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RE: 46 emails in one night what in the world is wrong w... - 9/13/2006 7:05:11 PM   
mons


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thank you for answer i did tell him not to write and he said jeuse christ read them like i did not know what i was talking about. he is nuts i just think wiritng me about mental pateint who when beaten were cure ok does this get anyone attetion mental pateint i think he may had spoken of himself this is a little scary i glad he does not know where i live i would faint then beat him lol a joke lol but not it took me 5 mintues that how many email it was ii stop counting no one even get jealous this is not attention i want i am dyslexic so my post spelling was so wrong but you all underdstood. thank for you emotional help. and i did tell him it bother me he did not listen. wow ok no more letters so ok i will be ok thanks to on here kisses to you all  mons

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RE: 46 emails in one night what in the world is wrong w... - 9/13/2006 7:07:04 PM   
mons


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thank you and a true dominant will not ask you to write something so long

:)mons take care

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RE: 46 emails in one night what in the world is wrong w... - 9/13/2006 7:10:01 PM   
MistressWolfen


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Status: offline 		sounds a right nutter Mons...delete and block

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RE: 46 emails in one night what in the world is wrong w... - 9/13/2006 7:13:51 PM   
TotalitarianFL


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Status: offline 		Marry him as soon as possible... you have run across a true master of comedy.

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RE: 46 emails in one night what in the world is wrong w... - 9/13/2006 7:15:50 PM   
porcelaine


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ORIGINAL: mons

greetings porcilain
 
oh i wish they had been of the same subject each one was as crazy as can be one after another each one with a different suject and he was mad i did not asnwer them in the order they were given. the last straw was i ppick one out of the batch and it has about mental patient and how beating was helping them ok i had it i delete all of his mail block him i think he was ill i never had this happen before. when he said he was blackmailed i should had know something. he needs help this is so strange he wrote me things about how and why slaves are slavel with a display wow i was like no more my kindness is taken for weakness and i am not that oh yes it had to be something very wrong there
 
thanks for repying
 
mons


I was just kidding. He has obviously come undone and given you an early warning about his mental state of being. Consider yourself lucky for the time and aggravation saved.

porcelaine

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RE: 46 emails in one night what in the world is wrong w... - 9/13/2006 8:54:36 PM   
Aubre


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Status: offline 		That's true, you'd be worse off if he sounded reasonable and rational and didn't show his craziness until you met him in person.

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RE: 46 emails in one night what in the world is wrong w... - 9/13/2006 10:26:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		mons sweet, you did good lass you did good..... 

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RE: 46 emails in one night what in the world is wrong w... - 9/13/2006 11:21:36 PM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		Recently, like today as a matter of fact, I received my forth email from the same person over the last few weeks

First email,  he told me my Daddy was a lucky guy (not unusual and I ignored and erased it)

Second email, asked me how I was doing

Third email, asked again how I was doing

I responded "I am taken, please do not email me again"

He emails me back and more or less claims innocent good intentions and accuses me of being "angry"

I respond once more, "I am not angry, I am taken, and it is considered disrespectful to approach one like myself, especially when my profile gives my dominants name and the fact I do not welcome emails"

He responds back with protestations of innocence and veiled insults, such as that he is more intelligent than my Daddy and me, so we had better watch out (I know... that is weird)

So I emailed this to my Daddy because he does not like me to block people....

Some people in this world are just weird/

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RE: 46 emails in one night what in the world is wrong w... - 9/14/2006 12:23:27 AM   
cynthiamarie


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thank you for answer i did tell him not to write and he said jeuse christ read them like i did not know what i was talking about.

Interesting courtship behavior.  

Mons, I've talked with men here who have told me they like to get drunk and come here to bait Dommes.  Some have come here doing research papers.  Some are just angry at the world and are looking for a target.

