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RE: Self image when submitting to Master/Mistress - 9/20/2006 7:03:31 AM

MsEmma

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It takes a very strong person to submit. A weak person CANNOT do this. It has nothing to do with being worthless. Humiliation plays a big part in submission, but its a mind game. Subs need to be reassured of their worth, and know that its all play in a scene. But the submissive has to have a confident self image.

I need that person in my life to be my rock and my strength. An extension of myself to make my life easier. A good submissive is the most cherished thing. Its a power exchange, and the submissive holds all that power. They decide who and when to give it. Many dominants forget this. So many people mistake submission as a sign of weakness. And that couldnt be further from the truth.

~Emma

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RE: Self image when submitting to Master/Mistress - 9/20/2006 1:14:47 PM

Sphinxe

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Ok granted I am a newer sub. I can tell you I for one have never felt any feelings of worthlessness when submiting to my master. I mean I do feel absolutly horrible when I fail him but I try my best and that's what he asks of me so I love every moment we have together. So when I submit I am very happy and gratified to say the very least.

If it's just a mindset of slaves that you are looking for than I can say in my experience that when I was once close to depression that submiting to somone was the farthest thing from my mind It was only long after I had built myself up and grown to appreciate myself for who I am that I discovered my submissive nature. Granted I have to trust somone before I can submit but I do become quite attached and while I wouldn't say slave are needy exactly I think we bring the other piece to a relationship that we are needed by our masters as they need us. But these are my expieriences so chose to skip over anything you'd like.

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RE: Self image when submitting to Master/Mistress - 9/20/2006 7:59:11 PM

Frank01

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Bullshit, that it takes a very strong person to submit. A total doormat can do it easily.

What it really comes down to, is this. Do the perceptions of worth MATCH?

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