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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/24/2006 9:14:27 PM

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As long as we're not bragging and just sharing experiences, I'll relate that most women I've been with have been able to reach orgasm (and that's ORGASM, not organism) from "pure intercourse" (by which I assume you mean penetration, no touchy or licky).

I second that.

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/24/2006 9:17:38 PM

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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

As long as we're not bragging and just sharing experiences, I'll relate that most women I've been with have been able to reach orgasm (and that's ORGASM, not organism) from "pure intercourse" (by which I assume you mean penetration, no touchy or licky).

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So my question is, how many females actually experience organism from pure intercourse? If you can orgasm from intercourse, is it the best orgasm you've ever experienced? If not, describe your best orgasm.

For the record, while I am not the largest male on the planet, however, my Girl often complains of being too sore after we have been together. I am not bragging, just sharing my experiences.

Lordandmaster,

Love the avatar. Reminds me of a joke about an elephant that loses a bet with an ant, and the loser gets to screw the other one.

So the ant climbs up and starts to bang away at the elephant. A coconut falls off a tree (yes, I know coconuts are tropical and elephants are African or Asian, but work with me) and hits the elephant on the head.

The elephant goes "Ow!"

A tiny voice is heard under the elephants tail shouting "TAKE IT ALL, BITCH!"

Just me, could be wrong, but there you go.

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/24/2006 9:19:44 PM

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Laughing. Good one.

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/24/2006 9:20:57 PM

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My BEST orgasms always involve vaginal penetration, wether it's with a dick, or a toy. I tend to find real dicks more satisfying, but toys are better than nothing. This is how I have always felt, and every woman is different. Personally I like a dick 6.5-8.5 in length, a little smaller than the thickness of a red bull can, for being able to go for hours, I also enjoy those up to coke can thickness when there's been lots of foreplay, and the sex itself is brief, it's super intense with that much width. I should note that the vast majority of the time I do not orgasm from oral. Which makes the millions of subs offering to "worship me orally for hours every day" even that much less appealling (why can't they offer to lick my floors clean for hours every day, that'd be way more useful)

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/24/2006 10:04:55 PM

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LOL Ms Heather! Actually I do cum from oral ... eventually ... but usually only with the helpful insertion of a finger or two as well. Re the OP about penis size, well, Master isn't the largest by any means ... but He has just enough for a lovely deep mouthful without my gagging ... and enough for me to feel when it's inside ... so that will do me nicely. Not to say another inch or two in length wouldn't be nice, but it's how He makes me feel as a woman and as His sub/slave that matters so much more. I'd have to say My Domme personality would hope for a bit more in a sub ... but that would be way down the list of criteria ... far more important would be his heart and mind and desire to submit!

The worst ever sex I had (before I got into bdsm) was with a man who had a genuine 12" ... yes I knew that because ... wait for it ... he carried a RULER around with him to prove it! What a dickhead! He had no finesse, no foreplay, no rhythm and no passion ... YUK! It was a terrible error of judgement on my part (OK I was just out of my first marriage and playing the field without due care). Suffice to say he was out of my bed real quick and never invited back. Now I am NOT saying that all men so well endowed would be like that, I would sincerely hope they wouldn't be, but that was my experience.

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/24/2006 10:14:10 PM

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i can orgasm from vaginal penetration, but there are factors that have to be met... it has to be hard, i can't from just slow ins and outs, there also has to be some g-spot stimulation, and even then i don't always orgasm from it.

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/24/2006 10:41:11 PM

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Many here are making my point. Master was so into my head and libido along with teasing me and making me beg for it, just had me starving and ready to get off. He showed me instinctively and with the right approach all of my orgasms start with him in my mouth and build from there. That's why big but not too big, is the perfect size that is beautiful and delicious.

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/25/2006 2:34:48 AM

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greetings

bigdan i think my orgams is not to tell why would you want to know it is private thing so sorry it a secert

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/25/2006 3:12:01 AM

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Size matters a lot to me! To big and it ain't coming near me! I'm 5'2" tall... do the math... there is only so much room between there and my navel! But, in the same respect my ex-husband was so small that I could hide his erection in one hand (I have tiny hands) and he couldn't wear a condom... they were all to big, kept slipping off... that was very dissatisfying.... hell, half the time I couldn't tell if he was even in.

So yeah... size matters.

Jewel

edited to add...

Orgasm? The man didn't even know women had those.

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/25/2006 3:56:19 AM

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Thread hijack.......

