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ORIGINAL: naughtynick

Men get ignored by most women in here. Why do you expect men to be truthful and be polite to you? Ignoring someone is not being respectful and polite, so why expect men to be respectful and polite and honest when all women in here just ignore men anyway? No matter how a man approaches it, a man can be polite all he wants and he still gets ignored. How about the women in here make fake profiles being a man and see how it goes?

I don't agree here.  I don't think men get ignored by most women.  I used to reply to every single email I received...either an interested response or a no thanks.  If it was interested, we'd chat or whatever until we found we were or were not compatible and go from there.  The ones I said no thanks to...a few (a very few mind you) were very nice, polite and said thanks for responding.  The majority, however, would send back a why not email and try and engage me in conversation.  Now, I already took my time to say no (in a nice way) and I'm getting barraged with, very often, rude, nasty emails in reply.  "You don't know what you're missing" and much, much worse.  Or I'll get those who argue that I should give the person a chance when I have already clearly read that person's profile and there's no way in hell we're compatible.  Perhaps, I prefer older or younger men and I believe that's a choice I am entitled to...I get really nasty ones saying that I'm not a true sub or whatever.

At least for me, that's the reason I don't respond to all emails any longer.  Why should I suffer abuse because the guy who contacted me is a jerk? 

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ORIGINAL: naughtynick

Hating? No, its just telling the truth of HOW ITS LIKE FOR MEN. I am sorry if you think it's hating the pussy. When ever a man says how hard it is for his gender, it seems to be hating the pussy for many women. It gets tiring. If thats how women want it, I guess its fair to say all feminist are men haters, hows that?  I just wish women looked at their own behavior, which they never do.

I wouldn't want to be around women if I hated them. I just ask for fairness.

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ORIGINAL: GoddessDustyGold

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ORIGINAL: naughtynick

Hating? No, its just telling the truth of HOW ITS LIKE FOR MEN. I am sorry if you think it's hating the pussy. When ever a man says how hard it is for his gender, it seems to be hating the pussy for many women. It gets tiring. If thats how women want it, I guess its fair to say all feminist are men haters, hows that?  I just wish women looked at their own behavior, which they never do.

I wouldn't want to be around women if I hated them. I just ask for fairness.

Here we go again with the Blame Game.
Oh nick, nick, nick...
When you are discussing these things with Women who are involved in or interested in full Power Exchange relationships, it simply does not apply.  Maybe you need to look at who you are contacting?  I know for a fact that you would never, ever be the boy for Me.  You are a bottom, plain and simple.  And that is alright!
But I look for something much more involved that some kinky play in the bedroom (you bottom, Me top!) and then afterwards fetching you a beer while you watch the game.
The minute a boy says to Me "that's not fair", I show them the door.  As M said, life in general is not fair.  But a TPE relationship is definitely not fair from the viewpoint of anyone peeking in. 
You need to get off this rant.  It is getting old, and you are not making any points.  Trust Me!
Back on topic...boys who have more than one profile (and they are both active), will simply be questioned, if caught, that is.  If they are willing to be straight because they hope their profile will be seen by Ladies who put that in a search criteria, but they are also willing to be Bi, and hope that Ladies will see that in a search criteria, they may be able to explain very well.  The main concern is that boys who may truly desire bisexual experiences to be included in a D/s or M/s relationship could run into probelms by denying that they have this desire in order to get involved with a Lady who does not enjoy or allow any m/m play. 
It is so much easier to be honest.  If you are straight but willing to be with a man for your Domina's amusement, say so in your profile text, or say so in introduction or conversation.  If you are not, same thing.  Just say so.  If you are bi and have bi needs, just say so!  By the same token, many of these boys will write to anyone with a vagina (just like you are saying, nick!)  and just try to claim that they are exactly what the Lady is seeking. 
Guess what!  We will figure it out.  And it usually doesn't take that long!  And then everyone feels like they have wasted time.  None can or should try to be what they are not.  It is just a set up for failure.
So why play the game?
According to the book of nick, I guess it is because that is the only way they can possibly get any attention. 

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ORIGINAL: naughtynick

that's why you don't get women making up huge whoppers to get in our pants...

