RE: Dominate me, submit to me introduction EMAILS?!

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angelwingrazor -> RE: Dominate me, submit to me introduction EMAILS?! (9/20/2006 11:56:44 AM)
wow. anyone who emails me like that gets ignored. i mean, i used to have some pics of me on my profile -pre-op trans- and i had to take them down because i kept getting some GROSS emails. i mean....i want to get to know someone before they do that kind of thing :\

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Dominate me, submit to me introduction EMAILS?! (9/20/2006 12:24:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NastyDaddy Why leave yourself only those "two" options when there's more than "two" ways to secure loose cannons? It seems that expansive and very beautiful chests are much like mythical unicorns... often spoke of, but seldom if ever seen. [:D] Oooooh you really are a Nasty Daddy, daring us to show the elusive expansive/beautiful chests. [8D] M

WhyteRavenne -> RE: Dominate me, submit to me introduction EMAILS?! (9/22/2006 2:20:08 PM)
Wow, it's impressive the differing opinions, humor and honesty everyone has. I was laughing at some comments, snide about others (hey, you can't SEE me, so I can be snide!) and really appreciated all the input! I hope more will come!

SirEndipity -> RE: Dominate me, submit to me introduction EMAILS?! (9/22/2006 9:08:48 PM)
This is so sad. Several years ago in the yahoo chat rooms I'd get a lot of guys IM'ing me with stuff along these lines (my username at the time was not obviously male) without even bothering to check my profile to see I'm a guy. This is along the lines of walking into a bar randomly picking someone and saying "Sex. Now." and grunting. I don't think these guys really realize how pathetic they come off. The worst part is that they are just looking for a quick hotchat. They really don't care who they get, they don't want to bother getting to know you, or to take the time to make smalltalk, all they want is a quickie. They're missing out on all the fun of bdsm... getting to know your partner, figuring out what drives them, what turns them on, toying with them, teasing and torturing. It's like being offered a seven course meal at an incredible French restaurant and turing it down to so that you can scarf down your food in a hotdog eating contest.

iogikuma -> RE: Dominate me, submit to me introduction EMAILS?! (9/26/2006 4:39:09 AM)
WhyteRavenne, I have no problem with the form of introduction that you suggest, and that's exactly how I respond to subbies. If we don't know each other, and I'm writing to a subbie, what right do I have to make any demands of her? As far as she is concerned I am just a person who identifies as a Dom - that certainly does not make me HER Dom, and hence does not bestow any right supon me to treat her as MY sub, and to have expectations let alone make demands. I become her Dom if and when she accepts me, and I have to earn that right. In the eyes of some subs, that might make me some sort of wimp, but if they don't understand where I am coming from, they are certainly not right for me! On the other side of the coin, just today I wrote to a sub on this site who wrote to me using the formal "this girl" type language. I put it to her that it was inappropriate for her to speak to me that way as there is nothing between us and we don't even know each other yet. I said that I would be a lot happier if she confined herself to the normal language between ordinary people at this stage of our communications (unless she felt a need to write in those terms). So it goes both ways... Bosscocky

DomKen -> RE: Dominate me, submit to me introduction EMAILS?! (9/26/2006 5:07:33 AM)
I always send polite greetings without any name calling or assumed dominance. The funny thing is that, by and large, I get more responses back saying I'm not a real Dom since I used common courtesy than I do even short "thanks, I'm not interested" notes. Now I guess some large percentage of the posters on collarme are fakes or posers and I know that women are absolutely deluged with messages here but it would be awfully easy for someone to come believe the whole "Get on your knees and worship me" introductory message was what most submissives expected.

Dnomyar -> RE: Dominate me, submit to me introduction EMAILS?! (9/26/2006 11:40:28 AM)
A question for the women. Can a male have a beautiful expansive chest?

MsKatHouston -> RE: Dominate me, submit to me introduction EMAILS?! (9/26/2006 11:58:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar A question for the women. Can a male have a beautiful expansive chest? Yes. Yum.

Nimkii -> RE: Dominate me, submit to me introduction EMAILS?! (9/26/2006 1:20:42 PM)
Always try to send messages and best wishes to people.

BD123 -> RE: Dominate me, submit to me introduction EMAILS?! (9/26/2006 10:57:43 PM)
The first communication should be one of respect and courtesy. A brief introduction of some common traits (found in the profiles) and a request for feedback response. The following correspondence can ratchet up the discussion into more personal or life style inquires. It is important to establish trust first.

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