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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/25/2006 11:11:43 AM   
Caitriona


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Status: offline 		I've reached orgasm through vaginal intercourse only, but my orgasms tend to be better when other areas are stimulated  - clitoris, anal, ect. 

My ability to orgasm is more directly linked to how I feel than what is done to me, if that makes sense.


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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/25/2006 11:16:41 AM   
CrappyDom


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Status: offline 		As someone who is more than pleasantly endowed, I can state with some expertise that size doesn't matter.

My tongue is shorter than average but my reviews are not.  It is rarely the tool that makes the difference, it is almost always the skill of the user that makes the most difference.

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/25/2006 11:19:41 AM   
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ORIGINAL: bigdaninwi

In a recent post, a Submissive was complaining that her Master was not all that he should be.  In short (no pun intended), Master has a smallish cock.  Many pages and discussions were devoted to the practice of viewing all the goods before committing to a Master.

So my question is, how many females actually experience organism from pure intercourse?  If you can orgasm from intercourse, is it the best orgasm you've ever experienced?  If not, describe your best orgasm.



I can orgasm from pure intercourse, in fact I can orgasm from straight penetration (with fingers or toys).  A lot of it has to do with manipultion of my gspot (and sometimes of my cervix if I'm in the right headspace).  I don't even know what orgasm I would qualify as the best orgasm I've ever experienced, so many of them have been wonderfully intense, but certainly penetration orgasms are very high up on the list.

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/25/2006 12:46:59 PM   
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Status: offline 		Mons -

I have not been with many women who can achieve orgasm vaginally.  So I was curious why the size of a man's cock matters if most women need clitoral or G-Spot stimulation to achieve orgasm.  Secondly, if people had some experiences to share, isn't this a place to educate people?

Next, I would love to see the reaction of people i a man's profile where they state they would only see women with larger that 38DD Breasts. 


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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/25/2006 12:50:29 PM   
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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/25/2006 12:55:14 PM   
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Status: offline 		Part of the problem people have in not achieving vaginal orgasm is they have no idea of what they are doing.  First off, roling the bitch over and ramming it in doesn't work.  Slapping her around and choking her sometimes does, I think they call it foreplay or something.

Anyway, learn to arch your back as  you thrust so that the head of the cock rides against the G spot on the top of the vaginal canal (don't you love hot talk?) This is why doggie works for some but again the angle has to be fight with the man thrusting down into the woman.  In missionary the same thing can be achieve with less effort by placing a small pillow under your partner's ass which achieves that more upward angled thrust.  Another is hold a thrust and press your pelvis against the mons or clitoral hood, a bit of side to side motion doesn't hurt.  If that doesn't work, wrap your hands around her neck and call her dirty names, that seems to work for me.

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/25/2006 1:07:52 PM   
bignipples2share


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Status: offline 		I saw this interesting show one time. Showed all kinds of shapes of both penis and vaginas. They were saying how there is a different fit that works for each shape. May all be pure bunk, but I got right to thinking about which sizes and shapes had worked for me in the past and which didn't and lo and behold, what they were saying rang true for me.
I'm orgasmic and yes orgasming with just intercourse is up there on the top of my list, size and shape matter to me 7-8 is right about the best range, about 6 in girth, standing straight and tall, mushroom head, just a bit bigger than the rest, preferably circumsized. Then again, doesn't matter how beautiful it is if they've no clue how to use it. I agree, they have to connect with me mentally, but then again, my enjoyment of it's beauty sure gets me off to a good start. I've been so fortunate with most of my past partners.
Toys usually just don't do it for me without a partner involved. Even then, that's just a prelude, fun extra stuff.

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edited because I can't spell today

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/25/2006 1:19:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Wildfleurs

I can orgasm from pure intercourse, in fact I can orgasm from straight penetration (with fingers or toys). 



I have rather large hands, and my fingers tend to enjoy spelunking adventures when I go downtown.

Just me, could be wrong, but there you go.

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/25/2006 1:26:24 PM   
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ORIGINAL: CrappyDom
If that doesn't work, wrap your hands around her neck and call her dirty names, that seems to work for me.
I cannot get with the hands around my neck, but dirty talk makes me hot, except there is a line, and it is possible to get too dirty and have me thinking "where is that coming from?" Worse than "too dirty" however is the "keep language clean/quiet snooze-inspiring types."   M

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/25/2006 1:31:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		   Well, for me I’m actually more a pleaser and interested in my partner than myself.  Perhaps I’m too self conscious; I dunno.  I do orgasm, easier alone than with another; but I do so with others, too.
   Yes, I prefer clitoral stimulation, too.  While I have orgasmed a few times during intercourse only (no touchy, no licky) I’ve actually done so anally more often.  Go figure…
   Like some here, if the stimulation is too intense, I can’t handle it; and I’m not a fan of vibrators.  If the guy knows what he’s doing and really enjoys oral sex (and it shows) that will give me the most mind-blowing orgasms ever…as long as I can relax enough to enjoy it.
   As far as penis size; I prefer medium or smaller to very large.  I remember one bf from long, long ago.  It was no fun!  I have no gag-reflex, but couldn’t FIT him in my mouth and for intercourse I had to keep my fists balled up over my hipbones to prevent him from bruising my innards!  He was a big, big man; just not my kinda guy.
   I have a feeling I’ve not really been with many men who really KNOW what they’re doing.  Once I squirted and was soooooooo amazed (and embarrassed at the puddle!)
   WHY do we share this stuff again?  LOL
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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/25/2006 1:34:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		so if size matters and werr in the average male range generally speaking  (5-8 inches) and it ends up being like tossing a hotdog down a hallway, does size matter then ?

