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LadyEllen -> RE: CM is wonderful.. but, where else do you look? (9/25/2006 6:22:04 PM)

Pleased to report after in after a night out in Wolverhampton (pronounced Wool-vur-ramton), which is just outside Birmingham, England.

Didnt even go looking and had three after me. It seems the menfolk of Wolverhampton are desperate!

Still, of all the sites I've used, this is definitely the best and most productive.

E




CuriouslyKat -> RE: CM is wonderful.. but, where else do you look? (9/25/2006 6:36:19 PM)

*fast reply*

I am not looking right now, but I like to hang out different places. [:D]

I am on here, b.com, I used to be on matchdoctor and adultmatchdoctor...good free sites. I tried alt, but did not really like it.   I lurk on LJ and yahoo and Usenet groups and everywhere else I roll is of vanilla interest.

I also used to chat on phone dating chat lines....every once in a while you here men on there looking for someone "very submissive". [;)]

ETA: I am working up the courage to go to a local group I found...lol..just have to stop being so shy. 




Lashra -> RE: CM is wonderful.. but, where else do you look? (9/25/2006 6:50:51 PM)

Online games, sounds wierd? Yup but thats where I met my last two subs. Everquest I and Star Wars Galaxies. In fact if your into Gor(which I definitely am NOT), Star Wars Galaxies has a guild of them.

~Lashra




SweetSarijane -> RE: CM is wonderful.. but, where else do you look? (9/25/2006 6:57:46 PM)

<fast reply>

I'm here, b.com (though I rarely pop over there...like it here better.), myspace, yahoo 360, Live Journal, MSN My Space. I also go to parties, get togethers, brunches, lunches in my local groups. I'm not currently looking for a relationship as I am in the process of building one. I like blogging/journalling and reading and posting in interesting forums and learning.




RiotGirl -> RE: CM is wonderful.. but, where else do you look? (9/25/2006 7:08:37 PM)

dur i dunno where i'm at.. i forget half the time....

i know i'm on b.com.. but i rarely go over there.. and umm i have a myspace and a LJ.. and slaveregister.. and um..

i hav a yahoo profile.. which i change to suit my mood (like everything else) and an aol profile.. but i dun go there much either...

and i know i've joined tons of groups.. but dur.. i forget about em half the time.. and at the mo.. the only one i can think of is ADH which i'm a member of but i dun go to cos itsr really a no no...

and um.. i'm sort of getting involved in the local tampa scene and eventually i will incorporate getting involved in the orlando scene (which is more like my area) and prolly after that i'll see about getting involved in the melbourne scene if there is one..

and um.. all the sites i'm listed on.. i have the passwords/sites listed on a word document..

then of course there is all the school sites i have to be on....   oh there's another.. whats that one.. Facebook!  Ooooh and i recently joined plentyoffish.com which is REALLY interesting.. boy oh boy.. some real hotties on there!  Tho i joined up to offer support for a friend (at least that sounds good)

and i know i have randomly joined some Gor sites.. but i dun remember what or where.. and some gor yahoo groups.. same with the memory there.. oh hell and i've joined D/s M/s groups all over.. and there is one tpe site that i joined that i never go too...

edited to say - but i'm not looking, i'm just screwing around




LTRsubNW -> RE: CM is wonderful.. but, where else do you look? (9/25/2006 7:11:56 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

Pleased to report after in after a night out in Wolverhampton (pronounced Wool-vur-ramton), which is just outside Birmingham, England.

Didnt even go looking and had three after me. It seems the menfolk of Wolverhampton are desperate!

Still, of all the sites I've used, this is definitely the best and most productive.

E


Hon...you're a chic...and while the OP is a chic...let's be honest...you're a chic...(it is a tad easier).




akisha -> RE: CM is wonderful.. but, where else do you look? (9/25/2006 7:30:24 PM)

I've been on bondage.com for about 7 years and have lots of friends that I met through there. I'm on alt though my profile is deactivated, reading the forums there and talking to the few people i did it just seems like a f*ck fest over there but i have heard success stories coming from that site. i'm on probably 7 yahoo groups that are local or semi local to me. Always nice to be a member of a group if you travel a bit *S*

It was a friend on b.com that sent me here and so far i've met the most interesting nice people here and the forums are the best here on collarme.




mgdartist -> RE: CM is wonderful.. but, where else do you look? (9/25/2006 7:40:00 PM)

area14.com

new and pretty small as of yet, but free like cm.




JerseyKrissi72 -> RE: CM is wonderful.. but, where else do you look? (9/25/2006 8:07:53 PM)

I met my late Master in an msn chat room ..I have met alot of nice people from msn chat rooms...I met one person from ALT and I would NOT recommend that site to anyone unless you want some psycho showing up on your door step lol




Master96 -> RE: CM is wonderful.. but, where else do you look? (9/25/2006 11:13:03 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DigitBox

The library, museum, art gallery, computer clubs, photograpy clubs.  If a potential partner and I have mutual interests in art, science, and history then that's the good places to bump into them.

I mean what are the chances that I'd meet another kinkster in a vanilla setting.  One never knows.



The best places to find a slave for me.

