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eyesopened -> RE: CollarMe going downhill (9/17/2006 9:29:21 AM)

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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

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ORIGINAL: eyesopened

does whining about whiners cancel out each other so there's no more whining?  Just wondering, not whining.


well... remembering my math

a negative plus a negative... still equates to a negative

a positive plus a positive ... equates to a positive

a postive plus a negative .. will equate to a positive only if the postive is bigger than the negative else it stays a negative


so... whining about whiners (negative) plus the whiners (negative)  still equates to a bunch of whiners (negative)


So if that is true, and an op posts their rant about drama, and then are told the very post is contributing to the drama, is that post not a rant, meaning does it not also add to the drama?  At what point does the drama end and the comedy begin?



BrutalAntipathy -> RE: CollarMe going downhill (9/17/2006 9:33:22 AM)

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ORIGINAL: eyesopened


So if that is true, and an op posts their rant about drama, and then are told the very post is contributing to the drama, is that post not a rant, meaning does it not also add to the drama?  At what point does the drama end and the comedy begin?

At 7:15 PM, central standard time, except on Fridays when it begins at 5:01Pm, CST.



Lordandmaster -> RE: CollarMe going downhill (9/17/2006 9:38:42 AM)

Gimme a P!  Gimme an A!  Gimme an R!  Gimme an A!  Gimme a D!  Gimme an O!  Gimme an X!

What's it spell?

I don't know, I'm a dumass.

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ORIGINAL: CoureW78

No one felt they had a corner on what the lifestyle was. 

[snip]

This site is not supposed to be for those looking just for quick, easy, kinky sex and looking for an easily manipulated sub to get it from.  This site is not to be a place for drama or pompous self egotisim.  This stie is to be a haven for those in the life to come to and meet others in it.  It is supposed to be a family.



MrMister -> RE: CollarMe going downhill (9/17/2006 10:13:44 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

quote:

ORIGINAL: eyesopened

does whining about whiners cancel out each other so there's no more whining?  Just wondering, not whining.


well... remembering my math

a negative plus a negative... still equates to a negative

a positive plus a positive ... equates to a positive

a postive plus a negative .. will equate to a positive only if the postive is bigger than the negative else it stays a negative


so... whining about whiners (negative) plus the whiners (negative)  still equates to a bunch of whiners (negative)
 

Very well said KnightofMists. Not to mention some damn fine math.



SexyRed -> RE: CollarMe going downhill (9/17/2006 10:21:52 AM)

To the OP: you are disappointed that a free online BDSM site is not offering you the safe haven of a family?

Sorry, I already have a real life family and consider collarme as well as any other website to be an interesting diversion, a place to possibly learn something, be entertained and maybe, just maybe connect with someone for a relationship.

But to put all your expectations in one basket, is surely a recipe for disappointment. As others have said, do not complain, just don't stay if it is not to your liking.



puella -> RE: Collarme going downhill (9/17/2006 10:28:39 AM)

Okay, I am back to betting....

What do you think the odds are that the first time poster/whinger of the OP will come back and actually debate  his point, rather than doing a drive by pity party?



ownedgirlie -> RE: CollarMe going downhill (9/17/2006 10:29:38 AM)

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ORIGINAL: eyesopened

quote:

ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

quote:

ORIGINAL: eyesopened

does whining about whiners cancel out each other so there's no more whining?  Just wondering, not whining.


well... remembering my math

a negative plus a negative... still equates to a negative

a positive plus a positive ... equates to a positive

a postive plus a negative .. will equate to a positive only if the postive is bigger than the negative else it stays a negative


so... whining about whiners (negative) plus the whiners (negative)  still equates to a bunch of whiners (negative)


So if that is true, and an op posts their rant about drama, and then are told the very post is contributing to the drama, is that post not a rant, meaning does it not also add to the drama?  At what point does the drama end and the comedy begin?


Right about now, I'd say.

I see various levels of caliber in various threads.  Those threads that do not appeal to me, I skip.  Some days that might be most of them. Some days that might be none of them.



juliaoceania -> RE: Collarme going downhill (9/17/2006 10:31:37 AM)

Hmmm Puella, I haven't enough time in under my belt to know the odds of it

taking a wild guess, I say you can poke a fork in him, he is probably done with this thread



puella -> RE: Collarme going downhill (9/17/2006 10:35:35 AM)

hehehe, julia!



juliaoceania -> RE: Collarme going downhill (9/17/2006 10:57:12 AM)

You know Puella, we have not had one train wreck this weekend... I thought CM was improving!



puella -> RE: Collarme going downhill (9/17/2006 10:59:01 AM)

Want me to get on that for ya?



KnightofMists -> RE: CollarMe going downhill (9/17/2006 11:04:21 AM)

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ORIGINAL: eyesopened

So if that is true, and an op posts their rant about drama, and then are told the very post is contributing to the drama, is that post not a rant, meaning does it not also add to the drama?  At what point does the drama end and the comedy begin?



mmmmm that is an excellent... point... guess that we get into Exponentials.... or it is when benji to make a humorous and perceptive comment of the drama that has engulfed us.

OR... we just don't take the rant serious in the first place and yang there chain for our own personal amusement.



sissifytoserve -> RE: CollarMe going downhill (9/17/2006 11:10:16 AM)

I think Collar Me is probably the coolest BDSM personal site around. Ive met some cool people so far.

