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WhipTheHip -> RE: Dominate me, submit to me introduction EMAILS?! (9/20/2006 6:47:58 AM)
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ORIGINAL: WhyteRavenne
I am putting this here because I feel it is neccessary to get it off my (expansive and very beautiful) chest. I am sure I am not alone with this, but, I will say it, again. I know we are all a part of the bdsm, D/s, Kink community, in one way or another. We all have our fetishes and needs that MUST be fulfilled. However, when going into a email that introduces yourself, how proper is it for you to demand I bow to my knees and submit to you? Why is there a problem with a nice introduction saying, "hello, I'm a Dominant, you interest me... this is why." I am not saying that it's only Dominants who do this, either. I've had many quivering emails from submissives that cower to my word. I send out random emails everywhere, all of which are sincere and unique. I'm not interested in meeting every person I write to, however, if they have a beautiful picture, witty or interested profile, anything that caught my eye, I like to share with them that I noticed, and to thank them for the opportunity to see the gift they are offering. I'm sure I'm not alone in this, and I KNOW I'm not the only one who thinks it's right, however, as with everything in life, variety provides spice, and I would like to know what others think. You are all beautiful, thank you.
I've never done such thing, because that is not my style, but I may make other faux pas. Some guys think this is the way they have to introduce themselves. Likewise, some guys send naked pictures of themselves. Some guys think, they would like it if women sent them naked pictures, so they think that is what women like. Or maybe they are looking for women who are physically attracted to their body. Give others a break. If some guy writes you to get on your knees, write them back, "I'd greatly appreciate it if you would introduce yourself. If I like what I hear, I may get on my knees for you." Why is this so hard? Why can't we be more patient, more tolerant, less judgmental with other people's shortcommings? It's not as if any of us have a shortage of our own shortcomings.
It is amusing to me how many people notice the toothpick in other people's eyes, while missing the mote in their own. Or how many pots call kettles black. Or are the first cast a stone at sinners while living in a glass house.
We all were not born with perfect social skills, and perfect knowledge how to attract members of the opposite sex (or the same sex, if your gay).
I am not writng this because I have ever done this myself. But like I said, I surely have my own set of shortcommings which need the understanding of others.
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