Your instincts are telling you to run...that is the important thing.  You don't owe anyone your time or attention, especially if they're going to be that rude.

quote:

quote "he was mad i did not asnwer them"  Ridiculous.. your the dominant. he's there to please you. he's having a tantrum and craves attention.. do the sadistic thing and deny him the pleasure.. and/or take charge of the situation and tell him what appropriate behavior is and what's not.

zero, I'm not going to bash you over the head for that, because in a way it's right for some...the man is trying to court a dominant female, and he's trying to do it by leading her around by the nose and bashing her upside the head with verbal abuse if she doesn't do what he says, when he says it.  (He doesn't own her yet, rofl.  Yes, that was sarcasm.  )

Back to my two cents on another issue:
She doesn't have to be nice and try to train him to have better manners, or more patience.  If he doesn't appeal to her, or sends up red flags, a simple goodbye is fine.  If he cussed at her or lost his temper, and especially on such short acquaintence, he should be expecting to be blocked or ignored. 

Maybe the person will learn from this and ask one question per chat...yanno, have a conversation instead of essay and test/correction/punishment time.


 

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RE: 46 emails in one night what in the world is wrong w... - 9/14/2006 2:29:25 AM   
Sirandlittle1


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Status: offline 		Your not his domme, you have blocked him, you answered your own question of what is wrong with him with you hypothesis that he's crazy, can you explain where the problem lies? Coz i dont see one

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RE: 46 emails in one night what in the world is wrong w... - 9/14/2006 3:49:16 AM   
MisPandora


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Status: offline 		46 emails?  That's nonsense.  He'd have been blocked after the first warning shot that was fired above his head. 

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RE: 46 emails in one night what in the world is wrong w... - 9/14/2006 7:44:58 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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ORIGINAL: TotalitarianFL

Marry him as soon as possible... you have run across a true master of comedy.
I am finding you rather comedic as well should I marry you?..Maybe have my own male harem with you as my favorite eunuch......Tempting

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RE: 46 emails in one night what in the world is wrong w... - 9/15/2006 4:10:46 PM   
mons


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thank you for answering but i hate to say and i am so lucky he does not know where i live but he is back he has someone write to me to reopen neggotioans with him and get this think on i can not believe it what did i do lol to get a case like him he is writing to unblock him and oh shit bear thank you i am a domme but i am a shy person but strong but anyone would get frighten of somthing like this so what in the world he had not profile at all i thought everyone who can here needed a rpofile ? i never seen anyone without one ok so now just letting all know he'sssssssssssssssssss back
 
thank you all for all advice given to me when i am nerouvs my dyslexic acts up bad
 
mons

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RE: 46 emails in one night what in the world is wrong w... - 9/16/2006 12:13:51 AM   
mons


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i have block him and now i am glad and thank god i did not get to know him
 
mons

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RE: 46 emails in one night what in the world is wrong w... - 9/16/2006 12:42:48 AM   
Marc2b


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Status: offline 		Do you know if this was the first time he ever contacted a Domme?  I get the impression that this was the first time he ever let a dominant woman know about his feelings and it all just came pouring out.  By way of anology, he is like a fourteen year old boy who's about to get laid the first time.  He's desperate to make a good impression but really nervous and really, REALLY, hyped up about it.  In other words, I think he was suffering from the mental equivalent of premature ejaculation.

If he makes you nervous, though, then you did the right thing by blocking him.

quote:


Mons, I've talked with men here who have told me they like to get drunk and come here to bait Dommes.  Some have come here doing research papers.  Some are just angry at the world and are looking for a target. 


I'm willing to bet that some of such men are the BDSM equivalent of some closeted gay men who, raised in a macho culture, cannot accept their homosexuality and are really pissed off about it.  So they lash out at the object of their desire which is also the object of their anger.  It is a sad but true fact that some of the worst gay bashers are themselves closeted gays.  Anyway, I'm wondering if some of these Domme baiters are, in fact, not closeted sub males.  Just a thought.

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RE: 46 emails in one night what in the world is wrong w... - 9/16/2006 12:54:26 AM   
freex


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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

quote:

ORIGINAL: zero69u2

quote "he was mad i did not asnwer them"  Ridiculous.. your the dominant. he's there to please you. he's having a tantrum and craves attention.. do the sadistic thing and deny him the pleasure.. and/or take charge of the situation and tell him what appropriate behavior is and what's not.
If you have'nt responded and he's sent 3 emails. that's all he is allowed per day.