I like the new pic BTF, you have a very sexy mouth you know.

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/25/2006 4:03:57 AM

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Scooter is damn near too big, i know it takes Jewel a few moments to accommodate him, that being said i start cumming when he gets close to fucking me. Sort of a brainless, timeless moment where seconds seem like eternity and DAMNIT i want/crave/need/must have you now thing.

I think i might be his slave.......It is the only reason i can think of for that intense heart yammering brain not functioning yearning he sets off if he breathes too close to me.

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/25/2006 5:04:12 AM

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The advantage of being a fat guy is that the area with the vans deferens is raised, and provides a lot of clitoral stimulation during intercourse, so I assumed for many years female orgasms through intercourse were the norm. One girl I know who doesn't have orgasms during intercourse, by her own admission uses vibrators a lot, and also has a hard to reach clit, as the upper vaginal lips cover it.

So, is this the thread where I can complain about being too well endowed?

When I read that ShiftedJewel is only 5'2" I winced. There have been a few petite girls I had to stop with as I was way too big for them. I've lost count of the times I've heard "my girlfriends would love you, they are always complaining they can't meet well hung guys" half an hour before "I'm getting really sore". It took me a long time to realise that usually the women I didn't have size issues with, had kids. But even then some petite girls can still be too small.

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/25/2006 5:41:55 AM

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I'm with ShiftedJewel- size definately <i>does</i> matter, in that sense. I'm only a little over 5', myself and have only had ONE guy that was just so huge I almost ran away screaming. I should have. I was limping and having to take hot baths and ibuprofen all the next day. And, worse yet, the sex wasn't all that great, as he apparently thought big cock= enough! Bah. On the reverse, I have also had girls who think just by virture of having a vagina, they were better at giving oral. Or the tongue ring thing. Some people seem to forget technique.. Nothing like wanting to pick up a magazine while someone's going down on you. ;-)
Inso far as length..length isn't a thing for me, at all. If a guy's got nine inches, but it's got the circumferance of a toothpick, it doesn't do much more than hit my cervix and make me uncomfortable. It's like being stabbed in the eyeball repeatedly.
The kids thing..eh...I keep hearing, "Oh if a woman's had kids, she probably doesn't have a problem with big cock" type stuff and that's balls. If she's had kids and didn't know about kegals, maybe. *shrug*

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/25/2006 6:04:01 AM

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Without having read through the entire thread (bad, I know), I can say that while I haven't orgasmed from intercourse alone, I DO definately enjoy it. pup's probably about average (5"-6" range) and I find that I really like hard, fast, and deep. I imagine a small cock might make that difficult. But since I've only had sex with pup, I have nothing to compare with. Not that I care. I'm perfectly happy with him and us in general when it comes to sex.

Just my (somewhat clueless, admittedly) 2 cents.

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/25/2006 6:11:03 AM

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worse yet, the sex wasn't all that great, as he apparently thought big cock= enough! Bah.

I am only 5'2 myself and yes Scooter took a little getting used to. The best part is he still thinks he is average, silly man every woman (including a few cm regulars) who has ever seen him naked walked away going OMG. Skills and size, now that is a combo!

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/25/2006 7:55:41 AM

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my last girl could and would cum with plain ol tittie play.....not every time but quite often. I liked it....

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/25/2006 9:39:18 AM

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ORIGINAL: bigdaninwi
For the record, while I am not the largest male on the planet, however, my Girl often complains of being too sore after we have been together.
BigDan

Extra lube would be nice :)

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/25/2006 9:42:15 AM

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my last girl could and would cum with plain ol tittie play.....not every time but quite often. I liked it....

Time to make you jealous again babe, i've been trained to cum from simply the sound of his voice......

But that shows you have talent, grins.

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/25/2006 11:06:10 AM

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What is the line about more than a mouthful is a waste? There has only been one guy that was too small to be pleasurable but that was because the condom would try to slip off, other than that I have found that smaller guys tend to do a better overall job than those who think that they're size is all that matters.

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/25/2006 11:11:26 AM

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my last girl could and would cum with plain ol tittie play.....not every time but quite often. I liked it....

Time to make you jealous again babe, i've been trained to cum from simply the sound of his voice......

But that shows you have talent, grins.

Looks like Scooter has the talent...!!!!

Actually....I wasn't trying to brag....didn't even consider her cumming with breast play had much to do with me? Just kinda thought it was a rare case of a gal that had some real sensitive titties and happened to get extra excited....??? but like I mentioned...I liked it!

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