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The sweetest thing... - 9/17/2006 6:59:04 AM   
Bearlee


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The sweetest thing:
 
In another thread, agirl mentioned a lovely little thing that her Master does with her from time to time.  What he does takes his time and his thoughtfulness, but little, if any, expense.  And it obviously wows her every time! 
 
I’m curious what your Dom/me or sub/slave has done, or does, for you that just darn near makes ya well-up with love?
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RE: The sweetest thing... - 9/17/2006 7:01:38 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Bearlee


The sweetest thing:
 
In another thread, agirl mentioned a lovely little thing that her Master does with her from time to time.  What he does takes his time and his thoughtfulness, but little, if any, expense.  And it obviously wows her every time! 
 
I’m curious what your Dom/me or sub/slave has done, or does, for you that just darn near makes ya well-up with love?


for this slave, Master does not need to do anything special to bring that feeling out in her; however, this slave has an unmentionable, and when Master is here, he always takes her out for just special time between themselves. This slave has always found that to be endearing

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RE: The sweetest thing... - 9/17/2006 7:01:46 AM   
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Status: offline 		A picnic in the park ... just some quiet time where she is released to speak freely.

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RE: The sweetest thing... - 9/17/2006 7:26:28 AM   
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Status: offline 		He randomly walks up to me, grabs a fistfull of my hair and either snaps me around so He is looking directly into my eyes........or......... from behind whispers with THAT voice into my ear:  I own you girl.

At this point, i am pretty much girly goo in His hands.  whew!

Thorns does many things for me, but there is nothing that He could buy me, take me anyhere, that compares to just being in His presence.

~smilezz~

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RE: The sweetest thing... - 9/17/2006 7:28:40 AM   
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Status: offline 		When my Master sits behind me craddeling my chin in hand and brushes my hair it reminds me that I am cherished and loved.
 
And god knows every time he calls me "MINE" I belt like butter. 
 
On my he made me a cake I thought that was one of the best presents I could have gotten(he had NEVER baked anything before).
 

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RE: The sweetest thing... - 9/17/2006 7:39:25 AM   
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Status: offline 		You know I have to say he does so many wonderful things for me. He opens doors for me, in fact i had to be retrained NOT to open the doors. Ok im still learning that one. He massages my feet, he has even brought me coffee in bed. But the most important thing he has given me is that i can be myself. He loves me for me. I'm not the "ideal" submissive by conventional BDSM standards. Some people in our local community have questioned our relationship. He will just whisper in my ear " do not care what they think. I love you just as you are." So what has he given me? He has given me myself back..i couldn't think of a more wonderful way to say i love you.

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RE: The sweetest thing... - 9/17/2006 7:39:30 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Bearlee


The sweetest thing:
 
In another thread, agirl mentioned a lovely little thing that her Master does with her from time to time.  What he does takes his time and his thoughtfulness, but little, if any, expense.  And it obviously wows her every time! 
 
I’m curious what your Dom/me or sub/slave has done, or does, for you that just darn near makes ya well-up with love?



There are many, many instances of this.....it's *all in the detail* as he says.

The details show quite plainly how much attention has been paid to what matters to you, as a person......right down to the difference between giving a bought potted-plant or a cutting from his own garden  to try to grow on.

Or saying a catagoric *NO* to something that no-one else would deny me, because he KNOWS it's not the best thing for me, knowing that I'll hate him for it...

Or spending hours of *our* time talking through my daughter's problems, making HER feel special and *listened to* too.

Or a text JUST as I enter the dentist's chair.

The *wow* part is really that I don't expect it, that I'll manage without it, that I don't ask for it.......

The *wow* part is that ALL this is from someone that has never said they love me and asks for nothing back.

agirl















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RE: The sweetest thing... - 9/17/2006 12:36:32 PM   
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Status: offline 		He told me last night that He will never use the L word because it doesn't last.  He also told me He has never felt this way about anyone before.  If i say something negative about myself He reminds me that He does not appreciate the comment and that if the statement were true He would not care about me and that i do not have the right to be negative about His possession.  His honesty, caring and yes IMO loving heart gives me more than anything money could buy.  I would not trade those moments for anything.  When He looks me in the eyes and tell me i am His i feel more wonderful than words could ever say. 

