... more.... time.... In the last highlighted sentence in the quote I used the word ACTUALLY for a reason. I mean it in a way that not many Pro Dommes rule it by who they choose to play with. Most Pro Dommes will play with who ever has the money.

Jasmyn -> RE: pro dommes on here (9/7/2006 10:36:52 PM)
Assumption just makes an arse out of you

naughtynick -> RE: pro dommes on here (9/7/2006 10:42:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressSassy66 I feel for you and I am sorry about you being raped. But think about it this way. How many women would sleep in the same room as a man they didnt know and their friends didnt know? How many women would have drinks with a man on a first date? I dont think many would and why? Because men in general are labeled as potential sleaze or rapist. I think thats more negative or bitter upon a whole gender more than anything. Call me a misogynist all you want, its the truth. If you think I am bitter or negative, think about that. Oh yeah I am so sure you feel for Me...whatever...What are you sorry for you didnt do it.Keep your apologies for yourself you'll need them. I am trying very hard to not think about what is spewing out of that mouth you kiss your Mother with. You sir and I use that term loosely are a sack of crap. The point was that I dont judge others whereas you do.The point was go look at some other profiles and you'll see what works.I dont need or want your pity attitude.Thank goodness I cant reach you from here...I shudder to think what I would do...Blocking out all safety words and as I keep on smacking away.... I wanted to add...any submissive that has the attitude I have to session with them because they are paying...can take a long walk off a short pier.I dont have to do anything I dont want to.Okay where is that f'n block button,I'm gonna be sick [:'(] wow sorry I made you that angry, even that you think my "sorrys" are not meaningful. I am just simply telling my view. Nothing wrong with freedom of speech. I have nothing against you and even what you said to me just than, I dont really care. I wont hate you for it as you think I hate women which I dont. I wouldnt love my mother if I did and I wouldnt want to be around women if I did. Peace

Jasmyn -> RE: pro dommes on here (9/7/2006 11:02:28 PM)
quote: In the last highlighted sentence in the quote I used the word ACTUALLY for a reason. I mean it in a way that not many Pro Dommes rule it by who they choose to play with. Most Pro Dommes will play with who ever has the money There you go again grasshopper making assumptions based on what little you know ... you've already told us you have seen one pro dom in your life ... everything else you had to say about pro doms after that admission became a moot point.... you do not know anything about pro doms ... you know something about ONE pro dom...and not a very good one at that given you also admitted it was a waste of your money. Now to address something else you said ... quote: If I was looking for Pro Dommes, I would choose the most attractive one because in real life as for dating or relationships, I wouldnt have a chance with the really good looking ones. Just because you would go for the most attractive pro dom you could find for the reasons given, doesn't mean every male who ever wishes to see a pro dom will do so from the same thinking. A great deal of clients come to us because we are fucking good at what we do. If you think looks is all it takes then you'll only have yourself to blame when it all turns to poos.

Jasmyn -> RE: pro dommes on here (9/7/2006 11:07:19 PM)
As does every male who falls over his tongue to message a chick who is young, nubile and looks hot in fetish ... you guys are doing it to yourselves ... yet ya'll come and bitch on these threads about how these big mean doms aren't falling over themselves to let you submit to them unless you cross their palms with silver. Your first mistake is thinking they are dominants, your second mistake is thinking they are in the same league as fem doms who run professional dungeons.

orfunboi -> RE: pro dommes on here (9/8/2006 3:23:45 AM)
There is something i think your missing here. No one cares why you are such a bitter and angry little boy. No one wants to fix what ever the last women in your life broke. You want to pout and whine and hate pros....knock your little socks off. Just don't be surprised when people don't want anything to do with you, because your such a bitter, angry little boy. Maybe one day you will grow up, but from your posts, its gonna take some time.

orfunboi -> RE: pro dommes on here (9/8/2006 3:33:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HBGMaleSub A Question: Why can't there be one, JUST ONE, D/s personals site on the internet that is not infested with these "Pro Dommes"? "Infested" is the only word I can use to describe the situation with D/s personals and "Pro Dommes". i guess the same reason we can't find a site without whining, moaning, pissy little boys who have no clue what they are talking about, but claim to be experts on pros and women in general. Amazingly enough these boys have almost always just joined collar me, never made a post and if i read their profiles right, have never actually met anyone in the real world, but like to wank to internet fantasies. From their constant bitching and moaning, i would think that they would have nothing to worry about from a pro, as i doubt any women would put up with that, even for a lot of cash. Maybe if you guys got together, you could hold a pitty party for yourselves and rehash how the females of the world are evil and how pathetic you are.

orfunboi -> RE: pro dommes on here (9/8/2006 3:52:17 AM)
"Saying things like "all men think with their dicks", or "all men are jerks is not exactly what men want to hear but I hear it day in and day out. " If it is really true that you hear women say this day in and day out, you might want to consider that they are not talking about "all men" and they really just mean you....after all, your posts do seem to imply that your main goal is that all powerfull pussy and how you can't seem to get near one.

MissyRane -> RE: pro dommes on here (9/8/2006 3:54:09 AM)
One thing is for sure Nick..you lead incredibly sad&bitter life. You ARE ...pretty much pathetic.. and even though you state yourself as a switch, I can't possibly BELIEVE that you will EVER be able to submit to a woman so why don't you just put your switch up to a dominant..or just a plain vanilla because I can't believe anybody would like to submit to you and your attitude...but then there're strange people in this world..[8\|]

MstrssPassion -> RE: pro dommes on here (9/8/2006 6:25:35 AM)
ahhhh... gotcha there Most of the people on here tell the whining women to stuff a sock in it as well... not just the submissive ones, we'll give it to the dominant one's as well. For Christ's sake... if you put a 1/4 of the energy into positive attempts to find a compatible partner as you put into trashing all those you don't match up with... There's no point in this conversation... you've made up your mind... here's one last serenade on the world's tiniest violin playing "My Heart Bleeds Purple Piss For YOU" [sm=boohoo.gif] Your beyond damaged goods Nick... time to move on to new pursuits because the negativity within you is going to devour your soul to the point that you will despise yourself... not just the women you feel have wronged you.

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