WhipTheHip
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Here is the reason, I asked these questions
> I wonder how many females into bdsm are tomboys,
I like tomboys, and can really only see myself in a
long term relationship with a tomboy. When I was
child, I had a crush on a cousin who was very
tomboyish.
> who don't mind working on cars and fixing air
> conditioners? . . . Do you do your own electrical
> wiring and your own drywall?
I can't stand working alone, and love working with
a partner. With a partner, I can make work playful
and entertaining. I can't do it if I'm alone. I want
a partner who will help me do everything. I fix
everything. I build everything. I invent all kinds
of things. I do everything. I want a partner who
also enjoys doing everything, who enjoys learning
everything, and will let me teach her all I know.
I like to share all my knowledge with others, and
someday hope to teach my children everything
I know.
> Do you like camping? Are you afraid of bugs?
I am a lot like Stever Irwin. I love the outdoors.
Few of the females I have met in life like nature
or the outdoors. They can't stand temperature
extremes. They can't stand bugs. They are
allergic to everything. And they like to always
be comfortable. I think you have to be a little
bit of a masochist to like the great outdoors.
The temperature extremes can be invigorating,
stimulating, and challenging.
There are a lot of bdsm activities that can
be done outdoors, like having a sub run
naked through the snow, or roll in the snow
up north, or get tied to a tree or between
trees on a deserted Island.
> Do you like science fiction?
I'd love to find a female who liked science fiction,
the Twilight Zone, Farscape, Stargate, the Learning
Channel, the Discovery Channel, the History Channel,
and the Cooking Channel. I am a gourmet
pesco-vegetarian chef.
> How many females into bdsm are vegetarians?
I am a pesco-vegetarian because of my moral
beliefs, and because I find eating flesh, blood,
sinews, gristle, eyeballs, bones, bone marrow,
liver, tongue, and brains barbaric and canabalistic.
I am reminded of a scene in the movie, The Dark
Crystal where the evil vultures eat a disgusting
meal of animal parts.
> How many females into bdsm are commitmented to
> rescuing animals, helping orphans, and all humans
> in need of help?
I need to find a partner who is commited to rescuing
animals and helping people, who will aid me in this
pursuit.
> How many females into bdsm are bi?
My first relationship was with two strictly gay
females who hated men. Eva was a beautiful
19 year old lipstick fem who was a stripper.
(A lot of strippers are lesbians.) Her lover,
Stephanie was super butch. They both fell
in love with me. How this happened is a long
story, but the three of us lived together. Up
to this point in my life, I had never dated a
female, had never been with a female, and
had lived the most sheltered life one can
imagine. In fact, I had just left the equivalent
of a monestary.
Eva and Stephanie were younger than me.
I have spent a lot time with gay females in
my life, and have gotten along better with
many of them than most straight women.
There was a time in my life when I was attracted
to Dommes, but I quickly realized that I am too
dominant to be in a long term relationship with
partner who always needs to be dominant. I
need to be in control, but I exercise my control
very gently and with great sensitivity. I guess
you could say, I am kind of a Daddy Dom,
but I don't know if even that is very accurate.
I managed a hotel, and had a gay, female
assistant manager who called herself "Butch."
We worked closely together for years, day
and night. Even though, I was her employer,
I never treated her like an employee, but
rather like a friend and equal. I often went
out of my way to serve her needs and make
her happy, but I was always in charge. She
loved working for me and was super loyal.
She had been sexually abused by her
father, and told me, "If you can't trust your
own father, what man can you trust?" She
hated men and distrusted all men. I was
very sympathetic to her situation, and gave
her a lot of comfort and understanding.
I never showed a romantic interest in her.
I always treated her with respect. She
dressed like a guy and acted like guy.
Then one day, she showed up in my
apartment wearing a dress and lipstick,
and made a play for me. I freaked out.
I never thought of her as a female or
a possible romantic interest. When
I freaked, she felt very hurt and went
back to her old self.
As time passed, I realized I had made
a mistake, that we might have made a
good couple. It just took some time for
me to adjust my perception of her.
I think a household with three people
can do more than household with two.
Three can eat as cheaply as one.
There is just so much to do in life.
With three people pitching in and
working together, things go a lot
easier. As they say, three heads
are better than one.
Cheers,
Michael
My passions include: Nature, wildlife
photography, science, camping, biking,
hiking, parks, picnics, boating, chess,
Scrabble, business ventures, gourrmet
vegetarian cooking, fixing-building-repairing,
inventing, rescuing animals in distress,
trading stock and future's contracts,
helping people, and making friends with
stray alligators.
< Message edited by WhipTheHip -- 9/13/2006 9:49:14 PM >
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For the first, I can be tense and a bit bitchy if the light is fading or it's raining and we're (and I use that term loosely) putting up the tent. For the latter, the glass is always half full, unless I'm deeply depressed for some reason. That rarely happens for me. When it does I take steps to kick it off so I won't waste precious time. 
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