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RE: Myths... - 9/26/2006 3:19:43 PM

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I like the your quiet you must be submissive

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RE: Myths... - 9/26/2006 3:21:43 PM

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That if you wear sunglasses nobody can tell WHO you are or recognize you in a photo?

<laffin and waves to MasterC>

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RE: Myths... - 9/26/2006 3:22:22 PM

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Personally, the myth that annoys me the most is...My submissiveness does not define me as a person, it is a part of the whole package. I am not interchangable with other submissives.

Oh, and just because my Daddy isn't standing right there does not mean that I am now single. He just went to get us something to drink...I think I can hold myself back until then.

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RE: Myths... - 9/26/2006 3:22:47 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Bearlee

That if you wear sunglasses nobody can tell WHO you are or recognize you in a photo?

<laffin and waves to MasterC>

Is Master C here? I don't see him....

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RE: Myths... - 9/26/2006 3:23:26 PM

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That the master has all the responsibility.

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RE: Myths... - 9/26/2006 3:23:43 PM

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ROFLMAO...... is he wearing camo-wear?

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RE: Myths... - 9/26/2006 3:25:49 PM

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quote:

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ROFLMAO...... is he wearing camo-wear?

You must be talking about the rather strange looking guy in the sunglasses....

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RE: Myths... - 9/26/2006 3:27:54 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Bearlee

That if you wear sunglasses nobody can tell WHO you are or recognize you in a photo?

Then that begs the question.... WHO ARE YOU?? WHO AM I? WHO IS EVERYONE HERE????
'killing himself in laughter'.....
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RE: Myths... - 9/26/2006 3:28:20 PM

Bearlee

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<stepping back on track...>

Myth: That all submissives are flirts?

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RE: Myths... - 9/26/2006 3:30:52 PM

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That any of this really matters

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RE: Myths... - 9/26/2006 7:25:18 PM

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I can think of many but here are my favorite two;

1. When engaging in age play, little girls are always the submissive one (wickedly looking at my jump rope and jacks)

2. BDSM relationships rarely excel into a LTR.

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RE: Myths... - 9/26/2006 7:31:14 PM

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That I don't exist.

That I am confused about my identity.

That I don't understand "true" submission.

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RE: Myths... - 9/26/2006 8:14:00 PM

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That I'm either a great cross dresser or a transgendered person (meaning they think I'm biologically male).
That, just because I'm female and dominant, I must love to do guys up the butt.
That because I'm in the lifestyle and bi, I'll have sex with anything, including them...and their partner...at the same time.

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RE: Myths... - 9/26/2006 10:28:54 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MASTERRocker

quote:

ORIGINAL: Bearlee

That if you wear sunglasses nobody can tell WHO you are or recognize you in a photo?

Then that begs the question.... WHO ARE YOU?? WHO AM I? WHO IS EVERYONE HERE????
'killing himself in laughter'.....
MASTER Rocker

Who are you? Who am I?.....I think it was John Paul Sarta that once said.....how do you spell Sarta?

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RE: Myths... - 9/26/2006 10:39:17 PM

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That anything other than a vanilla relationship is odd, or against the norms of society.

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RE: Myths... - 9/27/2006 8:16:17 AM

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Deleted because I posted before finishing the thread and Bearlee beat me to it.

< Message edited by losttreasure -- 9/27/2006 8:19:17 AM >

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RE: Myths... - 9/27/2006 9:50:26 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SadistCpl4fslv

Who are you? Who am I?.....I think it was John Paul Sarta that once said.....how do you spell Sarta?

Jean-Paul Sartre. You're welcome.

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RE: Myths... - 9/27/2006 10:00:35 AM

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Myth:
Slaves are unthinking doormats

Truth - at least for this partiular slave:
That the ability to think and solve problems is a slave's greatest asset.

Myth:
All ____(fill in the blank)___ must do/be/think ___ (fill in the blank)____ in order to really be a Dom/sub/etc

Truth:
We are all unique individuals. A blanket statement is going to be wrong for at least some of the people.

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RE: Myths... - 9/27/2006 10:01:55 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

That I'm either a great cross dresser or a transgendered person (meaning they think I'm biologically male).
That, just because I'm female and dominant, I must love to do guys up the butt.
That because I'm in the lifestyle and bi, I'll have sex with anything, including them...and their partner...at the same time.

Master Fire

alike point - that a pre-op TS woman will want guys to seek her out because of the one part of her anatomy by which she is embarassed and disgusted. That it doesnt affect the guy's heterosexuality - because after all, she looks like a girl.

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RE: Myths... - 9/29/2006 11:31:29 AM

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That a woman with a strong personality and strong opinions must be a domme and/or cannot be a 'real' sub. That only subs who want a RT relationship are 'real' subs. That all subs are slaves. I'm pretty sure someone already posted about the strangely pervasive belief that all subs are bottoms (and/or that all bottoms are subs).

And, of course, there is the belief that everyone into wiitwd is poly and/or into having multiple partners. Someone else mentioned the belief that those of us into BDSM are automatically more self-aware and/or have a more 'evolved' sense of sexuality... I've also run into that attitude among poly folks, most often the ones who believe that poly is a more 'natural' lifestyle -- or even that monogamy is 'unnatural'.

As a strong, opinionated sub (but not a slave or a bottom) who's strictly monogamous in serious relationships (but not necessarily opposed to non-exclusive dating) and thinks that BDSM is nothing more than a matter of personal predilection, I find all these assumptions very annoying.

A friend once told me, upon finding out I'm a sub, that he couldn't imagine anyone being able to dominate me. I replied, "Yeah, that's kind of the problem." By which I don't mean that I'm impossible to dominate, but that some doms assume I will be. I'll submit for a dom I consider worthy of the gift of my submission. Everyone else gets my everyday persona, no matter how they identify. And as far as I'm concerned, any dom who finds that unacceptable definitely has some evolving to do.

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