Granted there are some people who love to flame and call you this or that...but you get that everywhere if you are different.



TxBlkMistress -> RE: CollarMe going downhill (9/17/2006 11:26:16 AM)

It is your right to complain, but all I see is complaining, I didn't see you offer any solutions to the problem.  I can't think of one way to screen people...and what if, even though you are serious and not just a wanker,...what is some odd screener decided that you were a wanker and declined your membership?  That wouldn't be fair.  And how long would all that take to get approved...geez...lol

Personally, all the sites and chat rooms are just the same.  Pretty much the same people go to all.  I love this site, it does the same as all the other sites, and sometimes more, but the overall benefit is.....IT'S FREE!....

So aren't ya glad that even though you have some aggrevation here, you are not shelling out hundreds of bucks each year to go through it?

Not being mean, just putting down some thoughts.



juliaoceania -> RE: Collarme going downhill (9/17/2006 11:28:20 AM)

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ORIGINAL: puella

Want me to get on that for ya?


I think it maybe too late for this weekend,.. perhaps brainstorming for next weeks train wreck might be a better use of our time?



popeye1250 -> RE: CollarMe going downhill (9/17/2006 11:29:35 AM)

I enjoy this site a lot.
A very good exchange of ideas in all the different "dept's" as it were.
And I've learned quite a bit too despite having over 18 years in this lifestyle.
The only downside for me is that I haven't met anyone in here yet who'd like to become my slave.
Hopefully that'll happen in the not too distant future.



WhiteRadiance -> RE: CollarMe going downhill (9/17/2006 11:49:51 AM)

I think CM is merely a mirror of society in general, with many different ideals and opinions.  I like this site and have met several wonderful people, made friends, been entertained, annoyed.. etc.. But ya know- you get what you look for!  :) 



mstrjx -> RE: CollarMe going downhill (9/17/2006 12:08:41 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

quote:

ORIGINAL: eyesopened

So if that is true, and an op posts their rant about drama, and then are told the very post is contributing to the drama, is that post not a rant, meaning does it not also add to the drama?  At what point does the drama end and the comedy begin?



mmmmm that is an excellent... point... guess that we get into Exponentials.... or it is when benji to make a humorous and perceptive comment of the drama that has engulfed us.

OR... we just don't take the rant serious in the first place and yang there chain for our own personal amusement.


I like CM.  I think I influence some, maybe piss off some others, and that's all well and good.  I don't want it to go away.  Hopefully I won't be asked to go away.

But to answer this issue raised as easily and succinctly as possible, I offer this.

The drama ends, and the comedy begins, as a result of the drama being ignored.

When nobody jumps onto the train-wreck-waiting-to-happen, what happens to the ranter?

Is there a thread that could exist where nobody responded because there wasn't a point in doing so?

Jeff



diamonddreamlove -> RE: CollarMe going downhill (9/17/2006 12:56:13 PM)

I thank all the posters for sharing even those that i don't agree with, which would be You at the moment.  I have learned so very much in reading and occasionally asking for guidance from those more experienced.  As for the wannabees and such it is my responsibility to weed those out for myself (yep learned that here too).   As for those i don't agree with well they have given me new perspectives even if i have rejected their opinions for my own life.  It also does not mean i have rejected them as people just that i have no use for that particular opinion.  Then of course there are the few that warrant ignoring completely and that is what i do.  I would very much hate to lose collarme as it has advanced my understanding of bdsm. 

I have been fortunate enough to have met several local Doms through collarme, most of whom have been wonderful people as well as Doms.  I also met the One that i give submission to (and will eventually wear His collar) through this site and also met Him a second time through another site so well i just have to say i am happy with the results i have had and am glad that i can get guidance from many different view points, and all thanks to collarme just for existing.



MrRodgers -> RE: CollarMe going downhill (9/17/2006 3:03:13 PM)


No, collarme is not going downhill...there is no hill. This is a flat world with equal gravitational pull for all participants. Iam personally having fun and am entertained.
 
We ARE realists..the sort who would have explained the Sermon on the Mount as the focus-group-driven kinky disposition. I thought better of the kinkosphere first, and still do, but that this is not as a mask to hide behind, maybe a mirror to see oneself, I honestly think I saw more than a little of myself here at least, but really...as a sunfilled window. I sit far from my window yet see through it; a splendid view to an incredible whole new real world. We are required to become realists here, aren't we ?
 
We come here from all over the world in search of a better personal climate. Even with all the cacophony and cacography about the place. Some (like me) bring old-world ideas being from the kinky past before these sites so in a historical perspective, this place is still very new. Kinksters here have long argued, correctly, that inspired voices have a legitimate place in the public square. Limiting what we think or want to say to inside our own private sphere can relegate it to what the theologians have called the "harmless reservations of the spirit."
 
Time to leave the reservation, can't play it too safe kinksters, find some kink here, let alone somebody. Most get real and bring learned voices to the community. Great way to learn, relax and just maybe find the right person and yep...some with great sex and kink skills too.
 
Now all I need maybe is a very old Indian sitt'n on the porch throwing cigar butts into a bucket...or better yet, a 30something, redhead, overweight, golf club beer bimbo...let me think about this...cause I don't even play golf...but maybe...yeaa, that's the ticket, I'll become a HGG (horny golf geek.)



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