bignipples2share
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Joined: 4/19/2004 Status: offline
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-fast reply to the OP I like this site and all it's ins and outs. I enjoy the good portion of it and accept the fact that it's going to have some bad elements. I like the diversity of the people and the conversations. I don't think you're going to find what you're looking for even on a pay for site, let alone a free one. I think the only way that you're going to have only the people who you enjoy talking and discussing things with, is to open your own private chat and have an allow list that meets your criteria. I'll just sit here and enjoy the posts of almost everyone here. All of the comments have worth, the good, the intellectual, the typos, the sarcastic, the flames. Without see the good comments, you'll never see how others can be accepting and possibly learn from it. Without the intellectual, you can't see the different thought processes behind their answers. It's a wonderful learning experience. Without the typos, and their corrections, you can't learn past the education you received in school, be it from poor education, too much goofing off, or poor absorption lol Without the sarcastic and flaming you'll never make it far in acceptance of what can be dished out, acceptance that people are going to do this and to toughen up your skin. Are you going to cry if someone did this in person, or are you going to learn to cope? If you think this is so harsh, believe me when I say that the flaming here is mild. There are sites on the net that are much worse towards people who're new, uniformed, or who ask stupid questions, or give stupid answers. I think this is one of the best sites for tolerance. It's all in how you look at things and how you choose to react. Laughter is always good. Even the kinkster can bring something to the table as food for thought. If someone comes in and is looking for quickies, weekend bondage, or whatever reason, no biggy. There are plenty of them and I'm sure they'll find each other in short order. It's all good. ~Big
< Message edited by bignipples2share -- 9/19/2006 8:42:42 PM >
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