You blocked him.. that's a good response. but it really does'nt stop what he'll do to the next dominant and the tantrum continues.





Im a submissive and if a dominant got mad at me for not emailing him back before we ever even met... well he could like it or lump it since I do not know him. And a submissive does not exist to please random dominants over the internet...I just thought I would point that out.




aye, I agree. If im chatting someone up and they say they need to "reboot" or what ever and dont come back so be it. I will send a short message if i have there email or im stating that hey if you want to continue this later then feel free to contact me. Thats it over, if i dont get a message back fine they simply dident like what i had to say. Maybe i ask to many questions, or maybe they dont like my style of feeling everyone is diffirent and will need to be handeled diffirently. What ever, its all up to them, now if i have been conversing for some time and then i dont hear from them i will send a message saying somehting like this: Hello, how are you, havent heard from you. arte you ok hope you are. If you dont wanna talk anymore cool, that fine but let me know so i dont worry. hope all is well. If they never message me back they are either dead or simply they personaly feel or have been involved with too many psychos to realize im straight up and dont mind if they dont wanna talk or dont like my views.

No matter, when it comes to someone who messages you like this you should stop them early on. Give them the floor by letting them know its too much and you dont like that at this point. Early indicatiors are things you need to watch see how they react and you will know to cut it off then or not.

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RE: 46 emails in one night what in the world is wrong w... - 9/16/2006 12:58:17 AM   
michaelGA2


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Status: offline 		i would totally be shocked if i logged on and found 46 emails waiting for me...even if it came from one person or not...LOL

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RE: 46 emails in one night what in the world is wrong w... - 9/16/2006 1:02:34 AM   
DigitBox


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Status: offline 		Interesting.

Someone recently did something similar on a Craig's List forum.

Maybe it's contageous. *shrug*

Anyhow. I always give people a chance to be civilized and then if they don't then I apply some control and restraint of my own. Best thing to do is when someone goes mental like that is to delete the junk, tell him to ease up, and if he keeps it up then block him.


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RE: 46 emails in one night what in the world is wrong w... - 9/16/2006 5:04:32 AM   
sweetnurseBBW


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Status: offline 		There are definatley some weird ones out there. I just delete and move on. If persistant and they get nasty I block and report them. I guess they let them use computers in the mental institutions.

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RE: 46 emails in one night what in the world is wrong w... - 9/17/2006 2:34:20 AM   
mons


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Status: offline 		greeting s to all
 
marc2b your right i do and always have been kind to all who write me i give each a chance i only have meant my slave online my way of telling if something is wrong is when they write to me i have a abitily to sense danger and it is strnage and wierd i talk to people and suddenly my firg open things start to fall and i know something is wrong i stop speaking and it come to be true they become wierd and writng violent things this has word for me for many years . this is something i think i have written about before i live in an apartment and i use to leave my door unlocked i was sitting there on my sofa and a voice or something said " locked the door" i jump up and ran to my door to lock it i sit down and did not think of it and not more then 5 minutes a man came running full speed into my door he hit it so hard he left a body print on it had i not lock that door i may not be her tthis day . i am also a twin we both have this kind of this happen many times we and in the black comummitny of old my mother said we were born with a veil on our faces this meant we would be able to see many tthings and i tell you i seen it all scary but now as an adult i learn how to help others so this person first email was written strange i felt prpolbem and now he has someone writing me and asking to please let him back and to unblock him i feel no danger from him but he is unstable and i do not need this right now at all. i have so many time when we my twin and i have felt and sense danger we move out of it will fast. i was washing my bathroom i had my back turn and i heard a man voice say hello jane i ran out od my place and then i came back and said " you have scareme you most go" never happen again. so this is how i know who is ok and who is a nut, i sense you a very kind strong man it is nice of you to wirte.
i want everyone who read this to know it is true i been writing here and i do not make up things so i sense who is good and many here are great .
 
thank you for writing and to all thanks so
 
mons

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