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Fertile days - 9/25/2006 8:25:37 PM   
benchthis


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Status: offline 		What if she wants to play on her fertile days?
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RE: Fertile days - 9/25/2006 8:33:58 PM   
WhyteRavenne


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Status: offline 		That's great, if you are trying to have children!  I'm assuming you were talking about sex, right?  If you are talking about just collar play during her cycle.. be a little gentle on the days when she is on menses (period), the body is a LOT more sensitive at that time...  During a womans fertile time of cycle, they are more sexually wanting and hormonal (heat).  If you don't want kidlings, just play safe sex.. vibrators, masturbation (mmmmMM), oral play.. etc.

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RE: Fertile days - 9/25/2006 8:35:02 PM   
WhyteRavenne


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Status: offline 		PS  I think this should have been posted under health

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RE: Fertile days - 9/25/2006 8:36:27 PM   
LTRsubNW


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What if she wants to play on her fertile days?


I've always been fortunate in that aspect...I'm always fertile.

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RE: Fertile days - 9/25/2006 8:48:56 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		UH then you play, or not?



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RE: Fertile days - 9/25/2006 9:00:03 PM   
perverseangelic


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Status: offline 		Why -wouldn't- you play? If you're trying ot have kids, great! If not, use protection. I think I'm missings omething from this question though.

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RE: Fertile days - 9/25/2006 9:02:50 PM   
mstrjx


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What if she wants to play on her fertile days?


Hmm.  Tough one.  Put condoms on the floggers?

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RE: Fertile days - 9/25/2006 9:17:39 PM   
babysburnin


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Status: offline 		Are you assuming We are most fertile during menstration? (not true). 

If it is a turn-off for you, then don't do it ... but it would be advisable to AT LEAST show some affection ... hugging, kissing, cuddling, etc.

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RE: Fertile days - 9/25/2006 9:41:02 PM   
Frank01


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sit in a hot tub for a few hours and cook your tadpoles to death-then go and play.

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RE: Fertile days - 9/26/2006 2:27:08 AM   
MsKatHouston


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Status: offline 		when she is fertile, which is typically not during her period, if you engage in sexual activity and do not want to empregnate her, a form of birth control, or multiple forms of birth control are in order.

If you are talking about playing on her period, what is your concern?  First, as the Dom you can decide whether or not you want to do this at all.  You can play or not.  You can keep her in various states of dress for her comfort.  You can make her tea and rub her feet.  I think you'd get some better answers if you elaborated on what the issue might be here and what specific concerns you may have.

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RE: Fertile days - 9/26/2006 3:23:19 AM   
Liannan


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Status: offline 		For prevention of pregnancy on fertile days...condoms, an assortment of other birth control products with and without hormones, have a vasectomy, or simply play in ways that don't involve any semen or per-ejaculate anywhere near the vagina.

Is it safe to scene during the fertile period and menstruation?  As far as I know.  Tolerances to strong sensation may vary on different days of the menstrual cycle.  Pregnancy would require quite a bit more caution. 

If as an above poster suggested, you are concerned about the mess of the first few days of the menstraul cycle (period, Aunt Flo, whatever you call it), pick a hormonal birth control that will supress menstruation (many can safely do this for quite a while) or have the female sub use an Instead (a flexible cup to catch menstrual fluid that rests just under the cervix and is not visible externally).  They're pretty much no fuss.  If your play includes vaginal intercourse, you will be happy to know that the Instead can be safely left in place during penetration and many men don't even feel that it is there. 


< Message edited by Liannan -- 9/26/2006 3:24:30 AM >

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RE: Fertile days - 9/26/2006 9:08:21 AM   
sweetnurseBBW


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Status: offline 		A woman is fertile when she ovulates. Menstration is the sloughing of the lining of the uterus and unfertilized egg. So extremely rarely is a woman fertile during menses. Ovulation occurs approximately 10-14 after menses. Yes this is a health question.

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RE: Fertile days - 9/26/2006 9:28:30 AM   
MisPandora


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What if she wants to play on her fertile days?

*hands him the little sex book that they gave us in 5th grade public school that talked about prophylactics and birth control and stuff*

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RE: Fertile days - 9/26/2006 9:35:00 AM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		I agree, by 49 years of age, you should know something about contraception and menstruation.  Yes, even if you are male, you should be informed.  When I was in grade school we learned about this stuff.

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RE: Fertile days - 9/26/2006 9:56:18 AM   
Mercnbeth


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What if she wants to play on her fertile days?


you have to get consent from her eggs?

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RE: Fertile days - 9/26/2006 9:59:50 AM   
SweetSarijane


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you have to get consent from her eggs?


ROFL  I loooove that! Thank you for the laugh!

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RE: Fertile days - 9/26/2006 10:26:22 AM   
playfulotter


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Status: offline 		i wouldn't take the guy who started this postings question seriously as he kept sending me emails that basically only said "Hey want to play?" and i finally told him what i thought of him.

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RE: Fertile days - 9/26/2006 10:38:09 AM   
happypervert


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Status: offline 		Does she have a fertile ass?

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RE: Fertile days - 9/26/2006 1:20:55 PM   
LaTigresse


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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

quote:

ORIGINAL: benchthis

What if she wants to play on her fertile days?


you have to get consent from her eggs?


Now that is some funny shit!!


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RE: Fertile days - 9/26/2006 7:59:33 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

quote:

ORIGINAL: benchthis

What if she wants to play on her fertile days?


you have to get consent from her eggs?
Chortle!!!.....BTW nice new pic!..Tempting

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