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RE: the accidental dominant - 2/16/2005 4:28:30 PM

aliljaded1

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in my experience the people who had to prove how "Dom/me" they were usually end up showing me exactly the opposite. they lose perspective, control and credability w/me. You however have ALWAYS come across very in control and Alpha. w/out sounding pompas or rude.
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RE: the accidental dominant - 2/16/2005 4:30:20 PM

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quote:

You however have ALWAYS come across very in control and Alpha.

Midear Ali-

I hear that from time to time- but coming from you, it means something. Thank you.

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Lawrence

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RE: the accidental dominant - 2/17/2005 1:00:32 PM

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I'm new here so please take my comments with a grain of salt. :) I have always been a social dominant. I'm always in the middle of things and love to be involved. And I lead more often than not.

However, and possibly because of this, I have an intense desire to serve and be dominated. Do I want this 24/7? not right now. But probably a few days I week I would want to be my Master's slave. And there for his pleasure and ownership. Body and mind.

Does this make me a player? Maybe in some minds. However, it doesn't mean I wouldn't like to be 24/7. It just means that it's not feasible for us at this time.

Does my Master have dominant tendencies? In public, he is a social dominant. In private, he's just a likely as anyone else to laze around the house and forget to be my Master. He just needs to be reminded sometimes. And the rewards are there for him sexually. :) KWIM? lol

I dearly desire to be submissive to my Master. I consider myself his slave. Not in the truest sense of the word but in action.

I love to watch what others do in public. I point things out to Him that other people are doing that seem to be D/s or M/s. And he notices. He just needs a little push to take all of the control. :)

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