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ORIGINAL: naughtynick

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ORIGINAL: MisPandora

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ORIGINAL: naughtynick

Practically in sites such as this and any personals site, women have it all. No matter if she's a Domme or sub. They get everything they want and this is what causes males to lie their asses off to get female attention. It takes a lot for a male to get a woman interested while it takes little to nothing from a woman to get a male interested. She just has to be simply a woman and she is in luck. I dont think there would be a need for these types of lies if men got treated equally the same. Who do you blame?

Of course, it's OUR fault that men lie and create two profiles.  What's next in the blame game?

My other post was not directed at you as I said, but I have to say that it is partly women's fault because of women's expectations in here. It takes a very large amount of women with picky expectations for males to act this way in the first place.  Most males dont fit the criteria to what most women want in here, thats the thing. Women expect too much. Many women expect the impossible. There is no Brad Pitt or Fabio in here. And dont expect every male to surrender his whole precious life to you just because you own a pussy.

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ORIGINAL: naughtynick

Men get ignored by most women in here. Why do you expect men to be truthful and be polite to you? Ignoring someone is not being respectful and polite, so why expect men to be respectful and polite and honest when all women in here just ignore men anyway? No matter how a man approaches it, a man can be polite all he wants and he still gets ignored. How about the women in here make fake profiles being a man and see how it goes?

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ORIGINAL: peterK50
I only have one profile & it says "bisexual". Actually, I don't know if I'm bisexual or not, & I don't care. I never pick up guys, I never feel attracted to men outside of a D/s situation. I will submit to men & put bisexual in my profile to show I am a "full-service slave". There is no conspiracy

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ORIGINAL: undergroundsea

While the obvious reason may be underhanded, I think another possibility exists.
The matter about sexuality may be gray rather than black or white for some people.

For instance, one may be bisexual but fall closer to the het end of the Kinsey scale (an idea proposed by sex researcher Kinsey which suggests there is a continuum between complete heterosexuality at one end and complete homosexuality at the other end). So one may be open to bisexual experiences but can live without them.

Another way the matter can be gray is if one is heterosexual with respect to intimacy and conventional sex, but is bisexual with respect to submission outside of intimacy and sex.

Neither of these persons can convey this information within the fixed choices in the orientation category. These persons may not want to be excluded from searches or cursory glances that are based on the orientation response.

It may be relevant to consider why people prefer heterosexual partners only. I imagine reasons include commonality, concerns about play outside a relationship, concerns about safe sex, more. I can imagine someone who is bisexual and can allow their partner to be free of these concerns. Such a person may want to avoid the search filter to see if the bisexuality or being open to bisexuality is truly a dealbreaker.

If a person does have two profiles for this reason, I think it would be best for that person to clarify this reason in the profile text to ease any concerns about deception.

Cheers,

Sea

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ORIGINAL: mons

greetings to all
 
i have many submissive write me and state they are looking for a domme who all of the thing strict etc, then when i read their profile they have bisexual on it. they do not place this in their letter ever. i found this to be dishonest i do not want a bi male for a slave i do not want to punish them, ( and they want this ) by making them suck on some other male.
they also ask if i have another slave so they think i will make them suck on this male.
 
i do find this dishonest if they want someone who is willing to let them be who they are then say it i am bisexual and dlooking for a domme who is like minded.
 
not writing without telling what they truly are i have nothing agiast bysexual people it is only if they do not mention what they want
 
with respect to all mons

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ORIGINAL: mons

greetings to all
 
i have many submissive write me and state they are looking for a domme who all of the thing strict etc, then when i read their profile they have bisexual on it. they do not place this in their letter ever. i found this to be dishonest i do not want a bi male for a slave i do not want to punish them, ( and they want this ) by making them suck on some other male.
they also ask if i have another slave so they think i will make them suck on this male.
 
i do find this dishonest if they want someone who is willing to let them be who they are then say it i am bisexual and dlooking for a domme who is like minded.
 
not writing without telling what they truly are i have nothing agiast bysexual people it is only if they do not mention what they want
 
with respect to all mons

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ORIGINAL: naughtynick
I wouldn't want to be around women if I hated them. I just ask for fairness.

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ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle

Life is inherently unfair.  You can do one of two things about it.  You can whine about it, like a small child or a Democrat, or you can learn to live with it and make the most of it.

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I wonder what is the motivation for doing this?