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RE: The sweetest thing... - 9/17/2006 2:56:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		Gawd that would be a long list, because he does do so much, little daily emails telling me he how much he loves me, coffee at my bedside in the morning,   but massages without asking for them, after having a rough day, melts me everytime.

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RE: The sweetest thing... - 9/17/2006 4:36:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		I walk in the front door tired as hell from a day at work to find candles on the table, red roses in a vase and a lovely sit down dinner for two prepared. Whats for dessert? A warm bubble bath with him bathing me.

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RE: The sweetest thing... - 9/17/2006 4:41:39 PM   
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ORIGINAL: smilezz
He randomly walks up to me, grabs a fistfull of my hair and either snaps me around so He is looking directly into my eyes........or......... from behind whispers with THAT voice into my ear:  I own you girl.  At this point, i am pretty much girly goo in His hands.  whew! Thorns does many things for me, but there is nothing that He could buy me, take me anyhere, that compares to just being in His presence. ~smilezz~


What I would give to have this effect on women.

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RE: The sweetest thing... - 9/17/2006 4:43:24 PM   
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ORIGINAL: amuzingtoyou
You know I have to say he does so many wonderful things for me. He opens doors for me, in fact i had to be retrained NOT to open the doors. Ok im still learning that one. He massages my feet, he has even brought me coffee in bed. But the most important thing he has given me is that i can be myself. He loves me for me. I'm not the "ideal" submissive by conventional BDSM standards. Some people in our local community have questioned our relationship. He will just whisper in my ear " do not care what they think. I love you just as you are." So what has he given me? He has given me myself back..i couldn't think of a more wonderful way to say i love you.


I think that is great.  This is the kind of Dom, I aspire to be.

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RE: The sweetest thing... - 9/17/2006 4:44:42 PM   
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Status: offline 		I am so happy this site is filled with so many wonderful Doms.  It is pretty amazing considering all the stories I've heard in the past.

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RE: The sweetest thing... - 9/17/2006 4:46:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		Little things:  A message saying, "I'm thinking of you."  Or doing a household chore that is usually my responsibility.  Cuddling on the couch while watching tv.  Using a nickname that's just between us.


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RE: The sweetest thing... - 9/17/2006 8:47:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		they just have to look into my eyes and I see the depth that they are devoted to me and serve my will.

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RE: The sweetest thing... - 9/18/2006 4:32:28 AM   
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Status: offline 		With my Beloved being so far away hard to do those little things that show so much love but when Vandervecken hunts and captures a rogue MP3 for me no matter how rare or finds that one special item media ,that always makes me smile.
And when we are on the same side of the world...even though he is on holiday from work he puts in 110% ...he uses his breaks to come and be with us, as a family. Which might not sound like much to some people but makes me glow 

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RE: The sweetest thing... - 9/18/2006 4:48:19 AM   
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Status: offline 		He has brought me flowers. He held me when I heard of my father's death and I cried on His shoulder. He ran me a bubble bath while I was asleep on the couch after a bad night, lit candles and brought me a drink.

So many things.....but the best is as amuzingtoyou said, He gives me the freedom to be myself, and loves me for ME

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RE: The sweetest thing... - 9/18/2006 6:07:39 AM   
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Status: offline 		I’m curious what your Dom/me or sub/slave has done, or does, for you that just darn near makes ya well-up with love?

He loves me, he protects me, he guides me, he shapes me, he makes me a better person.

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RE: The sweetest thing... - 9/18/2006 6:19:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		He loves to see me naked.  It makes me feel like the most desirable woman in the world.

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RE: The sweetest thing... - 9/18/2006 6:22:42 AM   
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Status: offline 		Gosh this is gonna be way too sappy here, but it is still the truth.  Being able to get up to go to the bathroom in the middle of the night, come back and have him there, with the bed warm and completely filled with his scent, sleeping deeply.

Him simply being right there.

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