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RE: Desire for Sex - 3/7/2005 10:32:00 AM

ravenna

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i'll have to preface this post by saying different strokes, takes all kinds, live and let live, do your own thing, celebrate diversity, etc., and i am totally on the side of living your life any way you please, or your owner pleases, if you're owned, BUT i just gotta say...

Say what??!! Many of these posts have caused widespread puzzlement and perplexity on Planet Ravenna, population one slavegirl, two masters. For the life of us, my owners and i are utterly baffled why anyone would want to own a slave and not use him/her/it for sex, and in turn why anyone would want to be a slave and not be used for sex. Sure, there's yard work, back rubs and pot scrubbing to be done, but owning a fuckable woman and then not fucking her strikes the three of us as about as mysterious as someone who doesn't drive owning a fast car, or someone who doesn't ride owning a horse. Sure, the horse is also decorative, but for God's sake, saddle up the poor filly once in a while and give her the spurs, you'll both be glad you did! My master Michelangelo says if all he wanted was complete adoration and obedience without sex he'd get a Labrador retriever, because dogs are "less high-maintenance than slavegirls and much easier to train." (Maybe so, Sir, but real dogs don't do doggy like this bitch does doggy... ;)

Anyway, carry on, whatever makes other slaves and masters/mistresses happy makes me happy too, but i just had to raise my little paw and say, sorry, i don't get it...

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RE: Desire for Sex - 3/7/2005 11:14:50 AM

BlouLady

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I'm like a lot of others where I can take it or leave it. Penetration is ALWAYS a good thing although for me not nessasarily penis 2 vagina. I actually prefer what comes before sex as to the actual act itself. My Sir is very good in bed, but my needs would be met without it._------Lady

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RE: Desire for Sex - 3/7/2005 11:44:56 AM

Sundew02

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I enjoy all touch and touching, hearing the moans and the groans. As a Dominant when I seek a submissive or a slave, I seek male. If I did not want to use a penis for more than CBT I would seek a female. As a male would expect to receive all my skills so I expect to have use of all of his. I am always asked for a picture to "see if we would match"??? What difference would it make if fred wasn't interested in getting hard? And just a thought why do you think a penis gets hard? Because we are sexual beings designed to fit together. For me it is like reading a book that skims the surface of life, one or two dimensional does not hold my interest for long. Life is to live to the fullest not pick out a few interesting parts, then regret the loss of the whole when the day is done. This of course is my opinion, why would I post someone else's?? Sundew

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RE: Desire for Sex - 3/8/2005 11:46:11 AM

songbird26

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It really does take a million different kinds of folks to keep the world going 'round!

I can honestly take or leave intercourse proper (penis in vagina/anus) in terms of pleasure. I don't crave it, don't get all het up about it on a physical level. Heck, I've gone without it for years at a time and honestly not even missed it. But in a submissive relationship, I think I might be hurt if my dominant didn't use me in that way, if he wanted to...the penetration is all about submission for me and brings me satisfaction and even joy that has nothing to do with the physical. Also, since submission is so strongly linked to my sexuality, I find pleasure and even some arousal in being penetrated that I never experienced during vanilla intercourse. Is it orgasmic? Only in my brain. *grin*

But, yes, if for some reason my dominant didn't want to/was unable to have actual intercourse, I wouldn't miss it much on a physical level, as long as I knew he was taking his pleasure from my body (sexually) in whatever way he found best.

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