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RE: What happens if I get pregnant? - 9/23/2006 3:31:30 AM

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I first thought he was asking what happens if HE gets pregnant.
Then I reread it and thought that he meant how do you play with pregnant people.
And now, I have no blessed clue. For all I know, he could be asking how to get people pregnant!

LOL well boys have a stinger and girls a flower and when the stinger enters the flower...

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RE: What happens if I get pregnant? - 9/23/2006 6:55:11 AM

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Your milage may vary, but I will respond to this as it happened in our relationship. In the beginning, we fully intended to go on as things had- even to the point of asking my midwife which activities to refrain from. That was amusing.
As the pregnancy progressed, however, things changed. I was tired all the time, pretty pukey and my moods went all across the board. Keeping it 24/7 was something we couldn't do, anymore. On occasion, we did spankings and such- lighter variety, but honestly, it was REALLY difficult to maintain. Post partum, my sex drive went the way of the albatross, and that was difficult, as well. I think, in future pregnancies, it will be different purely because we've grown quite a bit, but in the first? Basically everything went to this really comfortable vanilla for a while- but that had him questioning me as to if I wanted to continue as vanilla or try to revamp our former relations.
I chose to revamp and we're currently building on that.

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RE: What happens if I get pregnant? - 9/23/2006 1:41:12 PM

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I DIDN'T DO IT !!!

I WAS OUT OF TOWN !!!

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RE: What happens if I get pregnant? - 7/5/2009 4:32:10 PM

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Now I am a bit confused- I read the OP to mean that this should be a question used by a sub when vetting a potential Dom partner. ... Did anybody else read it that way?

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RE: What happens if I get pregnant? - 7/5/2009 4:35:58 PM

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i was under the impression he was asking how you practice your "kink" while pregnant.

This thread is three years old. You might want to use the search feature, as there have been a few good threads on this topic since this one.

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RE: What happens if I get pregnant? - 7/5/2009 6:19:04 PM

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I wrote an article years ago on this for the Sandmutopian Guardian, back in the days when I was working as a midwife. It is very possible and can be very satisfying and safely done.

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RE: What happens if I get pregnant? - 7/5/2009 8:31:04 PM

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ORIGINAL: seekerof

Now I am a bit confused- I read the OP to mean that this should be a question used by a sub when vetting a potential Dom partner. ... Did anybody else read it that way?

Since he was quoting me from a post that I made several years ago regarding what advice I would give a novice submissive, I'll answer.

I suggested that before the collar goes on is a time to ask questions/learn about the person you're committing yourself to. I've seen so many "s" types that rush into a "I'm collared and his forever!" reationship and they have no idea what their partners core values are.

The question is in essence "If we were in a relationship and I became pregnant, what happens?"

The brunt of the question is:

Who do you think decides what happens next? Do you leave it to me? Do you think as a submissive/slave I have no voice in the matter? Or do we decide together? (There is a slave on these boards who believes that she has no choice regardless of her beliefs).

If the decision is made that I'm having the baby, what happens now? Will you be there? Or will you bail?

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