Master96,




eyesopened -> RE: CM is wonderful.. but, where else do you look? (9/26/2006 2:18:56 AM)

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ORIGINAL: popeye1250

I was on ALT.com for the longest time and never got 1 message!
Then I started examining the site and noticed that there's a ratio of TWENTY to ONE (20 to 1) Males to females on that site!
Don't waste your money on that site!!!


i still have a profile on alt although i only visit on rare occassions.  Don't let the stats fool You, Popeye, once you delete the HNGs, the male subs, and the nigerian money scams there are a LOT more subs than Doms.  Alt does another dishonest thing, they never fully delete profiles so that they can look like they have a higher membership than is actually active, which also skews the stats.

i've made a promise to myself to get out to the munches and events.




popeye1250 -> RE: CM is wonderful.. but, where else do you look? (9/26/2006 6:32:05 AM)

Eyes, I don't mind paying money for something but I don't feel that ALT is worth the money.
I was on for about 3 years and not one woman e-mailed much less met?




sapphirepleasure -> RE: CM is wonderful.. but, where else do you look? (9/26/2006 6:54:05 AM)

CM is by far the one I focus on.  I still have a free profile on alt and get occasional emails, but for the most part they seem to be looking for just sex and not a relationship.  (However the one person I met on alt told me about CM, so that's a good thing.)  I used to be a member of several yahoo spanking groups when I thought that was my main interest but I eventually dropped them and focus on CM.  I scan the ads on Craigs List and have met a couple of people from there, both in the lifestyle and vanilla.




SirLordTrainer -> RE: CM is wonderful.. but, where else do you look? (9/26/2006 7:52:12 AM)

Never cared much for ALT as they seem to be more about $$ than the lifestyle IMO.. Boncom was good til they started charging for basic services. Area14 seems like it may be off to a good start. Other than that Ive been on yahoo for years as MasterMetallic.    To date, I think CM is the best




LadyMorgynn -> RE: CM is wonderful.. but, where else do you look? (9/26/2006 7:59:40 AM)

I was on alt for months, and never got any contacts there, plus I hated the graphics you're slapped with on every page YUCK!  I'm here on collarme and on femsupreme, but that's it.




HalloweenWhite -> RE: CM is wonderful.. but, where else do you look? (9/26/2006 8:26:52 AM)

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ORIGINAL: popeye1250

I was on ALT.com for the longest time and never got 1 message!
Then I started examining the site and noticed that there's a ratio of TWENTY to ONE (20 to 1) Males to females on that site!
Don't waste your money on that site!!!


Ive got a profile here and on ALT.com which seems to work a bit better than on here;Ive one or two "cyber friends", I almost met one (ex) cyber friend but she suddenly lost interest once she got round to looking at My profile.

I started going to munches, but that was really a disaster, eventually I stopped going to do something else. Have yet to try fetish fairs, demos-Im from blighty and its cold and wet most of the time so Ill go when it get a bit warmer (or I get too bored to wait that long).




stockingluvr54 -> RE: CM is wonderful.. but, where else do you look? (9/26/2006 9:18:27 AM)

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ORIGINAL: popeye1250

Eyes, I don't mind paying money for something but I don't feel that ALT is worth the money.
I was on for about 3 years and not one woman e-mailed much less met?


Ditto.... Bought the 1 year membership and I'm gonna let it expire




stockingluvr54 -> RE: CM is wonderful.. but, where else do you look? (9/26/2006 9:21:43 AM)

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ORIGINAL: twicehappy

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ORIGINAL: stockingluvr54

Seems crusty old bastards just aren't in high demand anymores (whaaaa....)


Hang in there bro, it seemed to me when i was shopping for long haired wrench throwing hard riding tattooed types all i found were suits, then, bam here they were.


Thanks for the encouragement Twice! Don't mind me tho....I was just sniveling again.......take care!




jesskitty -> RE: CM is wonderful.. but, where else do you look? (9/26/2006 2:07:19 PM)

i like these questions, there somewhat survey/quiz like but leaves room for discussion. :) i have a profile here obviously and i have another one on bondage dot com but it seems like that website is dead in the sense that there's no real interaction there especially if your new..but i love seeing the new recipie tips they give there and that that's one of the only places i really see that has groups specifically for ageplayers. i have one on alt but that's only there so i can blog and because of the friends i made there, otherwise i would've deleted that one months ago.lol, my last profile is one that's more specifically for ageplayer/ab/dl type of people. so i guess in a sense i'm a little bit here and a little bit there.




jesskitty -> RE: CM is wonderful.. but, where else do you look? (9/26/2006 2:17:23 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SweetSarijane

<fast reply>

I'm here, b.com (though I rarely pop over there...like it here better.), myspace, yahoo 360, Live Journal, MSN My Space. I also go to parties, get togethers, brunches, lunches in my local groups. I'm not currently looking for a relationship as I am in the process of building one. I like blogging/journalling and reading and posting in interesting forums and learning.

hum..i never really heard of people finding partners via livejournal. to me that's more a place where you just talk about your day or topics, like myspace..though i have heard about people getting together on myspace but i haven't really heard alot of it. i think myspace secretly is a bdsm website, i never quite noticed until i saw but there are so many people into it there.  it's crazy but that's one of the reasons myspace is so great, it's so diverse.




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