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/25/2006 1:50:28 PM   
bignipples2share


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Status: offline 		Actually, if that's the size that does it for a man, then by all means, he should say so, and many do state their preference (even before I started using this screen name). I think it has alot to do with timing and how it's done. If it's in their profile, that's fine by me. If he emails me and asks, how big are those babies, then I'm thinking that's just wanking material he's looking for and can just go look at porn and it would be the same difference to him. A man who states that he understands where I'm coming from, is conversational and states, in passing, that he also has a breast fetish, then he's the one I'll be answering. Some men don't want a woman with more than an A cup and I respect their right to do so.  
If a person is a leg man and that's what does it for him, then I'm not gonna be the one to fit that. I want his major fetish much higher up.

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/25/2006 2:04:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: charismagirrl

i'm very orgasmic and can orgasm with just intercourse and im finding, almost as intensely from anal intercourse.

i actually like the soreness or the pain factor sometimes...it makes it even better and then afterward it's wonderful to have that feeling of having been really taken.



I agree with CG on both of the above comments.

I am multi-orgasmic, and have had the pleasure of experiencing multiples more often since being with my Master.  He is the right size for me, have never measured him, but know that he "gets the job done" and then some.  He is on the thick side - which I have come (giggle) to love although it scared me when I first saw him nude.  (silly me)

I have had vaginal, clitoral, anal, and g-spot orgasms.  The most intense tend to be vaginal ones that occur right after squirting, with or without clit stim.  Too much clit stimulation makes me go numb or is terribly uncomfortable after a while.  I love penetration 1,000 times more than clitoral contact by itself.  Daddy has learned this all too well about me as must respond like an alley cat wrapping itself around someone's leg if He teases me with any kind of vaginal penetration and then stops and smiles.     I am not really one to beg, but I can be "inclined." 

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/25/2006 2:07:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		I guess flipping the size question is not encouraged.

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/25/2006 2:49:39 PM   
zumala


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ORIGINAL: bignipples2share

Actually, if that's the size that does it for a man, then by all means, he should say so, and many do state their preference (even before I started using this screen name). I think it has alot to do with timing and how it's done. If it's in their profile, that's fine by me. If he emails me and asks, how big are those babies, then I'm thinking that's just wanking material he's looking for and can just go look at porn and it would be the same difference to him. A man who states that he understands where I'm coming from, is conversational and states, in passing, that he also has a breast fetish, then he's the one I'll be answering. Some men don't want a woman with more than an A cup and I respect their right to do so.  
If a person is a leg man and that's what does it for him, then I'm not gonna be the one to fit that. I want his major fetish much higher up.

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I guess I'm the flip side of that coin.  I have A cup breasts and tend to attract guys that like butts or legs.  Personally, I don't judge someone's attractiveness purely by looks and physical attributes, but I know that's a big deal for most.  It can hurt when someone says 'C cup and larger only', but... what can you do but shrug and move on?  I'm not into surgery, so I'm stuck with what I was born to have.
 
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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/25/2006 3:01:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		Hmmm.  Does size matter?  To some it does, so be it.  Some men like large breasts, some find them repulsive.  Some women like large penii, some like them smaller.  Some women have deeper vaginas, some have more shallow.  Some folks like tall leggy women, and thank goodness, some like short curvy ladies.   I'm 4'8.5" and  have never found a penis not to fit.  I happen to like them large enough to hurt, because pain, especially sexual pain turns me on.  A lot.  It might even be a fetish, go figure.  It ties into my psyche and makes me feel very feminine and submissive.  I've never really  had to face choosing not to pursue a relationship due to penal length, girth or whatever and hope I never do.   Theres someone out there for everyone though.  I do  feel funny about excluding people for physical reasons, given that I'm damn short and have been told that it was not a feature some people found attractive.  Its hard to be objective when you fall into whatever category is being disparaged but objective is what you have to be.  Everyone has preferences and just because one subset does not  find that particular quality attractive or desirable, be it height, weight, color,  "size"  feature, etc., does not mean that  the lack is with you.  It is ok to have preferences.  Viva la diferance and all that jazz!


Edited to add:  I have never had a problem with orgasming from "pure intercourse"  My first orgasm was just vaginal, I did not know until years  later that many women cannot orgasm without some other kind of stimulation.  I wonder how much is in the mind, and how much is physiology. 


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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/25/2006 3:36:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		well I was just currious cause I have never seen a thread on what to do if your girl is like a grand hall in compassion to a snug fit. so I was currious about the flip on does size matter is all

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/25/2006 3:43:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		...and have you figured out the answer to your question yet?  Obviously, for the guy who clangs around in there like some bell-clapper size MIGHT matter.  For a guy who has a hard time finding a girl who 'fits'...one with a grand hall might fit like a glove!  <shrugs>  It's all relative, no?
 
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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/25/2006 3:46:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		thats all good. as long as all are happy thats great. Just was currious cause the male was at fault. seems to be enough male bashing on some of the boards. just wanted to see if I could lob the ball into the other court.

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RE: If Size Matters... - 9/25/2006 3:51:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		Oh, I am so sorry Zumala. I too am a LEG MAN, and guess that is one of the reasons I like Ballet so much....LONG LEGS in Tights....or Fishnet Tights would even be better yet.

Now I am quite small (Boo Hoo Hoo), but when it wakes up, it grows to twice the size. I most of the time use my fingers, as I am better off that way, being able to hit my Bunny Muffins SPOT, and making her happy more that just once, which would happen if I used my Little Boy.

Now where are those Ballerina Legs at?, BalletBob

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